Blogs (62,486)

Incompatible, it don't matter though
'cos someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You're not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me
Or maybe you're in disguise

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There's enough for everyone
But I'm still waiting in line

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

If there's a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

For those of you that live in NJ or love to visit the AC. Robin Thicke will be performing at the House of Blues on July 18th. Start time is 8pm.

Jenna aka Maiwyn

Dear Ones; It is the littlest things in life that can make all the difference in the world. You can make great strides and make differences in your life, in your world. It starts with one single step, and that step lies within you. Love and joy are all that is needed to make a difference. You are the difference you want in your world. Never expect your happiness to flow from someone else. Happiness knows no other like the kind word or gesture that you may have for another. To find the true happiness in your heart you must first enjoy you, for you are the only one that can make you happy. Only you knows what triggers happiness in your heart. You can not make others happy, they must make themselves happy. Happiness is within them. They are the only ones who knows how that should feel. Each being on the planet lives in their own world. Connected to a larger one. ~ AA Ariel ~



Please use your discernment with these messages,
and pass along to anyone you think might benefit.
Copyright © - Angelyn 2009

Six Tools for Happiness
Adapted from What Happy People Know, by Dan Baker, Ph.D. and Cameron Stauth (Rodale Press, 2003).

We all want to be happy, but most of us are trapped by ways of thinking and behaving that seem to keep us perpetually dissatisfied.
But there are six simple tools that will help us to be truly, deeply happy. Find out what they are:
1. Appreciation.
This is the first and most fundamental happiness tool. Appreciation is the purest, strongest form of love. It is the outward-bound kind of love that asks for nothing and gives everything. Research now shows that it is physiologically impossible to be in a state of appreciation and a state of fear at the same time. Thus, appreciation is the antidote to fear.
2. Choice.
Choice is the root of freedom and the voice of the heart. Having no choices, or options, feels like being in jail. It leads to depression, anxiety, and the condition called learned helplessness. Choice can even govern perception. Anyone can choose the course of their lives, but only happy people do it.
3. Personal power
This is the almost indefinable proactive force, similar to character, that gives you power over your feelings and power over your fate. Personal power has two components: taking responsibility and taking action. It means realizing that your life belongs to you and you alone, and then doing something about it. Personal power keeps you from being a victim.
4. Leading with your strengths.
When you give in to the automatic fear reaction, it makes you focus on your weaknesses, which only reinforces your fear. But when you take the path of the intellect and spirit, you naturally begin to focus on your strengths–and start to solve your situation. People often think that fixing their weaknesses will save them, but it rarely works. It’s just too painful. Leading with your strengths feels good, and that’s why it works. Simple but true.
5. The power of language and stories.
We don’t describe the world we see–we see the world we describe. Language, as the single most fundamental force of the human intellect, has the power to alter perception. We think in words, and these words have the power to limit us or to set us free; they can frighten us or evoke our courage. Similarly, the stories we tell ourselves about our own lives eventually become our lives. We can tell healthy stories or horror stories. The choice is ours.
6. Multidimensional living.
There are three primary components of life: relationships, health, and purpose (which is usually work). Many people, though, put all their energy into just one area. The most common choice is work, because work best assuages our survival fears of not having enough and not being enough. Other people become obsessed with relationships (because relationship is another word for love), and some people limit their lives in the name of longevity. None of this works. Happiness comes from a full life.

Good way to get back intamicy. Its intense, no nudity so don't worry.



Just copy and paste if it doesn't hyerlink.

Enjoy!!

Heart Meditation
The ache of loss is difficult to bear, and often the worst part is the fear that nothing exists behind the ache except a void. Know that emptiness is an illusion. No matter how much you have suffered, your soul sees you as whole.
Affirm today that you share this vision and have the intention to allow the light of spirit to come in and fill any voids it may find. To aid in this repair, close your eyes and see white light surrounding you like a bubble or cocoon. Visualize the light filling the entire space within you, seeking out rifts, tears, holes, and gaps. Ask for these to be completely filled with light.
One of the worst parts of suffering a great loss is the feeling of utter isolation. The problem of loneliness, which exists for countless people, requires deeper healing than simply seeking out company. Loneliness can happen in a crowd and may feel most intense when you find yourself alone on a packed city street.
As a child it was easier to cure loneliness, because the presence of a parent was enough to offer reassurance. As an adult, loneliness becomes more existential – it feels as if you have been abandoned, yet you cannot say by whom.
Invite spirit in with a meditation on the heart. Sit quietly for a moment, placing your attention on your heart, at the center of your chest under the breastbone. When you are settled, repeat the word “peace” silently, and see its influence radiating out from your body in all directions. Do this three times, and then say the word “happiness” the same way. Repeat three times, then go on to “harmony,” “laughter,” and “love.”
Sit quietly for a few minutes after each session with eyes closed and simply appreciate the simplicity of quiet awareness. End it by sitting quietly and asking to be allowed into the refuge of your heart. Feel your heart as a soft, warm enclosure; settle there with your attention, and rest as long as you wish. If you repeat this technique enough times, you will find that the presence of spirit is very real and accessible.



