If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With? ( Archived) (76)

Sep 1, 2018 4:50 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
Geriatrix2
Geriatrix2Geriatrix2Russell Island, Queensland Australia23 Threads 4 Polls 680 Posts
annaroach: Ah , i see,, time is your friend , in that case,, as it was for me!!
Ha ha... At my age time is most definitely NOT my friend!hug
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Sep 1, 2018 5:08 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Geriatrix2: Ha ha... At my age time is most definitely NOT my friend!
My motto is, "you never know what is around the corner.
never say never,comfort
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Sep 1, 2018 5:37 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
this train of thought.....is totally wrong,,,,,to use someone as a substitute, untill the right one comes along....she/he...........to do this ,to another person is no better then a scumbag,,,,,,jmo....
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Sep 1, 2018 5:52 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
this train of thought.....is totally wrong,,,,,to use someone as a substitute, untill the right one comes along....she/he...........to do this ,to another person is no better then a scumbag,,,,,,jmo....[/qu

You must understand, that , it works both ways,
and even if two people are not in love , they might love each other,
and for them it might be a good for them, and i for one won't judge
consenting adults etc,,, it wouldn't be for me, but , neither will i judge them.peace
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Sep 1, 2018 5:52 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
No Anna I can't learn to love the one I'm with of the love of my life is gone ..

I would take the time to get over it and hope that a new love would find me or me them instead.
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Sep 1, 2018 5:55 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Geriatrix2: Ha ha... At my age time is most definitely NOT my friend!
You don't look your age, and with a youthful attitude,
and hopefully good health,,, you should have a lot to look forward to.
Be the eternal optimist!!thumbs up
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Sep 1, 2018 5:57 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
deedee123xo: No Anna I can't learn to love the one I'm with of the love of my life is gone ..

I would take the time to get over it and hope that a new love would find me or me them instead.
Well, that is a personal choice, ,what if Mr right never turns up,, lets just say, what then?dunno confused
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Sep 1, 2018 6:00 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
annaroach: Well, that is a personal choice, ,what if Mr right never turns up,, lets just say, what then?
Is there such a thing really....I think we have to work at relationships no matter how perfect we deem them to be....but I know I can't learn to love someone the same as I can't pretend to be attracted to them.

I need a spark..if it's not ever to be there again then I have a full life and am content being single....
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Sep 1, 2018 6:07 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
deedee123xo: Is there such a thing really....I think we have to work at relationships no matter how perfect we deem them to be....but I know I can't learn to love someone the same as I can't pretend to be attracted to them.

I need a spark..if it's not ever to be there again then I have a full life and am content being single....
Great attitude!!thumbs up
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Sep 1, 2018 6:56 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
annaroach: That's sad, did you have a lifetime with her ?
The only perfect ex is a dead ex.
They achieve sainthood status on death.
Just look at all the inscriptions on gravestones in a graveyard. They are all hugely beloved and missed.
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Sep 1, 2018 7:00 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
Geriatrix2
Geriatrix2Geriatrix2Russell Island, Queensland Australia23 Threads 4 Polls 680 Posts
mollybaby: The only perfect ex is a dead ex.
They achieve sainthood status on death.
Just look at all the inscriptions on gravestones in a graveyard. They are all hugely beloved and missed.
thumbs up
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Sep 1, 2018 7:35 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
truheart1941: this train of thought.....is totally wrong,,,,,to use someone as a substitute, untill the right one comes along....she/he...........to do this ,to another person is no better then a scumbag,,,,,,jmo....
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Sep 1, 2018 7:44 AM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: this train of thought.....is totally wrong,,,,,to use someone as a substitute, untill the right one comes along....she/he...........to do this ,to another person is no better then a scumbag,,,,,,jmo....
I certainly never mentioned, or alluded to, using anybody dunno .
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Sep 1, 2018 6:53 PM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
chris27292729: There is a possibility,you may fall in love with your homeless guy.
Maybe....anythings possible........smitten
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Sep 2, 2018 3:25 PM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
mollybaby: The only perfect ex is a dead ex.
They achieve sainthood status on death.
Just look at all the inscriptions on gravestones in a graveyard. They are all hugely beloved and missed.
Ain't that the truth !roll eyes
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Sep 3, 2018 1:14 PM CST If You Can't Be With The One You Love,Would You Love The One You're With?
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
Well, I love Alice Cooper most of all people, but I ain't gay, so yes I could give my love to any woman.
I also love Kate Bush, allthough she might be old now, but I know I'll never have her for myself, so I've to find someone else.
And it's not that the woman I would be with then would be second choice, maybe best of the rest.
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