Being hurt is normal human condition.... Who can say that he/she hasn't been hurt? But it's the depth of hurt that matters... Yes, deep hurt is always played out on others...or (equally often) back on oneself -- depends if the person is more extroverted or introverted.... But pain and hurt is also an opportunity to grow.. And we shouldn't condemn people who have been hurt (because it isn't their fault), even if they have hurt us. It's OK and right if we distance ourself from them to stop hurting, but knowing what is behind their behaviour should help us develop forgivness and compassion towards them...
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
deedee123xo: Yes they do...but it's not our place to sort them out just avoid them and hope they sort their own problems out.
sometimes a simple ear and words of wisdom one uses can change them in an instant. As long as they aren't nasty people. I can only see goodness happening. We all hurt sometimes.
On the other hand hurt people know how it feels. Bitterness isn’t the only road you can go down, there’s empathy or even a massive dawning realisation where you come to appreciate life in a way you never did before. I’ve known people who really came into their own since they got cancer.
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