jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
venere08: sorry, but I don't believe you asked this question. I can't possibly bring myself to reply.
I'm sorry if I've caused any offence, but I asked a number of questions and I don't know what your interpretation of my questions are.
My interpretation of your post was that you were a facilitator and an enabler. I was asking if you thought, overall, was your job cost effective and productive as compared with a situation where those people would have had no help? Or did you feel that you were hitting your head against a brick wall in the majority of cases?
I've said many times that I suspect that welfare may be the cheapest option, but I can see from your post that maybe it isn't. I was asking for your reflection on this.
leigh2154: Thanks, you too!!....J will be here (Tennessee) on May 4th !! We are both excited and nervous...AND very happy.... I will relay your wishes to Joel!!
How fabulous, Leigh!! I knew it must be soon, so my goodness, I can't begin to imagine the joy you will both feel!!!
jac379: I'm sorry if I've caused any offence, but I asked a number of questions and I don't know what your interpretation of my questions are.
My interpretation of your post was that you were a facilitator and an enabler. I was asking if you thought, overall, was your job cost effective and productive as compared with a situation where those people would have had no help? Or did you feel that you were hitting your head against a brick wall in the majority of cases?
I've said many times that I suspect that welfare may be the cheapest option, but I can see from your post that maybe it isn't. I was asking for your reflection on this.
Jac, you have caused me not the least bit of offence. I don't do offence on CS.
I was just flabbergasted, and still am, at your comments...At the lack of insight and understanding of the broader picture, not jsut the tiny, tiny window from which you and some others here look out of. Not meaning to offend you. Just speaking my mind, and know no other way of expressing myself right now.
My reflection? I think you can gleen that from my previous post.
AlbertaghostCultural Wasteland, Alberta Canada5,914 posts
jac379: Where did the cash come from with respect to the tenants you had who were in receipt of welfare?
More than likely Social Services but who knows for sure as I didn't have inside knowledge of their banking details. All I know is that in the first week of the month money was in my account dropped in by the property manager.
This is relevant in some way to the fact that yes, I have known welfare recipients in my life, some of whom abused the system?
leigh2154: This sounds so simple when you say it, but if they lack the maturity to raise children, I imagine they lack the maturity to use the free birth control...
Its far easier to use birth control than raise children.It is simple or could be.No paperwork,1 requirement.Be female.This won't cure all our ills but it will save alot of unborn kids from a life of depraved indifference and extreme poverty,which is just another word for misery.jmo
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
jac379: I'm sorry, I haven't read all this thread, or all your comments.
I've just dipped in, but the bits I've highlighted was the response that I expected.
I have read newspaper reports and have seen TV documentaries regarding the benefits system, too and there has been conflicting information and perspectives.
I think it is absolutely to do with viewer ratings because that's what keeps the cash rolling in. Are "Sun" readers going to carry on buying the paper if it suddenly starts in depth reporting regarding the politics, sociopsychology and economics of lone parents and immigrants into the UK? Unlikely, particularly given the vocabulary of this paper is set at a limit of about 300 words.
Are people going to continue paying their TV licence and respect that great British institution, the BBC, if they start airing documentaries with false information about immigrants, or lone parents?
Each section of media coverage has their target audience and will bias reports accordingly.
I also suspect that their may be other agendas that effect the overall media reporting the UK.
Yes, some people commit benefit fraud and manipulations, just as some people commit tax fraud and manipulations, but why are benefits the subject that seems to be most highlighted, when the probable loss of revenue is greater for tax?
I think it serves a purpose.
I suspect to follow up tax fraud and provide an effective system for getting people back into work would be a very expensive business.
We already have a failing economy. It strikes me, its very easy to put the focus on benefit fraud and manipulations as a red herring. It detracts attention from inadequacies and needless expenses made by each of our successive governments. I suspect that if we knew what our governments were up to, we would quickly lose all faith in that system. When scandals come out, the poo hits the fan, but scandals not coming out doesn't mean they're not happening.
