SatelliteServer: stayed at a Motel a year ago and just stayed there a little while ago, the owner of the place is 28 and had me stare'n...
On entry and staying there the second time I seen her in the Hall and told her how worried I was about her and the holiday she had went on the past year, seems there was a plane crash in a Brazil Airport...
Anyhoo, after talking with her for a long time as I wanted to hear all about her holiday and waited to hear some guy picked her up but nothing of the sort and lets just say I have a hard time keeping my eyes of her, so talking one night I mention some fun I had on a Holiday with a female friend, that was a no no she started getting jealous and doctor smooth was caught in a awkward situation, time goes buy and when ever I had to phone the office for what ever I made sure I could speak with her... last night I phone down and ask for her and tell her I have to check out...
Next morning she walks by my room and I call her she comes in I say oh here is the key and I get a 50/50 she's giving me the look and my mind starts to melt, eyes fixed on the keys and hand it to her and said thanks for everything and hope her next flight is a good one...
Cut a solo down the road and some breathes I take as I just have it for her,
So it's been a little while and I can't get her out of my mind and had a dream about her and I was telling her I have it for you......
She is 28 and thats what is holding me back as I am 41, thought of pulling the midnight run to her vehicle and leaving a flower on it with a note from Doctor Love... still can't get the 28 outta my mind
So what ya folks thing should I stay of should I go? Midnight run or just behave and mind your own age?
and right about now I could surely use Auntie Clairs advice cause I have to put my mind on Ice...
VDLL1972: Go for it ... Age is nothing but a number
At a certain point yes ........... and I know for myself that I've shied away from getting involved with someone younger than myself because I didn't want to hold anyone back from having kids (as it seems alot of men wait because of their education/careers) ...................... now being in the place that I am now and knowing what I know ......... I wouldn't have let that happen. Let each person decide for themselves what they desire in a relationship and don't transpose your own ideas onto the other person.
Your own maturity seems to have gone out the window.
The only way you are going to find out if she really likes you enough to date you, is to ASK HER!!! Not us!!!
Running around thinking up possible scenarios in your head that probably will never happen is just an aberraton. What is that going to achieve except that you drive yourself demented?
This is not about what YOU are going to do with HER life. She will, at 28, have a mind of her own.
She may be into older men or not, and the only way you will find out is to ASK HER!!!! Any possible relationship takes TWO people making decisions.
Ask her out. She can only say no.
You will know for sure then and not be driving your self crazy making up scenarios about what MIGHT, possibly happen.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
shipoker55: whoever created the statement that age is nothing but a number was probably a dirty old man and should have been euthanized!!JMHFO....of course!!
Are you crazy? Do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if? Trust me on this, 20 years from now you'll still be wondering what you could have had but didn't because you came up with all kinds of reasons why it wouldn't work instead of just throwing caution to the wind.
BTW that 5 year rule is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of. People are not numbers!
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lol...don't even start!we're pretty much the same as everyone...this has nothing to do with culture or nationality...