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Jun 19, 2016 6:57 PM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Ccincy: To me average would mean that I'm healthy I guess.


Average means healthy?

Now, that hadn't been on my radar at all! laugh
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Jun 19, 2016 7:06 PM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Ocee102: I don't think we should be describing ourselves at all.

We all have cameras.


True grin

But the word is a perception we have of ourselves.

I have had people mail me who had average down for body type, yet to me, their pics said something different.

But they considered themselves average obviously.
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Jun 19, 2016 7:09 PM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Bogart_1960: Some people are born average, some people achieve "averageness", some people have averageness shove upon them, and some people have all three. Even the people missing all, they stand up from all the rest -people who met them are always fascinated by how average they are.

Uniqueness is a fairly modern invention, and not really valid for people. if a discussion was based of what people had to think of right on the spot, they'd all be mostly of the time average - normal, boring, and straightforward - and i would say average is actually pretty good.

what’s is average? … we are (even with toys )



interesting question



Wow, an indepth answer which I will have to read tomorrow when I'm less tired!

Good night and thanks hug
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Jun 19, 2016 7:25 PM CST Average
SingleGuyInOz
SingleGuyInOzSingleGuyInOzMelbourne, Victoria Australia12 Threads 1,043 Posts
mollybaby: True

But the word is a perception we have of ourselves.

I have had people mail me who had average down for body type, yet to me, their pics said something different.

But they considered themselves average obviously.


Hiya Pinky wave ... it's been a while hug

Simply put, i think the perception of average body types is of 3 mentalities really.

The first one is where the person doesn't want to sound like they're being boastful in describing themselves as beautiful or wonderful etc.

The second is where they may be overweight or other, but try to boost their self esteem a little by describing themselves as "average"

The third type is where they're comparing themselves to Models, Actors and celebrities and feel they don't quite measure up to them in a critical way ?


Just my thoughts!...
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Jun 19, 2016 9:14 PM CST Average
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada759 Posts
No one can make you feel 'average' without your permission unless it is your goal...
Expect the average and you won't be disappointed
Being 'average' is the worst mistake in anyone's life...
The worst part of being average is to find someone who is happy for you...laugh
The penalty of being average is to be bored by the people that used to snub as being average...what spoils a party for average people? a critic of average people...what can easily depress an average person? A long and dull life with nothing outstanding. They were perfectly understood to be average; of no consequence. That would make a great epitaph.
Final thought/ observation: Average is not the soul of lingerie...grin
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Jun 19, 2016 9:22 PM CST Average
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
mollybaby: True

But the word is a perception we have of ourselves.

I have had people mail me who had average down for body type, yet to me, their pics said something different.

But they considered themselves average obviously.



Yea, I don't imagine most of our self assessments are all that accurate.
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Jun 19, 2016 9:24 PM CST Average
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Ocee102: Yea, I don't imagine most of our self assessments are all that accurate.



I hear women complaining about their bodies, and I think...

"Jaysus, I'd climb in bed with her and not get out for decades." laugh
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Jun 20, 2016 4:38 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
SingleGuyInOz: Hiya Pinky ... it's been a while

Simply put, i think the perception of average body types is of 3 mentalities really.

The first one is where the person doesn't want to sound like they're being boastful in describing themselves as beautiful or wonderful etc.

The second is where they may be overweight or other, but try to boost their self esteem a little by describing themselves as "average"

The third type is where they're comparing themselves to Models, Actors and celebrities and feel they don't quite measure up to them in a critical way ?Just my thoughts!...


Hiya Brain hug

You have good thoughts behind your post above.

But surely there is a grey area between saying you are wonderful, and average.

it may be down to a self-esteem issue alright. But if you put 'average' height or weight on a dating site and you actually get to meet the other person, then they are going to be disappointed/mistrustful if you turn out to be short or overweight.

