maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Conorco: Perhaps you should consider writing a book on how you and your daddy made it good with no help from anyone
No one who has ever gone through hard times has ever made it out without help from someone.You either had friends and family or were given subsidies for free day care and subsidized housing.When you were out of food you went to food banks or people who you know helped you out by giving you food.Even working two minimum wage jobs will not get your head above water when you factor in all of your bills.
Can you not give any credit to people who try to stand on their own two feet in life and not drain the resources as others do.
I can of course I can, but i can't, in all conscience give credit to smug, narrow minded bigots, sorry.
If someone is born with the wherewith all to thrive and prosper through adversity thats great, its a pity all of those weren't also graced with the cop on to realise that not everyone shares their advantages.
kissmedeeply: The men(some) can walk out without any precussions but the women no matter how they support their children are the lazy ones..
What about the women walking out and leaving their children? It is not just men. It seems like everyone is all for hanging the dead beat fathers. But should we ignore all the many women that do same thing? No parent should be allowed to just skip
maryrachelle: No one who has ever gone through hard times has ever made it out without help from someone.You either had friends and family or were given subsidies for free day care and subsidized housing.When you were out of food you went to food banks or people who you know helped you out by giving you food.Even working two minimum wage jobs will not get your head above water when you factor in all of your bills.
Sorry,once again you are generalising.Many people have got it together again,without the help of others.Some had help,but not all.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Happygolucky4u: What about the women walking out and leaving their children? It is not just men. It seems like everyone is all for hanging the dead beat fathers. But should we ignore all the many women that do same thing? No parent should be allowed to just skip
She asked a question and i answered it...i know nothing about women walking out..but i do know father that has walked out..so i only speak on that..
Happygolucky4u: What about the women walking out and leaving their children? It is not just men. It seems like everyone is all for hanging the dead beat fathers. But should we ignore all the many women that do same thing? No parent should be allowed to just skip
No absolutely not! The consequenses should be equal regardless of gender
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
time4fun4u: Sorry,once again you are generalising.Many people have got it together again,without the help of others.Some had help,but not all.
If the bottom has truly fallen out of someones world then you would need some help to get back up.
I'm not talking about someone who has the money to pay for all they need already,who have friends and family,ex's who pay alimony and child support,but someone who is alone with no one to turn too.
Many people are lucky and their cases are not complicated by extra problems.
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
Conorco: I can of course I can, but i can't, in all conscience give credit to smug, narrow minded bigots, sorry.If someone is born with the wherewith all to thrive and prosper through adversity thats great, its a pity all of those weren't also graced with the cop on to realise that not everyone shares their advantages.
Gosh I don't believe it.So you think that what Englishelegance wrote was written by a smug,narrow minded bigot.
She tells you how her Father struggled to take care of his family,and you come back with those comments.Did you not read what she wrote.
As I have said before we all have a choice in life,which has absolutely nothing to do with one's circumstances. You can sit back and expect to be provided for,or you can get off your backside and do something about it. Simples.
BB_snickers: There are consequences but it's a logistical legal, bureaucratic nightmare.
And if the dead beat mom/dad isn't working you get no help at all.
I feel if there were any real consequenses, then you better believe the majority would belly up to the trough in a hurry. Heaven forbid some unwanted child should impact somebodies credit rating
kissmedeeply: She asked a question and i answered it...i know nothing about women walking out..but i do know father that has walked out..so i only speak on that..
Then you are truely a blessed woman if you have not seen this. There are many motherless households here. And many wonderfull men making the sacrifice to raise their children
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
bestbefore: Gosh I don't believe it.So you think that what Englishelegance wrote was written by a smug,narrow minded bigot.
She tells you how her Father struggled to take care of his family,and you come back with those comments.Did you not read what she wrote.
As I have said before we all have a choice in life,which has absolutely nothing to do with one's circumstances. You can sit back and expect to be provided for,or you can get off your backside and do something about it. Simples.
Best one can only make allowances for this mans sheer lack of intelligence...
Happygolucky4u: Actually they do loose their drivers license when they are a few months behind. And if they are found can be arrested till they come up with a little bit of money as a down payment on child support owing. And it does not matter when the child turns of age you still get to collect the back child support. The problem is with the collecting. They do not make finding these runaway abandoning parents a priority and then these children are suffering with their needs not being met It should not be that way.
Well, and the worst part is, Its the mothers that get blamed for it
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Can you not give any credit to people who try to stand on their own two feet in life and not drain the resources as others do.
Oh bestbefore....dont ya know Satan has many forms!!!