I belong to two unions and 3 religions in Canada I'm Catholic when I go to my home country I'm christian and when I go out with My friends,we dance with the devils
women,alcohol and drugs sometimes make men behave a bit weir
Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
ltlredcorvette: I have to commend you for saying that Freddie. I feel that this poor, confused woman is looking for a bit of reassurance and guidance and has pretty much been slapped in the face, I have to echo soneone elses post on another page and say what happened to compassion and understanding? evberyone says they would do that or this in said situation, but really they have no idea how it feels or what goes on. I can relate to this woman purely from my own personal experience and because I know how hard it is to break away, I feel her pain and empathise because of that. Would it hurt anyone to be a little kinder in the way they put things to people?
I know what it's like to be cheated on, it's not a good feeling. Cheat on me once and there are no second chances. I walked away from that relationship because I couldn't trust her after that
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!! its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups. He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!! well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!! what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.
You deserve much more, sounds like you give everything and recieve nothing back from this man. As for him cheating on you continually, he is a Rat with a capital R and wants to be able to have his cake and eat it. Dump him, get back your self respect and move on from him. One Chester lady to another
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!! its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups. He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!! well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!! what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.
Seriously? I would never change my beliefs for anyone.... as for cheating, I know what that feels like, dump him..... he is not worth it.
MISSEY8: I am still here everyone and i am so gratefull for all your advice and support and i an thinking of it seriously. your all right i sit here waiting for him to call me when it suits him and not when its suits me. i know i need to get out and enjoy myself again and that i plan on doing he has had 4 failed marriages and his last 2 marriages only lasted 1yr each so it goes to show you that not all the women were to blame but the way he treats them that is the blame. i will do my best to move on and sort this out. Thank you all .x
can't you see he just likes taste testing every thing.... lol
flamelilyGuarda, Viana do Castelo Portugal25 Posts
flamelilyGuarda, Viana do Castelo Portugal25 posts
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!! its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups. He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!! well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!! what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.
He doesn't love you and he doesn't respect you. Leave him at once!! There is someone out there that will truly appreciate you. Don't waste anymore time with this person.
MISSEY8: I have been with a guy for 3yrs now, He is Jewish and I recentky finished my conversion to Judaism to make my relationship with him easier. I love being jewish its not about that what it is about is the way he treats me still as a person and as his supposed to be his better half!! its been a long haul with him of lots of downs than ups. He has cheated on me 3 times twice over the net and once with an actual person sent over by his family to see if he really does want me or a real jewish woman, in that time he nastily dumped me and broke my heart and told me to wait for him for 4wks till he decided my fate if i was the one for him or not!!! well he made his decision in the end and came back to me. but every year at passover time and high holidays and yom kippur he does the same thing of saying he doesnt have time to speak to me at all and he really doesnt make that much of an effort to either! he has his family over from israel to america where he lives and i live here for now in UK. so he lives breathes and sleeps and eats for 4wks with his family but never has time to call via skype his girlfriend back home in England, he always says " i hope you understand i have the whole family here and i have to entertain and at some point i shall try and say hello to you but you know i am busy with them" so really i have to wait and i feel so worth less and not wanted by him when he says that to me that he can barely give me 2mins to say hello i miss you but he has plenty of time for facebook which he is always on.!! what shall i do? is he honest and does he respect and want me? I am on here as i thought maybe i should keep myself open to the possibility that there maybe someone out there for me if he doesnt want me.
How much respect and honesty do you have for you?. If you step outside yourself and read back your own post you will find the answers you seek IMO.............. Good luck
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