If you've been on CS for more than 10 YEARS!!!...... (30)
MisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts...isn't it time to acknowledge defeat (strictly in dating terms, that is). Perhaps some of us are simply not geared for partnership. So why are you still here? Are you just 'gaming the audience'? You enjoy the attention, the constant stream of inbox interest? Or are you a hopeless hopeful? I realise it's a tough question, but it's real, no? And before everyone goes ballistic, I am not referring to those who are simply here to enjoy the forums. So please, no catatonic statements about 'I'm only here for the threads!!' yes, I'm talking about you. :-)
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No, never admit defeat 
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MiMi, I like the way you think. 
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MisterForYou: MiMi, I like the way you think.
Thank you, Mister 
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MisterForYou: ...isn't it time to acknowledge defeat (strictly in dating terms, that is). Perhaps some of us are simply not geared for partnership. So why are you still here? Are you just 'gaming the audience'? You enjoy the attention, the constant stream of inbox interest? Or are you a hopeless hopeful? I realise it's a tough question, but it's real, no? And before everyone goes ballistic, I am not referring to those who are simply here to enjoy the forums. So please, no catatonic statements about 'I'm only here for the threads!!' yes, I'm talking about you. :-)
Well I am not that old here but I can give my own ....we however only have our moment of youth once. Taking us here will NEVER get this time back. Rather we can Use it doing things we love .We have all the time in the world not lose hope
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Personal choice.
Why should anyone have to answer to you or anyone else on such matters??
Why should anyone have to answer to you or anyone else on such matters??
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deedee123xo: Personal choice.
Why should anyone have to answer to you or anyone else on such matters??
Oh dear, do you feel challenged? That was not my intention. An open post on the forums is for public consumption, and optional commenting. It is not meant as a personal critique on your personal situation, if that is the case. Please accept my apologies. Why should anyone have to answer to you or anyone else on such matters??
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Well, after a while you realise that the best you can do is to make yourself comfortable in the forums and if, I repeat, if you happen to be stricken by a lightning then fine...
And least you don't live with the frustrating feeling of failure every day...
And least you don't live with the frustrating feeling of failure every day...
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MisterForYou: Oh dear, do you feel challenged? That was not my intention. An open post on the forums is for public consumption, and optional commenting. It is not meant as a personal critique on your personal situation, if that is the case. Please accept my apologies.
Challenged???? By you???You will tell a funny one yet!!!
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MisterForYou: ...isn't it time to acknowledge defeat (strictly in dating terms, that is). Perhaps some of us are simply not geared for partnership. So why are you still here? Are you just 'gaming the audience'? You enjoy the attention, the constant stream of inbox interest? Or are you a hopeless hopeful? I realise it's a tough question, but it's real, no? And before everyone goes ballistic, I am not referring to those who are simply here to enjoy the forums. So please, no catatonic statements about 'I'm only here for the threads!!' yes, I'm talking about you. :-)
It depends on why someone joins CS whether they acknowledge defeat.I joined longer then 10 years ago because I wanted to socialize with people and it worked out great
I wasn't looking for a relationship however I did meet two men but they didn't fit my lifestyle
Now I don't sign on often because I'm not attracted to the thread subjects.
Soooooooooooooooooo, do I admit defeat? Absolutely not !
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I have been on here a little over a year and i already admitted defeat.
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This is my second tour on CS. During the first I frankly tried to date, but all attention I've got was from another countries. I've had a few dates with men from other countries... well, Gothenburg is closer to Kopenhagen and Oslo than Stockholm, but still Danmark and Norway are "other countries" and the worst thing that can happen is that you like each other. (Happened to me with a gentleman from Finland.) Then what? If neither of you are ready to move, it's only a way to hurting yourself and the other.
So I switched the dating purpose to participating in a forum (EU at that time) and learning English (you could learn good English from then EU forum). Then I met a man in the real life and left CS.
Now I'm back. I won't say "no" to a date, though for the 3 years of my second tour on CS I've got only 4 letters from Swedish men: 2 were much younger than I find it's appropriate and 2 lived hours by train away.
Yes, I'd like to have a date. Meanwhile I can hang on the fora.
