Is it too much to ask?? ( Locked) (199)

Apr 12, 2011 4:14 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I think deep down you know the answer yourself.

Good luck wine
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:15 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
muchachito
muchachitomuchachitoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada10 Threads 165 Posts
whouuhg

religions really sucks

I belong to two unions
and 3 religions
in Canada I'm Catholic
when I go to my home country I'm christian
and when I go out with My friends,we dance with the devils

women,alcohol and drugs sometimes make men behave a bit weir
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:15 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Bental: You are joking of course.

I was thinking of anything but that. Anyways, you look just right to me.

laugh Actually its true.
But ty dear hug
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:15 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Amity: Nope...just showing my lack of breasts! bit of a dare..
how dare yougrin
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:28 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
paulo1174
paulo1174paulo1174Gold Coast, Queensland Australia12 Posts
He is without a doubt with another woman. I'm sorry but the whole "too busy with the family" line is an old one.
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:29 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
Emerold99
Emerold99Emerold99Gympie, Queensland Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 121 Posts
What an arsehole! You are being played like a fiddle. Get up and go girl! You can do way better than that jerk.

Oh and also, don't change who you are to please anyone else. If they can't accept you as you are then they're not worth your time.
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:47 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
ltlredcorvette: I have to commend you for saying that Freddie. I feel that this poor, confused woman is looking for a bit of reassurance and guidance and has pretty much been slapped in the face, I have to echo soneone elses post on another page and say what happened to compassion and understanding? evberyone says they would do that or this in said situation, but really they have no idea how it feels or what goes on. I can relate to this woman purely from my own personal experience and because I know how hard it is to break away, I feel her pain and empathise because of that. Would it hurt anyone to be a little kinder in the way they put things to people?


I know what it's like to be cheated on, it's not a good feeling. Cheat on me once and there are no second chances. I walked away from that relationship because I couldn't trust her after that
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:51 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
dolphin1
dolphin1dolphin1Chester, Cheshire, England UK2 Threads 310 Posts
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!!
its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups.
He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!!
well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!!
what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.


You deserve much more, sounds like you give everything and recieve nothing back from this man. As for him cheating on you continually, he is a Rat with a capital R and wants to be able to have his cake and eat it. Dump him, get back your self respect and move on from him. One Chester lady to anothercomfort
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 4:54 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!!
its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups.
He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!!
well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!!
what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.


Seriously? I would never change my beliefs for anyone.... as for cheating, I know what that feels like, dump him..... he is not worth it.
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:02 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
MISSEY8: I am still here everyone and i am so gratefull for all your advice and support and i an thinking of it seriously. your all right i sit here waiting for him to call me when it suits him and not when its suits me. i know i need to get out and enjoy myself again and that i plan on doing he has had 4 failed marriages and his last 2 marriages only lasted 1yr each so it goes to show you that not all the women were to blame but the way he treats them that is the blame.
i will do my best to move on and sort this out.
Thank you all .x



can't you see he just likes taste testing every thing.... lol

He's no good for anyone !!!!!!!!
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:10 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
flamelily
flamelilyflamelilyGuarda, Viana do Castelo Portugal25 Posts
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!!
its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups.
He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!!
well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!!
what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.
He doesn't love you and he doesn't respect you. Leave him at once!! There is someone out there that will truly appreciate you. Don't waste anymore time with this person.
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:17 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
What does this guy have to keep you attracted ???????


Money ?
Looks ?

Do you just want what you can't have ?

Is this your first love ? Why are you so stuck ?

This is unusual ?


confused
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:17 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
In response to: what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me?


You are joking of course...aren't you???


dunno
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:20 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
bodleing: You are joking of course...aren't you???


Maybe.........I do think the Lady has already made up her mind though by being on a singles site dunno grin

wave
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:26 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
vinny1967: Maybe.........I do think the Lady has already made up her mind though by being on a singles site


I don't know Vinny, why do some people have to seek assurance of the bleedin obvious!!!


doh
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:31 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
bodleing: I don't know Vinny, why do some people have to seek assurance of the bleedin obvious!!!


Nowt as queer as folk laugh

I do know what its like to love someone and get treated badly though. Sometimes we just live in hope instead of reality.

cheers
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:36 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
vinny1967: Nowt as queer as folk

I do know what its like to love someone and get treated badly though. Sometimes we just live in hope instead of reality.



Or in denial...sigh


Big night tonight for my lads eh Vinny.grin


cheers
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:37 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
Envy51
Envy51Envy51Meath, Ireland66 Threads 4 Polls 1,631 Posts
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!!
its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups.
He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!!
well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!!
what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.


How much respect and honesty do you have for you?. If you step outside yourself and read back your own post you will find the answers you seek IMO..............sad flower Good luck wave
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:44 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
bodleing: Or in denial... Big night tonight for my lads eh Vinny.


Yep, I can see a Utd /Barcelona final.

Altho I have a feeling Torres could do something special tonight. We can live in hope laugh

cheers
------ This thread is Locked ------
Apr 12, 2011 5:46 AM CST Is it too much to ask??
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Yep, I can see a Utd /Barcelona final.

Altho I have a feeling Torres could do something special tonight. We can live in hope[/quote]

Bit like the OP eh?



giggle
------ This thread is Locked ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is locked

This Thread is locked by Staff and does not allow replies.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #316

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here