What do you look for in a partner. (104)

Nov 16, 2013 1:54 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
wash2u: Why do men have to carry the club???



Because some women have no balls cool
Nov 16, 2013 1:59 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
serene56: Because some women have no balls


Is that why they rubb their eyes in the morning?????????????cool
Nov 16, 2013 2:03 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
wash2u: Is that why they rubb their eyes in the morning?????????????



Maybe conversing and one wonders what they see when they look in the mirror....
Nov 16, 2013 2:06 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
serene56: Maybe and one wonders what they see when they look in the mirror....


Never where my glasses in the bathroom.



I know what I want to look likerolling on the floor laughing
Nov 16, 2013 2:10 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
wash2u: Never where my glasses in the bathroom.
I know what I want to look like



See, that's honesty thumbs up laugh
Nov 16, 2013 4:50 PM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Kristia49: Me, some-one down to earth, sharing, caring, animal loving, family orientated, treated as a equal, has a positive outlook.
Don't want much do i.



Refined.... well educated, well spoken, well dressed, someone who is so sure of themselves, in what they think and do, that they always are well presented.

and if they have all of the above, then they will also have had a successful life, will have already achieved their goals, and are prepared to achieve more of course, and have further goals.

and of course, having all these refined qualities... will be exactly what is reflected in their appearance, in their knowledge, and in their worldly goods..



rose rose rose
Nov 16, 2013 4:56 PM CST What do you look for in a partner.
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
I just got a request from another site from a sub man looking for a trans gender only.


Do I need to change my photos?
Nov 16, 2013 5:01 PM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
NotABlonde: I just got a request from another site from a sub man looking for a trans gender only.Do I need to change my photos?



Oh...wow that is rude... uh oh
Nov 17, 2013 4:49 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Merriweather: Refined.... well educated, well spoken, well dressed, someone who is so sure of themselves, in what they think and do, that they always are well presented.

and if they have all of the above, then they will also have had a successful life, will have already achieved their goals, and are prepared to achieve more of course, and have further goals.

and of course, having all these refined qualities... will be exactly what is reflected in their appearance, in their knowledge, and in their worldly goods..

hey Miss Merri, I'm a big believer, if they are messy in their dress, they will be messy in their home and work.
Nov 17, 2013 5:55 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
PrOwLeR_
PrOwLeR_PrOwLeR_Mermaid BeacH, Queensland Australia98 Threads 1,290 Posts
Seems from what I have been recently told by a relationship counsellor ... I subconsciously pick the same type of woman over and over again even though she may be packaged differently ..

These types of woman only ever offer heartbreak, hurt and complications and carry unresolved issues into every relationship with a man, hence the reason these seemingly attractive and available woman are single .. and chances are probably always will be ...

We as men or me as in I inherit their baggage and handicaps and Doomsville is always going to be the direction this type of relationship will end up being ...

SO ... I do not look for anything in anyone because I know what ever I do I'll pick a looser and or nutter or possibly both ..

The professional advise given to me is let the ChicK find me, this way the chaotic cycle I have of choosing the wrong woman can be broken ..

Makes perfect sense to me ...

So now I have no eXpectations, prerequisites or formed opinions of who I am looking for ... because in reality she is looking for me ... scold


Whoooooooooo this is a relief .... grin
Nov 17, 2013 12:45 PM CST What do you look for in a partner.
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
PrOwLeR_: Seems from what I have been recently told by a relationship counsellor ... I subconsciously pick the same type of woman over and over again even though she may be packaged differently ..

These types of woman only ever offer heartbreak, hurt and complications and carry unresolved issues into every relationship with a man, hence the reason these seemingly attractive and available woman are single .. and chances are probably always will be ...

We as men or me as in I inherit their baggage and handicaps and Doomsville is always going to be the direction this type of relationship will end up being ...

SO ... I do not look for anything in anyone because I know what ever I do I'll pick a looser and or nutter or possibly both ..

