Something that you never needed (14)
nowuknowmeSt. Paul, Minnesota USA3 Threads 1 Polls 10 PostsI never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
People areput in your life tohelp for a reason.. Don't feel too proud to accept their help :).. Noone can do every thing alone.. One day you maybeinthe position to help them!..life works that way
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
A gift like that, is a an act of kindness.
It's not meant to be a burden.
It's ok to just be grateful for the kindness.
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
I pay it forward...
whenever I can..Sometimes even just listening to someone who may need a friendly ear...is paying it forward too
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Ocee102: A gift like that, is a an act of kindness.
It's not meant to be a burden.
It's ok to just be grateful for the kindness.
It's not meant to be a burden.
It's ok to just be grateful for the kindness.
I agree but I think she's feeling less independent. She might be the type of person that wants to say she did it all by herself. Sometimes it's hard for people to accept help of any kind. I understand how she feels. When she gets settled she will get her independence back.------ This thread is Archived ------
nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
I remember you..
I have a hard time especially when I feel I can't return such favor in kind somehow. You could express gratitude with a card to thank them for helping and invite them over for coffee or something..
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
Just remember to give back in little way, to sway a disappointment,to not look back when you give is ok.
Strangers will know.
You have been blessed. spread the acknowledgement, and you have done that.
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I never needed to meet people in real life with really bad attitudes, but I have and they were such miserable human beings
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A colonoscopy, my doctor is such a joker I had to laugh
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
I can relate but the time will come when you can pay the kindness forward to someone else who needs it. You haven't "failed", just be grateful for those who were there for you
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A Christmas spare tyre
Or maybe it was all those cakes and desserts I didn't need
Or maybe it was all those cakes and desserts I didn't need
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There is always a time in your life when you need a helping hand and if you have the chance to receive it be open to it.
Then pass it on to someone else, it is very gratifying to help somebody in need.
Don't feel less of not accomplishing something we only can do our best and that is enough.
Being grateful is a response you only can express your own way...
Then pass it on to someone else, it is very gratifying to help somebody in need.
Don't feel less of not accomplishing something we only can do our best and that is enough.
Being grateful is a response you only can express your own way...
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A hole in the head
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nowuknowme: I never needed anyone's help until now. I feel so uncomfortable with this whole new world. For some reason the help makes me feel like I have failed in some way. Does anyone else feel like this? Don't get me wrong I cant even express my gratitude for what practical strangers have done to help me make my house a home. I just can't get past the I didn't do it and I cant repay them or can I? With what?
if you do not like the new world why not go back to the old world?
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