Separation and women (50)
unlaoised: Why is this about women doing it? Men do it all the time
Men never do it.
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
Some people are messy and take the easiest way out - get away from someone and when not meeting anyone "better", going back. Have seen this in both genders.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
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KNenagh: Some people are messy and take the easiest way out - get away from someone and when not meeting anyone "better", going back. Have seen this in both genders.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
That's right way of looking at.I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
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KNenagh: Some people are messy and take the easiest way out - get away from someone and when not meeting anyone "better", going back. Have seen this in both genders.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
True, but that is the problem: no one wants to work on their relationship anymore.
I think more women leave, then return, than men. They go to their parents, rent a one nighter, or stay with a friend, then when the man is back in his right mind they return
Funny thing is: how do you know what she did when she was gone
What if she got preggie while she was out
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Lonely1: True, but that is the problem: no one wants to work on their relationship anymore.
I think more women leave, then return, than men. They go to their parents, rent a one nighter, or stay with a friend, then when the man is back in his right mind they return
Funny thing is: how do you know what she did when she was gone What if she got preggie while she was out Are we allowed to ask?
I think more women leave, then return, than men. They go to their parents, rent a one nighter, or stay with a friend, then when the man is back in his right mind they return
Funny thing is: how do you know what she did when she was gone What if she got preggie while she was out Are we allowed to ask?
Some people actually do work on their relationships, but there is a lot of selfishness out there I have noticed.
It is up to you if you would take someone back that just left, slept around and wants to get back. BTW, I notice a lot of guys with wedding bands out on the weekends here trying to get off with someone, so I wouldn't be sure that it is more women.
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Separation seems to mean different things to people.
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
Lonely..........
No offense, but this should read..
Separation (men and women)...jmo
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KNenagh: Some people are messy and take the easiest way out - get away from someone and when not meeting anyone "better", going back. Have seen this in both genders.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
I would work on a relationship worth saving, but if things are over, I never was in contact with someone again. If something is over, there hasn't been any going back in the past for me as there was a reason why a relationship was ended.
there's two choices...put your energy 'in' to the relationship, or put your energy 'out' of the relationship.
if you're serious about the relationship, work on it...if not, end it.
when it's over...it's over.
if someone is 'shopping' around for something they think might be better....it's over.
time to get honest, move out, move on. i think it's selfish to shop around while leading someone else on. that's not to say, sometimes, a break is the healthiest thing to do but with clear intentions on both sides.
jm2c
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lonely why not both Men/ Women and separation?
Shouldn't just apply to just one gender.
Shouldn't just apply to just one gender.
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
It's natural to get bored of people when they let you walk over them and doubly so for a woman. The one who wears the trousers needs to be more forgiving of endless love and not be fickle and easily bored. He needs to be able to feel love without first feeling torture.
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
I don't think you should make out of this certain case a big deal, involving the whole female part of the world...
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Rumples: It's natural to get bored of people when they let you walk over them and doubly so for a woman. The one who wears the trousers needs to be more forgiving of endless love and not be fickle and easily bored. He needs to be able to feel love without first feeling torture.
And so a man is not as naturally repulsed by a woman who would take him back 4 times as a woman would be with a man who takes her back 4 times. When I've taken women for granted in my life it's been out of arrogance, selfishness and self-importance yet it was never accompanied with that strong feeling of resentment and contempt. I never despised her for being soft-hearted where she will despise him for being that way.
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If she left him four time and he accepted her back each time, well, they kind of deserve each other.
I wouldn't have much respect for that man but she obviously finds him "comfortable"...
I wouldn't have much respect for that man but she obviously finds him "comfortable"...
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
Celibacy isn't hereditary..... and marriage is a lifetime challenge, not a one time prize.
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Lonely1: A female friend told me she separated from her husband five times to be with another man. Now she realize that her husband was good for her so she wants him back but he wants a divorce.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
What is the reason why women like to separate then return and expect everything to be all lovey-dovey, no questions asked? I am confused.
Fools are not gender specific.
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2intrigued: Fools are not gender specific.
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truheart1941: hallllllloooooow
Oh darn, here's one now.
Hiya Pete my little pumpkin seed 
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Rumples: It's natural to get bored of people when they let you walk over them and doubly so for a woman. The one who wears the trousers needs to be more forgiving of endless love and not be fickle and easily bored. He needs to be able to feel love without first feeling torture.
Rumples: And so a man is not as naturally repulsed by a woman who would take him back 4 times as a woman would be with a man who takes her back 4 times. When I've taken women for granted in my life it's been out of arrogance, selfishness and self-importance yet it was never accompanied with that strong feeling of resentment and contempt. I never despised her for being soft-hearted where she will despise him for being that way.
Significant differences between men and women are being highlighted here, and it would appears that what applies for men one day applies for women the next. Alas, I in my wisdom told the poor lady, upon being told that hubby had bid her goodbye sans alimony, that she was entitled to free money. So now the good guy is giving her something. Don't we just love these no-fault laws?
Why should someone wreck my life, then I have to pay them on the way out?
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KremaP: If she left him four time and he accepted her back each time, well, they kind of deserve each other.
I wouldn't have much respect for that man but she obviously finds him "comfortable"...
I wouldn't have much respect for that man but she obviously finds him "comfortable"...
There is always an exception.
My husband was an alcoholic. I left him four times and went back to him three times.
The reason I went back is because each time he threatened to make sure I didn't get custody of our daughter. He and his father had money so I believed that he could do that. This was back in 1969 when I didn't understand the law like I do now.
However, as far as your respect comment, I did respect my husband aside from his misgivings.
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