The professional advise given to me is let the ChicK find me, this way the chaotic cycle I have of choosing the wrong woman can be broken ..

Makes perfect sense to me ...

So now I have no eXpectations, prerequisites or formed opinions of who I am looking for ... because in reality she is looking for me ... Whoooooooooo this is a relief ....


I would say the intensity of your personality is overwhelming for most, probably to the point of being scary, maybe even seen as somewhat controlling. Don’t forget we all move at a different pace during courtship and passions are only a one way street.
Nov 17, 2013 12:59 PM CST What do you look for in a partner.
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
NotABlonde: I just got a request from another site from a sub man looking for a trans gender only.Do I need to change my photos?
Oh yes , serious number of mamming pics would not go a miss . (,)(,)
Nov 18, 2013 1:13 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
PrOwLeR_: Seems from what I have been recently told by a relationship counsellor ... .. I subconsciously pick the same type of woman over and over again even though she may be packaged differently

These types of woman only ever offer heartbreak, hurt and complications and carry unresolved issues into every relationship with a man, hence the reason these seemingly attractive and available woman are single .. and chances are probably always will be ...

We as men or me as in I inherit their baggage and handicaps and Doomsville is always going to be the direction this type of relationship will end up being ...

SO ... I do not look for anything in anyone because I know what ever I do I'll pick a looser and or nutter or possibly both ..

The professional advise given to me is let the ChicK find me, this way the chaotic cycle I have of choosing the wrong woman can be broken ..

Makes perfect sense to me ...

So now I have no eXpectations, prerequisites or formed opinions of who I am looking for ... because in reality she is looking for me ... Whoooooooooo this is a relief ....


I have heard and read that so many times that I do not believe it. We all have our views on what we expect in another person. My father married a large women only for mum to end up being as skinny as a rake. Remember years later when having a party, a friend's father who went to school with mum said to her "Fatty Fuller, been a long time since school."

I personally am attracted to someone who is intelligent, reasonably educated (not everyone is an Einstein) and has more to life than Home and Away, Big Brother or garage sales. And preferably someone who has more hair than me. Never did like it when Ex#1 came home from the hairdresser with permed short tight litle Papuan curls "How do you like my new style?"
Nov 18, 2013 1:28 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
PrOwLeR_: Seems from what I have been recently told by a relationship counsellor ... I subconsciously pick the same type of woman over and over again even though she may be packaged differently ..

These types of woman only ever offer heartbreak, hurt and complications and carry unresolved issues into every relationship with a man, hence the reason these seemingly attractive and available woman are single .. and chances are probably always will be ...

We as men or me as in I inherit their baggage and handicaps and Doomsville is always going to be the direction this type of relationship will end up being ...

SO ... I do not look for anything in anyone because I know what ever I do I'll pick a looser and or nutter or possibly both ..

The professional advise given to me is let the ChicK find me, this way the chaotic cycle I have of choosing the wrong woman can be broken ..

Makes perfect sense to me ...

So now I have no eXpectations, prerequisites or formed opinions of who I am looking for ... because in reality she is looking for me ... Whoooooooooo this is a relief ....


Sorry, Prowler, I have read and heard this too many times to actually believe it is true. We do have something we are seeking.

I do not find Big Brother, Home and Away as "neccesary viewing." Nor do I find garage sales as appealing as some.

I am attracted to petite, intelligent, dark-haired women. But have been attracted to women who do not fit this exclusive catergory. Ex#2 was 2 out of 3. But had a gambling problem which did take a bit of time to find out. Would I ever go for someone who likes to gamble?

I love going to the races, but only bet with what I am comfortable to lose (hate doing that). I love going to the casino to play blackjack but set my limit to what I am willing to lose for a long night out. Have rarely lost at blackjack and well in front over the years.
Nov 18, 2013 2:16 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Kristia49: hey Miss Merri, I'm a big believer, if they are messy in their dress, they will be messy in their home and work.
thumbs up

Some can only fool others some of the time... but in the end ... it all comes out in the wash...doh
Nov 18, 2013 2:32 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
Merri, I think what you said above, in terms of what you look for is a good way of viewing someone thumbs up
Nov 18, 2013 2:53 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
wash2u: What a load of crap. Might work for the stud muffins but many are like me. The closest we get is looking like the stud on the wall after it has been a few rounds with the hammer.

