Desperately in love? ( Archived) (37)

Dec 5, 2015 1:16 PM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_
Jana_Jana_Bourgas, Burgas Bulgaria1 Threads 17 Posts
Guys, would you say to s.o. you believe you were meant to be together in your second or third message?

And you Ladies, what would you do if s.o. seems to be getting more and more in love with you for a month or even more?

And he is attractive and sweet on top of this and makes me so happy. But I have always a red lamp in my head and it says something will go bad if I really believe him.

May be this is more due to cultures than to personality, he is American, I am of Eastern European /Balkan mentality.
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Dec 5, 2015 1:29 PM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_: Guys, would you say to s.o. you believe you were meant to be together in your second or third message?

And you Ladies, what would you do if s.o. seems to be getting more and more in love with you for a month or even more?

And he is attractive and sweet on top of this and makes me so happy. But I have always a red lamp in my head and it says something will go bad if I really believe him.

May be this is more due to cultures than to personality, he is American, I am of Eastern European /Balkan mentality.
I would think he is probably a Nigerian scammer.
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Dec 5, 2015 1:35 PM CST Desperately in love?
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
Jana_: Guys, would you say to s.o. you believe you were meant to be together in your second or third message?

And you Ladies, what would you do if s.o. seems to be getting more and more in love with you for a month or even more?

And he is attractive and sweet on top of this and makes me so happy. But I have always a red lamp in my head and it says something will go bad if I really believe him.

May be this is more due to cultures than to personality, he is American, I am of Eastern European /Balkan mentality.




He says nice things just to make you feel good, so he can scam you.
Scammers use nice pictures or fake pictures.
I wish you good luck but remember to be cautious.

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Dec 5, 2015 3:09 PM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_
Jana_Jana_Bourgas, Burgas Bulgaria1 Threads 17 Posts
May the explanation be that he was a soldier on a mission?
But there was one other who was not. I just stopped writing them both long time ago.
Actually this one is the third similar case for me. Do not know why I am so "lucky" and I just won't reply to the fourth one at all. Will be trying to figure out whether this was fake again at the end, so there is no point
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Dec 5, 2015 3:18 PM CST Desperately in love?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Jana_: May the explanation be that he was a soldier on a mission?
But there was one other who was not. I just stopped writing them both long time ago.
Actually this one is the third similar case for me. Do not know why I am so "lucky" and I just won't reply to the fourth one at all. Will be trying to figure out whether this was fake again at the end, so there is no point




Ah yes. The soldiers, the widowers doh I know of one man on here who is really widowed. Don't think yourself so lucky. He is telling his friends to contact you.

Trust the red light and do as they say in Britain.....Walk Away
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Dec 5, 2015 3:29 PM CST Desperately in love?
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
Jana_: Guys, would you say to s.o. you believe you were meant to be together in your second or third message?

And you Ladies, what would you do if s.o. seems to be getting more and more in love with you for a month or even more?

And he is attractive and sweet on top of this and makes me so happy. But I have always a red lamp in my head and it says something will go bad if I really believe him.

May be this is more due to cultures than to personality, he is American, I am of Eastern European /Balkan mentality.


Scammer or not I don't believe in love by email, and meant to be together by third email, he is too keen, eager to find someone or maybe a scammer like they say. Even though you can grow very fond of someone by email and get to know each other really well through chat, you don't know until you meet. cool
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Dec 5, 2015 3:29 PM CST Desperately in love?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Jana_: Guys, would you say to s.o. you believe you were meant to be together in your second or third message?

And you Ladies, what would you do if s.o. seems to be getting more and more in love with you for a month or even more?

And he is attractive and sweet on top of this and makes me so happy. But I have always a red lamp in my head and it says something will go bad if I really believe him.

May be this is more due to cultures than to personality, he is American, I am of Eastern European /Balkan mentality.


Me thinks you are dealing with a scammer. I would suggest that you read the scam warning article on this site to get a better idea of what you're dealing with.
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Dec 5, 2015 3:42 PM CST Desperately in love?
.....yer dirty filthy scammer....no morals.....emmmmmm has anyone got a spare....$200.000.....to spare....?????if so just send bank details...then i can draw it out.....save you the job......who ever sends it....just to let you know i love you an awfall lot.....thankyou....chief of nato staff.......heart wings heart wings heart wings heart wings bouquet grin
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Dec 5, 2015 3:55 PM CST Desperately in love?
Grouchyoldfart
GrouchyoldfartGrouchyoldfartSan Juan, Puerto Rico156 Posts
Dear Jana, I really do not think I can help you in your problem but I was wondering if you had been here ( in Cs ) before .

