Dating and politics (34)
Of course I would ask the person his political preferences/beliefs... And it is extremely important for me... Here, marriages and complete families have been destroyed because of politics, so it's better to know where I am standing before making any major decisions that affect my future... 
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Melody1671: Of course I would ask the person his political preferences/beliefs... And it is extremely important for me... Here, marriages and complete families have been destroyed because of politics, so it's better to know where I am standing before making any major decisions that affect my future...
I would agree and think political beliefs are very important...when it comes to dating....I just can't see myself anywhere near...a woman on the left...who would think of me as a patriarchal oppressor and white supremacist...but would also live life as a victim 24/7 and go on about identity politics..from the moment she woke up...to the moment she went to bed in her padded cell...with a straight jacket on...Some may call me picky...but I say let those weak men...take on those kind women and try to live their lives with any kind of enjoyment
If a woman is not by my side...when it comes to my beliefs and passions...then let her walk on by and keep on walking...cause a crazy women....is not for me
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Stuff just comes up in conversation.
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If a woman is not by my side...when it comes to my beliefs and passions...then let her walk on by and keep on walking...cause a crazy women....is not for meThe Ultimate Arrogant Pratt Remark ... you're claiming then that any woman who is not aligned to your political views is a crazy women ???
Jeeze dud ... do you ever stop and wonder why you're still living with your Mummy ?
If a woman is not by my side...when it comes to my beliefs and passions...then let her walk on by and keep on walking...cause a crazy women....is not for meThe Ultimate Arrogant Pratt Remark ... you're claiming then that any woman who is not aligned to your political views is a crazy women ???
Jeeze dud ... do you ever stop and wonder why you're still living with your Mummy ?
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LeeCharming: I would agree and think political beliefs are very important...when it comes to dating....
I just can't see myself anywhere near...a woman on the left...who would think of me as a patriarchal oppressor and white supremacist...but would also live life as a victim 24/7 and go on about identity politics..from the moment she woke up...to the moment she went to bed in her padded cell...with a straight jacket on...Some may call me picky...but I say let those weak men...take on those kind women and try to live their lives with any kind of enjoyment
If a woman is not by my side...when it comes to my beliefs and passions...then let her walk on by and keep on walking...cause a crazy women....is not for me
Uhm... I just can't see myself anywhere near...a woman on the left...who would think of me as a patriarchal oppressor and white supremacist...but would also live life as a victim 24/7 and go on about identity politics..from the moment she woke up...to the moment she went to bed in her padded cell...with a straight jacket on...Some may call me picky...but I say let those weak men...take on those kind women and try to live their lives with any kind of enjoyment
If a woman is not by my side...when it comes to my beliefs and passions...then let her walk on by and keep on walking...cause a crazy women....is not for me
Never mind
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No Poli Talk in the bedroom 
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LeeCharming: cause a crazy women....is not for me
And yet any other kind wouldn't touch you with a barge pole. I think you are in what is known as a catch 22 situation. 
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LeeCharming: When I look at things going on in society and how much politics effects so many people...I think about how it is effecting the dating world....the left vs the right...has been going on a very long time and clearly the LEFT are unhinged and violent...so with this in mind....
Would you ask someone their political beliefs...before you date them?
How important is it to you...that the person you are dating....is of the same political beliefs as yourself?
I will have more questions later...but chew on these two for now
I realize there are as many ways to see this as there are couples. Given that, I’ll offer a few “sayings”. Would you ask someone their political beliefs...before you date them?
How important is it to you...that the person you are dating....is of the same political beliefs as yourself?
I will have more questions later...but chew on these two for now
“Every couple has the same five arguments, which is really only one argument”.
“Do not find yourselves unevenly yoked”.
“A difference of opinion and a difference in politics are not the same thing”.
My advice is to find someone who does share your politics. And, find out real soon. Avoid anyone who says (s)he doesn’t care about politics. Not usually a good sign. We are here to be acutely aware, and like it or not, politics are important. They are heavily peppered in everything we do...college, career, the whole Maryann.
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rohaan: I realize there are as many ways to see this as there are couples. Given that, I’ll offer a few “sayings”.
“Every couple has the same five arguments, which is really only one argument”.
“Do not find yourselves unevenly yoked”.
“A difference of opinion and a difference in politics are not the same thing”.
