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Why do most let their eyes change their minds words? (18)

Jun 20, 2021 9:51 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio
SensuallySapioSensuallySapioSUDBURY, Ontario Canada1 Threads 7 Posts
I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
Jun 20, 2021 11:32 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio: I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
I think that most people could have a relationship with just about any one for a while. But with age we learn what we do not like in a parter and there for choose to write down a restriction in what we are looking for, just to not repeat the same mistake and waste someone elses time.
Jun 20, 2021 11:45 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Car54
Car54Car54Noneya, Luxembourg Belgium6 Threads 565 Posts
SensuallySapio: I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
What do they want? Why should I care?

All I know is that each of get only what we deserve.
Jun 20, 2021 11:46 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Car54
Car54Car54Noneya, Luxembourg Belgium6 Threads 565 Posts
Car54: What do they want? Why should I care?

All I know is that each of get only what we deserve.
Each of us doh Why do I forget to write key words all the time? doh doh
Jun 20, 2021 11:56 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Car54: Each of us Why do I forget to write key words all the time?
happens me too ,, you have to check the message before you press the buzzer,,,
Jun 20, 2021 12:20 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio
SensuallySapioSensuallySapioSUDBURY, Ontario Canada1 Threads 7 Posts
Thanks for your reply. I agree we all have our internal no go's like others who hide anger, controlling etc.

I was talking more about when someone fits the internal wants of someone, but puts things, like height, weight, sometimes age, etc outer things, which screws themselves out of actually getting what they want. To me it is just so anti self interest. More so when those same people with their small, little group of possibles then b*tch and moan there is no one out there. We all know at least one person like that.

I guess I am in a small minority who cares not what someone's height, weight, hair colour, size of these and those etc etc. For me it is whom they are, and how they treat themslves, etc. and I just do not get why people limit themselves so from finding what they spend years trying to find because of their own negativeness. Sorry for rambling, and thanks for everyones input.
Jun 20, 2021 12:23 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio: I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
Only i have an answer that is lucid for this question.
Jun 20, 2021 12:24 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Car54
Car54Car54Noneya, Luxembourg Belgium6 Threads 565 Posts
michaelright: happens me too ,, you have to check the message before you press the buzzer,,,
I always forget that part doh
Jun 20, 2021 12:26 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio: Thanks for your reply. I agree we all have our internal no go's like others who hide anger, controlling etc.

I was talking more about when someone fits the internal wants of someone, but puts things, like height, weight, sometimes age, etc outer things, which screws themselves out of actually getting what they want. To me it is just so anti self interest. More so when those same people with their small, little group of possibles then b*tch and moan there is no one out there. We all know at least one person like that.

I guess I am in a small minority who cares not what someone's height, weight, hair colour, size of these and those etc etc. For me it is whom they are, and how they treat themslves, etc. and I just do not get why people limit themselves so from finding what they spend years trying to find because of their own negativeness. Sorry for rambling, and thanks for everyones input.
I settled for less in all my earlier relationships. Maybe it show what personality I have. Next time around I wish I do not.
Jun 20, 2021 1:28 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain50 Threads 1 Polls 5,535 Posts
SensuallySapio: Thanks for your reply. I agree we all have our internal no go's like others who hide anger, controlling etc.

I was talking more about when someone fits the internal wants of someone, but puts things, like height, weight, sometimes age, etc outer things, which screws themselves out of actually getting what they want. To me it is just so anti self interest. More so when those same people with their small, little group of possibles then b*tch and moan there is no one out there. We all know at least one person like that.

I guess I am in a small minority who cares not what someone's height, weight, hair colour, size of these and those etc etc. For me it is whom they are, and how they treat themslves, etc. and I just do not get why people limit themselves so from finding what they spend years trying to find because of their own negativeness. Sorry for rambling, and thanks for everyones input.
Apart from the type of mind/heart/soul that attracts me, I have a preference for height and weight because I'm under 5ft and very slight in weight but have a healthy lifestyle. Someone who' d very tall would give me neck ache when we're dancing laugh and someone overweight would probably have a cr*p diet and we would be no match...

As for age ... I'd rather date someone a few years older than my own children and unfortunately many (but not all) men around my age group or slightly older appear to have allowed their body to be all sorts of interesting 'shapes' I don't find appealing ... so again my age range preference reflects that ...
Were it not for the above, I might have replied to the 28 year old Greek god who wants to marry me laugh laugh laugh
Jun 26, 2021 9:46 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
SensuallySapio: I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
It is the epitome of human nature to be picky. Thereby hangs the tale.professor
Jun 26, 2021 11:10 AM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Smudgeeee
SmudgeeeeSmudgeeeeGuernica, Buenos Aires Argentina1 Threads 55 Posts
Reading profiles is my fav hobbie, some are hilarious and have ridiculous expectations.
Jun 26, 2021 1:57 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
What i desire is that he must be functional. banana
Jun 26, 2021 2:02 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
LaFonda: What i desire is that he must be functional.
I'm overly functional professor laugh conversing
Jun 26, 2021 2:10 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
jlw45: I'm overly functional
Functional thumbs up

smoking thumbs down

comfort handshake cheers
Jun 26, 2021 4:36 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Lostedonline today!
Lostedonline today!LostedSherman, Texas USA1 Threads 472 Posts
SensuallySapio: I have always been intrigued that most women and men, say they are looking for certain concepts within a person, to mesh with, then intentionally lessen their chances by adding such limiting restrictions on who they will accept? Just have never understood it, maybe you can help?

Then they complain there is no one who matches what their Essences say they want, when there absolutely are multiple numbers of possibilities, if they did not allow, perhaps through their own vanity, to stop them from getting what they say, over and over again, and in print here etc. what they want.
Because, nobody wants to wake up
the next morning, with a fugly rhino.
Jun 26, 2021 6:04 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 9,382 Posts
Well, eyes don’t usually lie
Jun 27, 2021 10:39 PM CST Why do most let their eyes change their minds words?
Packersbabe1: Well, eyes don’t usually lie
Dang it! I thought it was hips that didn't lie.
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