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Jun 21, 2008 3:31 PM CST the head or the heart?
mrwright1
mrwright1mrwright1downtown ballybollock, Sligo Ireland7 Threads 1,069 Posts
the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failuredoh
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as muchthumbs down

what do the rest of you think?
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Jun 21, 2008 3:33 PM CST the head or the heart?
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
mrwright1: the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?




I am far to cynical so i guess i must follow my head
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Jun 21, 2008 3:36 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
mrwright1: the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?


Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..

I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong.. laugh

I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong.. duh! frustrated

Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.

But I'm learning... laugh

My heart is stupid.. my head is the clever one.
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Jun 21, 2008 3:38 PM CST the head or the heart?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I follow my heart...It usually never steers me wrong...Found My fiance on here by listening to my heart...
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Jun 21, 2008 3:39 PM CST the head or the heart?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
No brainer...............

The heart man, the heart..wink
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Jun 21, 2008 3:39 PM CST the head or the heart?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Claayer: Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..

I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong..

I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong .. duh!

Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.

But I'm learning...

My heart is stupid.. my head is the clever one.


I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.

wink hug
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Jun 21, 2008 3:40 PM CST the head or the heart?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
The smart thing to do is to follow your head.
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Jun 21, 2008 3:40 PM CST the head or the heart?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
The head
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Jun 21, 2008 3:41 PM CST the head or the heart?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
My gut...it's never wrong. Right now it's telling me I'm hungry.laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 3:41 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Ambrose2007: I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.


hahaha laugh

I just can't seem to get a handle on the combining thing.. roll eyes
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Jun 21, 2008 3:42 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kidatheart: My gut...it's never wrong. Right now it's telling me I'm hungry.


haha

Yeh .. but it's funny that isn't it.. the gut instinct is just about right EVERY single time.

(I never listen) roll eyes
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Jun 21, 2008 3:43 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
maryrachelle: The smart thing to do is to follow your head.


Oh it's the smart thing.. but not always the done thing.. laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 3:43 PM CST the head or the heart?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
The heart, the head will follow. JMO.heart beating
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Jun 21, 2008 3:44 PM CST the head or the heart?
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
Just go with the flow
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Jun 21, 2008 3:45 PM CST the head or the heart?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
If your head and heart tell you too different things then listen to your head to decide if you should listen to your heart.
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Jun 21, 2008 3:46 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kitty01: If your head and heart tell you too different things then listen to your head to decide if you should listen to your heart.


Thats true..

My head will tell me.. no way idiot!!....

and my heart goes.. but... but.. but... blues heart wings



duh! frustrated


laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 3:48 PM CST the head or the heart?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
heart gets you into trouble. Use the head attached to your shoulders!!



Never go with the heart, logic always prevailsprofessor
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Jun 21, 2008 3:50 PM CST the head or the heart?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
shipoker55: heart gets you into trouble. Use the head attached to your shoulders!!
Never go with the heart, logic always prevails


I know that's right.. I just still struggle with it.. laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 3:51 PM CST the head or the heart?
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
mrwright1: the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?


a balance of both
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Jun 21, 2008 3:52 PM CST the head or the heart?
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
Claayer: haha

Yeh .. but it's funny that isn't it.. the gut instinct is just about right EVERY single time.

(I never listen)

I think the 'gut' instinct we talk about is probably the combination of head and heart....some people are able to listen to it better than others...for some reason...

when we are not 'listening' to the gut....we tend to be either going with the head or the heart...

can't really express this clearly....maybe too tired...but gut instinct: probably best to go with if we will only take heed.cheers
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