Does male population find me unattractive? Well... I still can hang on the fora :)
So I switched the dating purpose to participating in a forum (EU at that time) and learning English (you could learn good English from then EU forum). Then I met a man in the real life and left CS.
Now I'm back. I won't say "no" to a date, though for the 3 years of my second tour on CS I've got only 4 letters from Swedish men: 2 were much younger than I find it's appropriate and 2 lived hours by train away.
Yes, I'd like to have a date. Meanwhile I can hang on the fora.
Does male population find me unattractive? Well... I still can hang on the fora :)
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Tulefell: This is my second tour on CS. During the first I frankly tried to date, but all attention I've got was from another countries. I've had a few dates with men from other countries... well, Gothenburg is closer to Kopenhagen and Oslo than Stockholm, but still Danmark and Norway are "other countries" and the worst thing that can happen is that you like each other. (Happened to me with a gentleman from Finland.) Then what? If neither of you are ready to move, it's only a way to hurting yourself and the other.
So I switched the dating purpose to participating in a forum (EU at that time) and learning English (you could learn good English from then EU forum). Then I met a man in the real life and left CS.
Now I'm back. I won't say "no" to a date, though for the 3 years of my second tour on CS I've got only 4 letters from Swedish men: 2 were much younger than I find it's appropriate and 2 lived hours by train away.
Yes, I'd like to have a date. Meanwhile I can hang on the fora.
Does male population find me unattractive? Well... I still can hang on the fora :)
Hey, thanks for your honesty. dating online is like selling real estate....it's all about location, location.So I switched the dating purpose to participating in a forum (EU at that time) and learning English (you could learn good English from then EU forum). Then I met a man in the real life and left CS.
Now I'm back. I won't say "no" to a date, though for the 3 years of my second tour on CS I've got only 4 letters from Swedish men: 2 were much younger than I find it's appropriate and 2 lived hours by train away.
Yes, I'd like to have a date. Meanwhile I can hang on the fora.
Does male population find me unattractive? Well... I still can hang on the fora :)
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secretagent09: It depends on why someone joins CS whether they acknowledge defeat.
I joined longer then 10 years ago because I wanted to socialize with people and it worked out great
I wasn't looking for a relationship however I did meet two men but they didn't fit my lifestyle
Now I don't sign on often because I'm not attracted to the thread subjects.
Soooooooooooooooooo, do I admit defeat? Absolutely not !
I remember you SA you used to laugh at my jokesI joined longer then 10 years ago because I wanted to socialize with people and it worked out great
I wasn't looking for a relationship however I did meet two men but they didn't fit my lifestyle
Now I don't sign on often because I'm not attracted to the thread subjects.
Soooooooooooooooooo, do I admit defeat? Absolutely not !
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MisterForYou: ...isn't it time to acknowledge defeat (strictly in dating terms, that is). Perhaps some of us are simply not geared for partnership. So why are you still here? Are you just 'gaming the audience'? You enjoy the attention, the constant stream of inbox interest? Or are you a hopeless hopeful? I realise it's a tough question, but it's real, no? And before everyone goes ballistic, I am not referring to those who are simply here to enjoy the forums. So please, no catatonic statements about 'I'm only here for the threads!!' yes, I'm talking about you. :-)
Well you won't win but if you keep trying there'll always be the sense that you deserved to. Plus we've come too far to give up now. You have to push on, push on to Moscow.------ This thread is Archived ------
ChesneyChrist: Well you won't win but if you keep trying there'll always be the sense that you deserved to. Plus we've come too far to give up now. You have to push on, push on to Moscow.
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ChesneyChrist: Well you won't win but if you keep trying there'll always be the sense that you deserved to. Plus we've come too far to give up now. You have to push on, push on to Moscow.
Everyone has their own reasons for being on the forums, just accept that some people you will-like and some you won't and vice versa , just have fun in your chosen niche.------ This thread is Archived ------
aries1234: Everyone has their own reasons for being on the forums, just accept that some people you will-like and some you won't and vice versa , just have fun in your chosen niche.
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ChesneyChrist: Well you won't win but if you keep trying there'll always be the sense that you deserved to. Plus we've come too far to give up now. You have to push on, push on to Moscow.
And there you will freeze to death in your graves.Yay!!!
I'm Russian.
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MisterForYou: As Bob said on his deathbed, 'Hope dies last.'
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