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On two occations I turned down men. One I turned down because he seemed to want a fling, and another because I disagreed with his beliefs. I simply told them I didn't want to see or talk(one of them was actually from online) with them anymore. Immediately, I was told that they enjoyed the time spent with me, but that I was weird anyway, on both occasions. I guess part of me is looking for a guy's idea of what a weird girl is supposed to be like. And do men, or women for that matter, like to hurt someone because they can't get them? Has anyone ever had that experience?

My face really ugly??? That why I have never get any messages from member here???

We always miss a very special someone in life only for 2 reasons


“Either that person was sometime with you (or) You always wanted 2 be with that person”

"It's good to have the purpose at the end of the travel, but in the end it is a travel is a purpose".

Night easily I can see dreams some people tells they don’t see any thing…

All my dreams come true in my life … its not dream actually ….before my sleep I can get some time to think … … but what I think that become true in my life …………….

I don't really understand,what is going on with that? Well lke people say age is only an number but to some people it isn't what do you guys think about that?

One of my young colleges came to office crying today,and could not start work. We all were worried a bout her. By mid day I asked her what happened, and as I expected, she answered it is my boyfriend he has been playing with my feelings and dating other girls too! So I felt sad for her, deep in me I was saying *welcome to real world*!!
Later her boyfriend appeared .so I called him aside and asked him, *why have you been playing with her feelings, she loves you so much, we were getting ready for your wedding party*?
So he answered, some one else played with me before too and hurt me badly…!!
Now I face a tough decision as to whether or not to put up a wall. Do I want to get hurt again? I feel like I'm always the nice guy and getting hurt. So should I continue to risk opening up to these girls just to be burned again? How and when will I know a girl is serious? Maybe now that I'm afraid to get wounded I will run from commitment.

Now what comes along with the fear of commitment? The fear of finding the right person. How do I know I found her? I thought the first girl was the one. Wrong. I thought the second girl could have been the one. Wrong again. So how do I know?

There is only one thing I can do now. I will date different girls and see which one is the right one for me. I will let the girls know that I am only dating at the moment. That means if I meet a girl I think I might be attracted to I will ask for her number. Yes, I am dating other girls, but I am dating. I am not playing. It is there choice to stay in the situation or not. If a girl leaves and I think she was worth keeping I may have to make a tough choice.

Now I choose to tell the girls I am only dating. Other guys may choose not to say that.
So guys what do you think? Who is right and who is mistaken??

i feel like don't suit very well with my being, no no ..i'm not depressing or so , is just this make me think many and many times ,for example i have a LOT of friends ,but i really "feel" inside i don't suit with them, untill i was little was always going around with my more older cousines, and his friends , maybe is this i growing up to fast? i feel more good with people mature ,i don't know why ,but i'm at ease (is that spelled right? )
i'm strange?

...why people seem to care SO MUCH to difference of age? (with this question i don't mean s*x, but friendship of course and in general life)

- and even ... if there is a sympathy (liking) people easilly "give-up" ,"becouse the mind is impressed by that "! -

don't you think ? i'm glad to hear every comments from everybody ,man ,woman ,old ,and young (of course )

thank you very much

Why do people hurt someone and end up saying soory the next day. Why do people say i love you and later say i'm soory i dont mean what i said.
Why do people leave you eventhough you want them so badly that later on go back to your life after several months and say he wnts you back...
Why do people love and end up hurting?

Why?
I wish of a dream life but then i realize its not like that in the real world... In the real world life is different from the one you always dream about...