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For some time I’ve been suspecting that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. There have been several signs.
When she's not home I'll call her mobile but she doesn’t respond. Many times when our phone is ringing, and I pick it up, the person on the other end just hangs up. She’s out with her “girlfriends” quite often and when I ask about it it’s always someone from work whom I’ve never met.
I’m always on the lookout for her taxi when she’s out, but she’s walking the last bit every time, and I can hear a car driving away. So I thought, perhaps it’s not a taxi?
A couple of days ago I picked up her mobile just to check what the time was and she went bananas. She started shouting and cursing, telling me that I had no right checking her phone and that I was poking my nose in her business.
Anyway, I haven’t confronted her yet. Deep inside I didn’t want to know the truth, but yesterday I decided to check up on her. I was hiding behind my car to get full a view of our street and to see which car she came home with. It was while I was squatted behind the car that I noticed a lot of rust around the wheel bearing.
So, do you think I should get the car to a mechanic, or should I buy some parts from the local auto parts dealer and repair it myself?