As for comparing ourselves against models and actors, then we would probably all have to put obese in if those stick-insects are considered normal!
laugh
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Jun 20, 2016 4:39 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Kattte: No one can make you feel 'average' without your permission unless it is your goal...
Expect the average and you won't be disappointed
Being 'average' is the worst mistake in anyone's life...
The worst part of being average is to find someone who is happy for you...
The penalty of being average is to be bored by the people that used to snub as being average...what spoils a party for average people? a critic of average people...what can easily depress an average person? A long and dull life with nothing outstanding. They were perfectly understood to be average; of no consequence. That would make a great epitaph.
Final thought/ observation: Average is not the soul of lingerie..


Love it! laugh
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Jun 20, 2016 4:39 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Ocee102: I hear women complaining about their bodies, and I think...

"Jaysus, I'd climb in bed with her and not get out for decades."


Maybe you should tell them that! wink
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Jun 20, 2016 4:46 AM CST Average
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
In response to: What an average word average is.What does it even mean?

Of course I could put up the dictionary definition, but it still doesn't tell us anything.

If someone is described as being of average intelligence, that is at least quantifiable if you use the IQ system. They would have an I.Q. of 100-110.
But what about physically?

If someone says they are average height, that would mean something totally different if you were Dutch or from the Congolese jungle.Or weight/bodytype.

On CS, weight/bodytype is given an option of Average.

Does that mean if you come from a country where obesity is a problem, and you are obese, that you can write Average as your bodytype, even though you are in fact obese?

What is average to you, and should it even be given as an option?

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Surely the word 'average' means something different in each country, if an English persons height starts at 5 feet and ends at 6 feet then an 'average' would be 5.6, when people talk about and 'average bloke' that must be something different because he could be an absolute idiot or have an IQ of 5 million, l think in those terms it is not correct but a box of Apples weighing 10 kilos and cannot weigh exactly 10 kilos, if you had a thousand boxes there would be an average weight, as is stated on many items.
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Jun 20, 2016 4:58 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
yubba: .
Surely the word 'average' means something different in each country, if an English persons height starts at 5 feet and ends at 6 feet then an 'average' would be 5.6, when people talk about and 'average bloke' that must be something different because he could be an absolute idiot or have an IQ of 5 million, l think in those terms it is not correct but a box of Apples weighing 10 kilos and cannot weigh exactly 10 kilos, if you had a thousand boxes there would be an average weight, as is stated on many items.


You are talking about a quantifiable average there, Yubba.

That
, I totally understand.

But as I said, on a dating site such as this, does giving an option of 'average' even mean anything, as average differs according to perception.
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Jun 20, 2016 4:58 AM CST Average
mollybaby: What an average word average is.What does it even mean?

Of course I could put up the dictionary definition, but it still doesn't tell us anything.

If someone is described as being of average intelligence, that is at least quantifiable if you use the IQ system. They would have an I.Q. of 100-110.
But what about physically?

If someone says they are average height, that would mean something totally different if you were Dutch or from the Congolese jungle.Or weight/bodytype.

On CS, weight/bodytype is given an option of Average.

Does that mean if you come from a country where obesity is a problem, and you are obese, that you can write Average as your bodytype, even though you are in fact obese?

What is average to you, and should it even be given as an option?
in general sense ,word average means Normal ,Medium,jot big not small etc
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Jun 20, 2016 5:00 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
ali110: in general sense ,word average means Normal ,Medium,jot big not small etc


Thanks Ali.

I know the definition of the word

But the perception of it may vary a lot.
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Jun 20, 2016 5:02 AM CST Average
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
8 inches
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Jun 20, 2016 5:05 AM CST Average
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
8 inches[/quote
That's small
laugh laugh laugh
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Jun 20, 2016 5:05 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
tomcatwarne: 8 inches


Did you have to be the first one to bring that into it? roll eyes
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Jun 20, 2016 5:10 AM CST Average
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
mollybaby: Did you have to be the first one to bring that into it?


Yeh it's theway mt mindworks thinking of youlips
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Jun 20, 2016 5:12 AM CST Average
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
tomcatwarne: Yeh it's theway mt mindworks thinking of you


Have a cold shower and think of something else
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Jun 20, 2016 5:17 AM CST Average
5 - 6 inches is average as I understand it.
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