My advice is to find someone who does share your politics. And, find out real soon. Avoid anyone who says (s)he doesn’t care about politics. Not usually a good sign. We are here to be acutely aware, and like it or not, politics are important. They are heavily peppered in everything we do...college, career, the whole Maryann.
Couldn't agree with you more. A couple can co-exist with a respectful difference of opinion on many issues but when it comes to religion and politics - not easy. And can make or break a relationship.“Every couple has the same five arguments, which is really only one argument”.
“Do not find yourselves unevenly yoked”.
“A difference of opinion and a difference in politics are not the same thing”.
My advice is to find someone who does share your politics. And, find out real soon. Avoid anyone who says (s)he doesn’t care about politics. Not usually a good sign. We are here to be acutely aware, and like it or not, politics are important. They are heavily peppered in everything we do...college, career, the whole Maryann.
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Skye5: Couldn't agree with you more. A couple can co-exist with a respectful difference of opinion on many issues but when it comes to religion and politics - not easy. And can make or break a relationship.
Add finances, that has huge impact on relationships.------ This thread is Archived ------
Oxycodone: Add finances, that has huge impact on relationships.
Yip, especially when it comes on how to spend money.------ This thread is Archived ------
Another one is children - what values & morals to instill in them, how to discipline them, bedtime, how much TV, game time etc
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Oxycodone: Stuff just comes up in conversation.
This... Obviously. I don't like giving or taking tests any more. It's a date not an interrogation. I prefer having conversations, banter, flirting, and word play. Eventually, biographical details and political and religious beliefs will be touched upon in the flow of the conversation.------ This thread is Archived ------
Cranky_Geezer: This... Obviously. I don't like giving or taking tests any more. It's a date not an interrogation. I prefer having conversations, banter, flirting, and word play. Eventually, biographical details and political and religious beliefs will be touched upon in the flow of the conversation.
Exactly and that’s what makes the time spent more enjoyable. 
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Skye5: Couldn't agree with you more. A couple can co-exist with a respectful difference of opinion on many issues but when it comes to religion and politics - not easy. And can make or break a relationship.
sometimes when people can realize this it can be the beginning of a really wonderful relationship. 
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Prob best to check they dont have any extreme views at the start before having them thrown at you later on like happened to me once
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LeeCharming:
Would you ask someone their political beliefs...before you date them?
How important is it to you...that the person you are dating....is of the same political beliefs as yourself?
I will have more questions later...but chew on these two for now
Nothing to chew on, it's simple: your beliefs define you. So there's no point in dating someone if there are no shared values, political views are among the most important.Would you ask someone their political beliefs...before you date them?
How important is it to you...that the person you are dating....is of the same political beliefs as yourself?
I will have more questions later...but chew on these two for now
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charlala: Prob best to check they dont have any extreme views at the start before having them thrown at you later on like happened to me once
Yip, I agree. Initial dating should be fun but it is also a time to put out "feelers" as to how your date perceives & feels about things that are really important to him / her. Could save a lot of arguments later.------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: I realize there are as many ways to see this as there are couples. Given that, I’ll offer a few “sayings”.
“Every couple has the same five arguments, which is really only one argument”.
“Do not find yourselves unevenly yoked”.
“A difference of opinion and a difference in politics are not the same thing”.
My advice is to find someone who does share your politics. And, find out real soon. Avoid anyone who says (s)he doesn’t care about politics. Not usually a good sign. We are here to be acutely aware, and like it or not, politics are important. They are heavily peppered in everything we do...college, career, the whole Maryann.
Sometime people rush into relationships too quickly and don't spend enough time...getting to know someone....it really does take a long time to know if someone is right for you and women who have kids...too early on in a relationship...may very well end up breaking up the family unit and becoming single mothers“Every couple has the same five arguments, which is really only one argument”.
“Do not find yourselves unevenly yoked”.
“A difference of opinion and a difference in politics are not the same thing”.
My advice is to find someone who does share your politics. And, find out real soon. Avoid anyone who says (s)he doesn’t care about politics. Not usually a good sign. We are here to be acutely aware, and like it or not, politics are important. They are heavily peppered in everything we do...college, career, the whole Maryann.
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Would you ask someone their political beliefs...before you date them?
How important is it to you...that the person you are dating....is of the same political beliefs as yourself?
I will have more questions later...but chew on these two for now