Lookin4missright: It is the owners that Farked the site... it was running ok the way it was before they changed it.... everybody had their place/little corner and if we didn't like a thread/topic we wouldn't bother going there ..... now it is ALL in your face. That's my two cents.
Probably the site doesn't have paid moderators, but volunteers. It was like that on another forum where I was a moderator. If you spent a lot of time there, wrote a lot, was a nice person, cared about the place - they would ask you to be a moderator - simply as a volunteer. But, that gets exhausting in time. Same old, same old - threads, fights, trolling... You get tired. I suppose it's similar here.
We should make a distinction between "real us" and "forum us"... I guess that's hard because this is a dating site and people still hope to meet someone...
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FOR REAL LUB