Knowing that you have a system that fails the most vulnerable people through lack of financial and well thought out input, means that you can attack the groups of people who simply don't have the resources to fight back.
The whole thing feeds on the hierarchical system that we have and the need for a helluva lot of people to look down on others to make themselves feel better.
There is a whole complex area of psychology here that runs parallel to the complex economics and the complex politics. Is it right that human rights should be denied some people on this basis?
I don't need a lesson in economics or human rights and most certainly do not read the Sun newspaper. I came in at the beginning of this thread and as usual comments have been taken out of context.
I've been around a long time Jac and seen things happen that are a disgrace ,and shame our nation.
I can only voice my personal opinion. Whether you agree to differ is your personal choice.
jvaski: Actually you're right Fud .....( did I really say that ? )
With exception of many of us who are employees of our own corporation ...where you're still technically correct. ( Did I say that again ? )
My point was that a lot of money has been paid into the unemployment system on behalf of most employees over their years of employment. Unemployment is not a "benefit" it is "unemployment insurance" and should be considered payable to anyone unemployed who paid in if their employment was lost. It's no different than insurance paying you if you accidently smashed your car up ....it's "insurance " !!
I meant to say Unemployment insurance is not an "entitlement "
Well, my opinion remains the same...Start getting serious about collecting the massive debt in unpaid child support. Make men equally responsible for the children they create.
venusenvy: I hear that...My ex stopped paying at one point and there were no REAL options to collect...and the men know it ...The sad part is, its the children who suffer
The children do suffer Venue...but lets not allow that to overshadow the cost to the mothers...they suffer from exhaustion, fear, depression, non existent social lives, schedules requiring 10 balls be kept in the air at all times....they are heros in my opinion....heros.....
leigh2154: The children do suffer Venue...but lets not allow that to overshadow the cost to the mothers...they suffer from exhaustion, fear, depression, non existent social lives, schedules requiring 10 balls be kept in the air at all times....they are heros in my opinion....heros.....
I agree Leigh...Instead they beaten down in society, and labels "single moms" and treated as second class citizens. I dont care for my sake, But people need to stop for a moment and consider the impact on children
venusenvy: I agree Leigh...Instead they beaten down in society, and labels "single moms" and treated as second class citizens. I dont care for my sake, But people need to stop for a moment and consider the impact on children
I guess Ive just never understood why the responsibility is loaded on the women. Then they are persecuted for it. The children suffer shame and poverty, and yet the men skip to my lou down the garden path and off to the next conquest. Yet nothing happens to them??
venusenvy: I mean, shouldnt equality swing both ways??
Yes, it should...One thing that helps me deal with it is this V...When I look at my handsome grandson, when he does something sweet or funny, when I praise him for carrying a 4.4 GPA and working as many hours a week as he can to help his mother...I sometimes think to myself "What a pity his biological father will never know this incredible young man"....
leigh2154: Yes, it should...One thing that helps me deal with it is this V...When I look at my handsome grandson, when he does something sweet or funny, when I praise him for carrying a 4.4 GPA and working as many hours a week as he can to help his mother...I sometimes think to myself "What a pity his biological father will never know this incredible young man"....
I get that. Its true, in the end the men are loosers. Karma in action!!
venusenvy: I get that. Its true, in the end the men are loosers. Karma in action!!
Big time losers when they chose to give up the greatest thing on earth..I want to say something in defense of men...I have know personally some of the best fathers on earth....when they are good, they are very good!!
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I'm sorry if I've caused any offence, but I asked a number of questions and I don't know what your interpretation of my questions are.
My interpretation of your post was that you were a facilitator and an enabler. I was asking if you thought, overall, was your job cost effective and productive as compared with a situation where those people would have had no help? Or did you feel that you were hitting your head against a brick wall in the majority of cases?
I've said many times that I suspect that welfare may be the cheapest option, but I can see from your post that maybe it isn't. I was asking for your reflection on this.