Adapted from The Deeper Wound: Recovering the Soul from Fear and Suffering, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2001).

Messages of Light are emailed to me from my dear friend Angelyn who is a master at many spiritual things. She is an Angelologist and these reflect messages she receives from Angels. ENJOY!!

Dear Ones; It is important for you to be in love with the moment. Each moment is vital to inner growth, to share, and be one with light and love. It affects your life as a whole, it affects you. Your life is a succession of moments and each is to live, each is to succeed. What moments are you choosing to live, what moments make you happy. For all your moments should make you happy. When you live in the moment you are truly living within the person you have become. If you are not living for the happiest moments, then chose your happiness. Now more than ever in this life, chose to be happy. You can not live for moments that happened in your past. Those are gone, and the future has yet to be created. Live for today. The moment of each day, the life you choose to live is your own. Be happy, be the love you are, and the love you want to give. I love you all ~ AA Jophial ~




Please use your discernment with these messages,
and pass along to anyone you think might benefit.
Copyright © - Angelyn 2009

Religion as Irrelevant
by Deepak Chopra

The way of peace doesn’t claim that God must be a pacifist. The gulf between pacifist and warmonger belongs in our psychology, not in the nature of God. Divine schizophrenia can be overcome by seeing certain spiritual truths and holding on to them.
God isn’t a person. We cannot read his mind. The essence of God is consciousness. Consciousness can be used for either violence or peace; the choice is ours.
When it is expanded, human consciousness chooses non-violence since that is compatible with love.
If these principles are valid, then God doesn’t have to jump into the middle of human affairs. He stands for the pure essence of life and love. For me to solve my personal anguish over war, I must transform my consciousness until violence is no longer an option. By now this is a familiar argument. Millions of people understand it. Why should religion hold back?
It shouldn’t. It doesn’t have to. If any religion would make the same choice to join the way of peace that individuals are making every day, faith would be a living force once again. What kind of changes does this entail? You already know them as they apply to you, but let’s be explicit.
Religion must place the responsibility for violence squarely where it belongs, in the mind of every person. It must stop judging others outside the faith as sinners condemned by God. It must stop defending war in any way. It must stop claiming to be the one and only path to God. It must give up its arrogance and claim to authority. It must renounce its covert greed and desire for power. It must discover how to return love to its true place of primacy.
These changes may not occur in our lifetime, but we cannot pretend that they are merely optional.
Adapted from: Peace Is the Way, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2005).

This guy sends me an IM and asks " what are you wearing?"
I burst out laughng, this is so old! Can't guys come up with anything original?

What am I wearing? A dustbin and a frying pan, that's what! Jeesh.

hello friends at cs,it's me dondon67.yes it is the title of a great song.TI talks of change of actions,ways of thinking,and of lifestyle.well i'm now at the same cross-road but in a different light.for me it is past emotions,missed-up relations,and the thinking of what i thought love was.you see friendsjust when you put list and rules on what the someone should be or not be,then you miss out on a good thing.you can't take someone and put he or she in a perfect little box in your world because he or she has got to be this or that.evenif you veiw the menu and place the order it still gets messed up.you see no-one on earth is perfect yes i said no-one.if you do not put things in order it will not work,you have start with you and get your mind right.you need to work on you and have a plan,then your heart has to be in the right place also.things you can't control give it to god and let him fix it.and you have to change the playing field and expand your veiw.keep fishing in the same murky dark water,you keep catching the same stinky fish.change the bait and move to a different pond,you see i did that and i prayed for what i need not what i wanted.and just like a shot to the ear hole of a helmet,blind-sided he lead me right to her.never crossed my mind to look at her in that light but now i can't even think of nothing but her and her in my life.she is coming to visit,and i don't share sorry.he may come when you call but when he does it is always right on time,he may not give you what you want but it is always what you need.thanks to all whom have been here since jump street,god bless dondon