which should one follow ? i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
mrwright1: the head or the heart?
which should one follow ? i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much
what do the rest of you think?
I am far to cynical so i guess i must follow my head
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mrwright1: the head or the heart?
which should one follow ? i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much
what do the rest of you think?
Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..
I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong..
I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong.. duh!
Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.
Claayer: Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..
I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong..
I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong .. duh!
Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.
But I'm learning...
My heart is stupid.. my head is the clever one.
I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Ambrose2007: I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.
hahaha
I just can't seem to get a handle on the combining thing..
which should one follow ? i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much
Yeh .. but it's funny that isn't it.. the gut instinct is just about right EVERY single time.
(I never listen)
I think the 'gut' instinct we talk about is probably the combination of head and heart....some people are able to listen to it better than others...for some reason...
when we are not 'listening' to the gut....we tend to be either going with the head or the heart...
can't really express this clearly....maybe too tired...but gut instinct: probably best to go with if we will only take heed.
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which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much
what do the rest of you think?