ChesneyChrist: Who might you put on a pedestal? A hero. And that's a lot pressure to put on somone, particularly someone who is a woman.
When the truth is that very often the only reason a man idealises a woman so much is because he's desperate. Is she really worthy of all this praise and respect? Or do you just really fancy her? These are the questions you need to ask yourself.
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to have him/her putting up in a pedestal.???