The age thing stopped me, what do you think ( Archived) (66)

Jul 7, 2008 10:00 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 340 Posts
SatelliteServer: Maybe I should flip a coin and chase one of those Phillipine Lady's they don't care at all about aget and neither do there parents...


lol...don't even start!we're pretty much the same as everyone...this has nothing to do with culture or nationality...

tongue
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Jul 7, 2008 10:02 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
True love has no barriers.professor
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Jul 7, 2008 10:32 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
sxc666: True love has no barriers.


But to be shackled and chained .......... makes it interesting! laugh
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Jul 7, 2008 10:46 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
VDLL1972
VDLL1972VDLL1972Sweet F.A., New Jersey USA977 Posts
SatelliteServer: stayed at a Motel a year ago and just stayed there a little while ago, the owner of the place is 28 and had me stare'n...

On entry and staying there the second time I seen her in the Hall and told her how worried I was about her and the holiday she had went on the past year, seems there was a plane crash in a Brazil Airport...

Anyhoo, after talking with her for a long time as I wanted to hear all about her holiday and waited to hear some guy picked her up but nothing of the sort and lets just say I have a hard time keeping my eyes of her, so talking one night I mention some fun I had on a Holiday with a female friend, that was a no no she started getting jealous and doctor smooth was caught in a awkward situation, time goes buy and when ever I had to phone the office for what ever I made sure I could speak with her... last night I phone down and ask for her and tell her I have to check out...

Next morning she walks by my room and I call her she comes in I say oh here is the key and I get a 50/50 she's giving me the look and my mind starts to melt, eyes fixed on the keys and hand it to her and said thanks for everything and hope her next flight is a good one...

Cut a solo down the road and some breathes I take as I just have it for her,

So it's been a little while and I can't get her out of my mind and had a dream about her and I was telling her I have it for you......

She is 28 and thats what is holding me back as I am 41, thought of pulling the midnight run to her vehicle and leaving a flower on it with a note from Doctor Love... still can't get the 28 outta my mind

So what ya folks thing should I stay of should I go? Midnight run or just behave and mind your own age?

and right about now I could surely use Auntie Clairs advice cause I have to put my mind on Ice...


Go for it ... Age is nothing but a number professor
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Jul 7, 2008 10:56 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
kare65
kare65kare65brisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 225 Posts
Maturity is the big factor.................. but yeah i know wat u mean with a rule for your self i have that too lolwave
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Jul 7, 2008 10:56 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
VDLL1972: Go for it ... Age is nothing but a number


At a certain point yes ........... and I know for myself that I've shied away from getting involved with someone younger than myself because I didn't want to hold anyone back from having kids (as it seems alot of men wait because of their education/careers) ...................... now being in the place that I am now and knowing what I know ......... I wouldn't have let that happen. Let each person decide for themselves what they desire in a relationship and don't transpose your own ideas onto the other person.
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Jul 7, 2008 10:58 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
28 is plenty old enough for her to know her mind. Besides, it's only 13 years. REally, no biggie.
Go for it!
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Jul 7, 2008 11:46 PM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
That's not a huge age difference, and you both could be just right for each other, who knows...
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Jul 8, 2008 12:15 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Go for it Pal.You only live once.thumbs up

You act as if you were on one knee with a ring in your hand.wave

Don't go around WONDERING,,if i only.scold
If she beats ya up,you can always fall back on the C.S. group for support.

You made her a bit jealous.I see green light for you.It means GO!wink
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Jul 8, 2008 12:32 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Go for it man, 51/38 is working for me right now. thumbs up
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Jul 8, 2008 6:41 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 340 Posts
alabamabebe: Go for it man, 51/38 is working for me right now.


thumbs up
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Jul 8, 2008 6:52 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
Go for it!

There is 17 years between me and my partner. I am 35 and he is 52. Just because she is a younger woman, dont let that put you off!

Good luck!teddybear
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Jul 8, 2008 6:58 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Beats me why are are asking in a forum.

Your own maturity seems to have gone out the window.

The only way you are going to find out if she really likes you enough to date you, is to ASK HER!!! Not us!!!

Running around thinking up possible scenarios in your head that probably will never happen is just an aberraton. What is that going to achieve except that you drive yourself demented?

This is not about what YOU are going to do with HER life. She will, at 28, have a mind of her own.

She may be into older men or not, and the only way you will find out is to ASK HER!!!! Any possible relationship takes TWO people making decisions.

Ask her out. She can only say no.

You will know for sure then and not be driving your self crazy making up scenarios about what MIGHT, possibly happen.

You will KNOW for sure.

Then go with it, or leave it.
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Jul 8, 2008 7:00 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
whoever created the statement that age is nothing but a number was probably a dirty old man and should have been euthanized!!








JMHFO....of course!!
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Jul 8, 2008 7:08 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
shipoker55: whoever created the statement that age is nothing but a number was probably a dirty old man and should have been euthanized!!JMHFO....of course!!


Age IS nothing but a number,


that represents how old you are.grin
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Jul 8, 2008 7:10 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
bodleing: Age IS nothing but a number,that represents how old you are.



and how very young the other person is.



I went to apply for Social Security, I was told I had to be 62!! I said Age is nothing but a number!!

They called security.........go figure!!devil
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Jul 8, 2008 7:12 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Awww go for it dear.....that can be your women.....hug teddybear
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Jul 8, 2008 7:15 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
Love is bounded only by the intentions of your heart. cool
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Jul 8, 2008 8:29 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
Are you crazy?
Do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if?
Trust me on this, 20 years from now you'll still be wondering what you could have had but didn't because you came up with all kinds of reasons why it wouldn't work instead of just throwing caution to the wind.

BTW that 5 year rule is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of. People are not numbers!
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Jul 8, 2008 8:42 AM CST The age thing stopped me, what do you think
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
sometimes getting the first "NO", is merely a test to see your strength of feelings/conviction over the issue at hand.

Believe it or not "instant approval/agreement" is not always the best path for either considering becomoing involved with one another.
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