Are we looking for the perfect mate instead of a real person? (80)
venere08: Good for you, P! Hope that's soon.
Bought myself a good book on giving up..... just gonna get Xmas out of the way.... and then its gone... for good.
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
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Englishman55: Bought myself a good book on giving up..... just gonna get Xmas out of the way.... and then its gone... for good.
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
Good for you... EM... you can follow Jeeps lead... he has managed it... should be my turn soon... OMG what have I said..
Night EM... work for me in the morn. Ciao...
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Englishman55: Bought myself a good book on giving up..... just gonna get Xmas out of the way.... and then its gone... for good.
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
Each time your thoughts turn to the ususal ciggy, turn to something more positive and constructive instead.
I know you can think of a few alternative behaviours.
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Englishman55: Bought myself a good book on giving up..... just gonna get Xmas out of the way.... and then its gone... for good.
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
I am fed up with being unhealthy !
Well done mate thats good to hear, you have my full support
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steve6610: Well done mate thats good to hear, you have my full support
oh be quiet
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venere08: Each time your thoughts turn to the ususal ciggy, turn to something more positive and constructive instead.
I know you can think of a few alternative behaviours.
I know you can think of a few alternative behaviours.
I can and do think of alternatives, but everytime I need a ciggy to calm myself down
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Englishman55: I can and do think of alternatives, but everytime I need a ciggy to calm myself down
OK, then
it's time to ...Take a few slowwwwww, deeeeep breaths................and say .......Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......
There. Feel better?
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navygirl1: I think it depends on what you are looking for. For example I don't think looks, and a perfect body are important. I want a man with a good heart and one that is going to be my best friend. I want to feel comfortable around him and just be myself. I see older men wanting kids, a certain type of body, a certain education, a certain height, etc. I think if you are too specific or picky; of course you won't be a good match to many women. I am a basic gal and looking for a basic guy. Looks, body, and money are not an issue with me, but that is just my opinion for what it is worth.
Exactly
Throw caution to the four winds and see what happens. It is IMO a mistake to invent a stereotype for a partner. The best relationships I've had have been the last coupling my friends could imagine. No expectations and no demands. Just see what happens with whomever BTW, you look damn cute in that uniform
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LoveableOne: oh be quiet oops wasnt meant to think that not type it
well that was so intelligent
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steve6610: well that was so intelligent
Yea wasnt it
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venere08: OK, then it's time to ...Take a few slowwwwww, deeeeep breaths................and say .......Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......
There. Feel better?
There. Feel better?
I like slow deep breath.... thats what I imagine when I try to take my mind off the ciggies
You just saying that
..... I think I need one now ! 
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Englishman55: I like slow deep breath.... thats what I imagine when I try to take my mind off the ciggies
You just saying that ..... I think I need one now !
You just saying that ..... I think I need one now !
Oh, no!
It seems that talking to Ven, is not good for your health!
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venere08: Never settle for LESS than what you really want. We're not talking about pie in the sky 'wants', but at the same time, giving in to wshat really are your 'non negotiables', doesn't work well in the end. JMO.
Well spoken
Key word for every relationships. The reality of being together 24/7 for the rest of life will expose the reality of our real needs and wants. The perfection in those situation is ( as kid said) Figuratevly speaking of course ... when you poke someone, a "back at you" reaction is positive.
Selfisness, arrogance, indifference and abcense of sense of humour will kill even the greatest Love feeling.
The biggest destroyer of relationships is a variety of simple things such as habbits
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venere08: Never settle for LESS than what you really want. We're not talking about pie in the sky 'wants', but at the same time, giving in to wshat really are your 'non negotiables', doesn't work well in the end. JMO.
Key word
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itsallme112: When I look at the number of women I met and thought they were not a good match, I question if my expectations were too high. Likewise, myself selected as not a good match by others. Are our fantasies taking the place of reality?
Your intuitive feelings won't mislead you.
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Blues63: Exactly Throw caution to the four winds and see what happens. It is IMO a mistake to invent a stereotype for a partner. The best relationships I've had have been the last coupling my friends could imagine. No expectations and no demands. Just see what happens with whomever BTW, you look damn cute in that uniform
You are too kind.
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Big_John: Why shoot for the bottom to start with....luck is what we all need. Finding someone is hard whether you choose to find a 'perfect one' or anyone.
I agree with you. All we need is a little bit of luck! Just luck! Sometimes I felt that every time I joined a dating site, I'm playing the lottery trying to win the jackpot or at least the 2nd prize. And sometimes I think that dating is like a gamble, you win or you lose and I feel that I'm laying all my cards and still no luck!!
While others found their s/o so I always asked myself why they are so lucky? 
Now I'm wondering if my luck will come or not, or just delayed. 
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StressFree: Your intuitive feelings won't mislead you.
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Ciao Bella and thankyou..... so are you !