Way back around the turn of the century (I do like saying that), I had a house in Sydney and rented out the front half to a couple. One day, the guy said to me "I don't know how you do it but you have some very lovely women coming around."

How? I haven't a clue. Did not lie to them, did not tell them they were beautiful (does seem to be such a very old come-on line), was just myself.

Honesty is the best policy. It is very hard to stick to the lies as you have to invent more to cover them up. Okay, I was a backup singer in a band in the 60s but if you heard my voice now, it would come out as a lie. I was involved with bikies back in the early 70s (not involved now) and you would never get me on a bike again.

Some things are better unsaid. Some things might be worth telling. But who you are now is the most important. I won't be telling lies just to get some woman into bed. I would prefer someone who knows that I like Vita Brits with fruit and coffee in the mornings rather than her rummaging through the fridge looking for bacon and eggs, and trying to find where I hide the tea.




Well said wash, and women prefer that.
Nov 18, 2013 3:17 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
Well if tidiness is a quality that men look for in a woman - then I am going to be single for a long time!! laugh

It depends what day you come around help

On the day I have done stuff, it's not too bad, other days well, try your luck peace

Doesn't help that I have a messy 20 yo with stuff everywhere, inside the house is beginning to resemble a PC fixer up shop and outside is taking on the look of the local mechanics blues

But hey, I think I am fun to be with, wicked humour, love to dance, get my relaxed beach stuff on when suns out and can do my nails and put my heels on when I get the urge cheering

I don't have people slotted into categories, I have met guys who are definitely not my type that I have fallen for much to my surprise heart wings

So you never know, take everybody as you find them, I am not looking for THE one, somebody to do stuff together would be good for a start ..... see how things go?
Nov 18, 2013 4:14 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Newlife08: Well if tidiness is a quality that men look for in a woman - then I am going to be single for a long time!!

It depends what day you come around

On the day I have done stuff, it's not too bad, other days well, try your luck

Doesn't help that I have a messy 20 yo with stuff everywhere, inside the house is beginning to resemble a PC fixer up shop and outside is taking on the look of the local mechanics

But hey, I think I am fun to be with, wicked humour, love to dance, get my relaxed beach stuff on when suns out and can do my nails and put my heels on when I get the urge

I don't have people slotted into categories, I have met guys who are definitely not my type that I have fallen for much to my surprise

So you never know, take everybody as you find them, I am not looking for THE one, somebody to do stuff together would be good for a start ..... see how things go?



Ola guapa..

wave

But you are fun, well spoken, interesting, and very refined.bouquet
Nov 18, 2013 5:10 AM CST What do you look for in a partner.
PrOwLeR_
PrOwLeR_PrOwLeR_Mermaid BeacH, Queensland Australia98 Threads 1,290 Posts
wash2u: Sorry, Prowler, I have read and heard this too many times to actually believe it is true. We do have something we are seeking.

I do not find Big Brother, Home and Away as "neccesary viewing." Nor do I find garage sales as appealing as some.

I am attracted to petite, intelligent, dark-haired women. But have been attracted to women who do not fit this exclusive catergory. Ex#2 was 2 out of 3. But had a gambling problem which did take a bit of time to find out. Would I ever go for someone who likes to gamble?

I love going to the races, but only bet with what I am comfortable to lose (hate doing that). I love going to the casino to play blackjack but set my limit to what I am willing to lose for a long night out. Have rarely lost at blackjack and well in front over the years.





Wash .... then why are you single ?? ... Like me and some others of us, we seek what we think we are attracted too and ignore or over look what we think we are not ...

Seems to me if we choose for ourselves we get it wrong time over and over again ...
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