Is it too much to ask?? (199)
kidatheart: I don't get it either, seeing as the last time she was here she seemed so sure of herself, and confident.
That's the impression I got anyway.
That's the impression I got anyway.
Well there's a warning sign straight away.
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kidatheart: I don't get it either, seeing as the last time she was here she seemed so sure of herself, and confident.
That's the impression I got anyway.
That's the impression I got anyway.
Relationships can do that to us
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bodleing: Well there's a warning sign straight away.
vinny1967: Relationships can do that to us
Both good arguements against getting involved.
I'll stick to chaotic singledom.
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kidatheart: I don't get it either, seeing as the last time she was here she seemed so sure of herself, and confident.
That's the impression I got anyway.
That's the impression I got anyway.
Hi H,
I am not sure i am buying into this thread a 100% if i am completely honest. This post makes me very weary ..........
MISSEY8
chester, Clwyd, Wales UK
Its a horrid thought to be left in a religion that you convert to for love of another man. I could be a totaly wrong but .............!
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Envy51: Hi H,
I am not sure i am buying into this thread a 100% if i am completely honest. This post makes me very weary ..........
MISSEY8
chester, Clwyd, Wales UK
Its a horrid thought to be left in a religion that you convert to for love of another man. I could be a totaly wrong but .............!
I am not sure i am buying into this thread a 100% if i am completely honest. This post makes me very weary ..........
MISSEY8
chester, Clwyd, Wales UK
Its a horrid thought to be left in a religion that you convert to for love of another man. I could be a totaly wrong but .............!
Well there is the point that Chester is not in Wales...pretty close but still very much in England.
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bodleing: Well there is the point that Chester is not in Wales...pretty close but still very much in England.
No........ sorry, that was not the point i was making B
I was talking about the Op`s statement on converting religion .......
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bodleing: Well there is the point that Chester is not in Wales...pretty close but still very much in England.
My location is not accurate because the site does not have the options for me to be accurate.
Many people put silly things to hide their location for understandable security reasons.
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jac379: My location is not accurate because the site does not have the options for me to be accurate.
Many people put silly things to hide their location for understandable security reasons.
Many people put silly things to hide their location for understandable security reasons.
I still think that most of the people of Chester would be outraged at such an association.
Bloody Taffy's...
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MISSEY8: I am still here everyone and i am so gratefull for all your advice and support and i an thinking of it seriously. your all right i sit here waiting for him to call me when it suits him and not when its suits me. i know i need to get out and enjoy myself again and that i plan on doing he has had 4 failed marriages and his last 2 marriages only lasted 1yr each so it goes to show you that not all the women were to blame but the way he treats them that is the blame.
i will do my best to move on and sort this out.
Thank you all .x
i will do my best to move on and sort this out.
Thank you all .x
Look I know I sounded harsh last night, But I spoke honestly to you in the same manner I would to one of my girls. You have to wake up and own your part in this, or you will never be free...You are a beautiful young women with the world just waiting for you. But most importantly, you need to ask yourself why...Why are you doing this to yourself?? Thats what you have to look at. Dont waste one more minute of your precious life on this looser...For your own good, give yourself a shake. I know you cant see this right now, but in the future you will look back on this and realize, What the hell was I thinking. Please, for your own good. No more contact. Until you cut this completely off, and YOU are the one to do it, you cant even begin to heal. Carpe Diem...Take control. Take responsibility for your life, realise you are worth more than your selling yourself short for...I wish you luck
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you guys are brutal...
ever heard the term, love is blind???
give him the boot...
out the door with him...
you can do better...
blah blah...mostly all good advise, but when you love someone its not always that easy...
ever heard the term, love is blind???
give him the boot...
out the door with him...
you can do better...
blah blah...mostly all good advise, but when you love someone its not always that easy...
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venusenvy: Look I know I sounded harsh last night, But I spoke honestly to you in the same manner I would to one of my girls. You have to wake up and own your part in this, or you will never be free...You are a beautiful young women with the world just waiting for you. But most importantly, you need to ask yourself why...Why are you doing this to yourself?? Thats what you have to look at. Dont waste one more minute of your precious life on this looser...For your own good, give yourself a shake. I know you cant see this right now, but in the future you will look back on this and realize, What the hell was I thinking. Please, for your own good. No more contact. Until you cut this completely off, and YOU are the one to do it, you cant even begin to heal. Carpe Diem...Take control. Take responsibility for your life, realise you are worth more than your selling yourself short for...I wish you luck
Well said Venus....
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Lillym: course it aint easy..... nobody said it was been there done that
It takes something like this though to wake up and smell the roses, JMO
the cs wake up call...wack wackIt takes something like this though to wake up and smell the roses, JMO
i was reading this thread last night before i fell asleep and was feeling bad for the op...
its not that i disagree with anyone...i just think love hurts, its blind...its SAD
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venusenvy: Right now Cagey, this girl doesnt need a bunch of fluffy stuff...Thats what got her into this mess. She doesnt need tea and sympathy or someone to rub her tummy. She truly needs to give herself a shake. I raised 4 girls with straight-up common sense. If they came to me with a story like this I would shake them by the scruff ...just like Im trying to do here. She has got to leave the land of "what if" behind, its ruining her life. She is beautiful young and has a good heart. Shes just lost. The only way to see in the dark is with a very bright light. All the other vague fluff and stuff wont be remembered. My words I bet went straight to the heart. And will stick. Common sense goes a long way in this life...she needs to free herself with it now. If I didnt see hope for her, believe me, I wouldnt bother.
Excellent! This sort of reminds me of two old sayings on/ about love: "Whoever loved that loved not at first sight?",(Christopher Marlowe) and the modern comeback of "Love at first sight is cured by the second look"...the poor woman desperately needs that second look!
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cgedvr: the cs wake up call...wack wack
i was reading this thread last night before i fell asleep and was feeling bad for the op...
its not that i disagree with anyone...i just think love hurts, its blind...its SAD
i was reading this thread last night before i fell asleep and was feeling bad for the op...
its not that i disagree with anyone...i just think love hurts, its blind...its SAD
Cagey what would you say to one of your kids if they came to you in a situation like this?
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venusenvy: Hey Nans
Hey V!! How sad it this eh?? Don't you just want to grab her and shake her. Make her see all the good she can be without a loser like this!!! So frustrating
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venusenvy: Cagey what would you say to one of your kids if they came to you in a situation like this?
wack wack..."what the hell are you thinkin"...
ohhh...dumba** would be in there somewhere...you know me
sorry...just feeling bad/sad for op
and now i'm mad a leigh...makin me get out my dictionary this early in the morning...
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nanners2863: Hey V!! How sad it this eh?? Don't you just want to grab her and shake her. Make her see all the good she can be without a loser like this!!! So frustrating
Thats what Ive been trying to do Nans
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venusenvy: Thats what Ive been trying to do Nans
I hope she reads this and finds ways to become a stronger woman who knows her worth.------ This thread is Locked ------
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I don't get it either, seeing as the last time she was here she seemed so sure of herself, and confident.
That's the impression I got anyway.