Are you the same one I knew about two or three years ago . You can reply to my private mail so as to not air anything in public view . I think you also know who I am .
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Dec 5, 2015 4:00 PM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_
Jana_Jana_Bourgas, Burgas Bulgaria1 Threads 17 Posts
Well, I just got another email from a new person, second for today. 5 paragraps at least, can't ever read everything dunno
will trust the red lamp for sure
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Dec 5, 2015 4:01 PM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_
Jana_Jana_Bourgas, Burgas Bulgaria1 Threads 17 Posts
Hi,
no, I do not know you and haven't been here 2-3 years ago.
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Dec 5, 2015 4:14 PM CST Desperately in love?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
Scumball scammer..

Very disheartening i know,,but do yourself a favour and block the guy...
Go with the red light you have in youre mind...Its right..conversinguh ohdancebananawhat
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Dec 5, 2015 4:14 PM CST Desperately in love?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
Scumball scammer..

Very disheartening i know,,but do yourself a favour and block the guy...
Go with the red light you have in youre mind...Its right..conversinguh ohdancebananawhat
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Dec 5, 2015 4:15 PM CST Desperately in love?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
twazzle70: Scumball scammer..

Very disheartening i know,,but do yourself a favour and block the guy...
Go with the red light you have in youre mind...Its right..dancebananawhat


Block him twice professor I think..bananaffs
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Dec 5, 2015 4:15 PM CST Desperately in love?
Grouchyoldfart
GrouchyoldfartGrouchyoldfartSan Juan, Puerto Rico156 Posts
Jana_: Hi,
no, I do not know you and haven't been here 2-3 years ago.


Dear Jana, Sorry but I thought you where someone else . I suspect it was a case of mistaken identity and just wanted to confirm my suspicions . Thank you anyway ..>teddybear
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Dec 5, 2015 5:26 PM CST Desperately in love?
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
Oh, those scammers frustrated crying
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Dec 6, 2015 2:23 AM CST Desperately in love?
Jana_
Jana_Jana_Bourgas, Burgas Bulgaria1 Threads 17 Posts
yes, many scammers. We need to block them. May be I have also blocked some who were not this way..

One suggested to send me a present, whatever I wished

With another there was no hint of money for over one month, just to reply shortly, was what he wanted.

Seemed very hurt when blocked btw. Some scammers must be either very crafty or I am very silly to think they may have been real.

Others are really flat, "I was/got interesting in you" is not American English but Nigerian English
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Dec 6, 2015 2:41 AM CST Desperately in love?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Jana_: yes, many scammers. We need to block them. May be I have also blocked some who were not this way..

One suggested to send me a present, whatever I wished

With another there was no hint of money for over one month, just to reply shortly, was what he wanted.

Seemed very hurt when blocked btw. Some scammers must be either very crafty or I am very silly to think they may have been real.

Others are really flat, "I was/got interesting in you" is not American English but Nigerian English



As a matter of interest, how did you know one of them was very hurt when blocked?
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Dec 6, 2015 3:01 AM CST Desperately in love?
Charilove
ChariloveCharilovejohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa6 Threads 20 Posts
Hi Jana,
The only way to be sure of your LOVER MAN is to meet in person. If he's a scarmmer he will make up excuses for not to be able to meet yet, but if he did come, and promise u of some gift which u must pay for the delivery just ignore him.
(I'm saying from experience)

But on the contrary, u met and fall in love .... Good luck to u.
Is possible to admire, like and love someone by looking at his/her picture.
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Dec 6, 2015 3:36 AM CST Desperately in love?
Thompson31
Thompson31Thompson31California, USA1 Posts
Am so heart broken. How my Nation's identity has been destroyed all over the world all in d name of fraudsters n Scammers. But the beauty of it all is that Nigerians are good people. You just have to know Who you dealing with. In my experience of travelling places I can tell u 85% of Nigerians are very good, Faithful people to b arund with even hardworking people. Plz I appeal to everyone on here. Just like some oda have said u will know a really partner wen u get to meet with him or her face to face. Thank u all
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