Cell Phones at a First Time Meeting,Yes or No? (52)
jonahstrialspensacola, Florida USA11 Threads 132 PostsI have to say one of the most rudest experiences I have had in meeting someone for the first time is hearing or seeing someone's cell phone going off during a first time meeting with that person. I mean,after you know the person I wouldnt mind it at all,but meeting someone for the first time and being repeatedly interrupted by a cell phone is just down right rude. I have heard the many,"got kids,must have cell" excuses,but none worthwhile yet. My son is insulin dependent diabetic and I have never been in a situation where me answering the phone rudely or not calling him in 10-15min. would make a bit of difference in anything. What do you think?
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I do think that people have become very rude with cell phone use, but I would be tolerant if I was on a date with someone who had a child or children at home with a babysitter or something.
Having said that, if they receive a call and are clearly just chatting away while you are left to re-align the silverware on the table and have already memorized the entire 6-page menu....well, that is indeed rude, in my book.
Having said that, if they receive a call and are clearly just chatting away while you are left to re-align the silverware on the table and have already memorized the entire 6-page menu....well, that is indeed rude, in my book.
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All my dates have their children in the 'lost and found' office, or detention.
I think they are safe there and don't expect interruptions!
I think they are safe there and don't expect interruptions!
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Son calls..."Mom,where is the mustard?","Mom,I can find it on the top shelf of the fridge...where else should I check?" calls back a third time..."Mom,the bread you bought isn't the right kind for my sandwich,is there anything else I can eat?"....
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I never go anywhere without my phone. but I wound never just chat while on a date.
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jlb684: I do think that people have become very rude with cell phone use, but I would be tolerant if I was on a date with someone who had a child or children at home with a babysitter or something.
Having said that, if they receive a call and are clearly just chatting away while you are left to re-align the silverware on the table and have already memorized the entire 6-page menu....well, that is indeed rude, in my book.
Having said that, if they receive a call and are clearly just chatting away while you are left to re-align the silverware on the table and have already memorized the entire 6-page menu....well, that is indeed rude, in my book.
I suppose Ex or future GF's calling is unreasonable then..
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I carry my cell everywhere with me. But I am not rude in using it. And certainly wouldn't meeting someone for the first time.
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I would keep my cell phone on and have a friend call me in case I need baling out of the date (if he turns out to be what he is not)
If the date is great, we would have a secret code to let her know that I don't need the emergency situation to bail me out
Other then that I don't chat on the cell phone while on date
If the date is great, we would have a secret code to let her know that I don't need the emergency situation to bail me out
Other then that I don't chat on the cell phone while on date
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kamelia: I would keep my cell phone on and have a friend call me in case I need baling out of the date (if he turns out to be what he is not)
If the date is great, we would have a secret code to let her know that I don't need the emergency situation to bail me out
Other then that I don't chat on the cell phone while on date
If the date is great, we would have a secret code to let her know that I don't need the emergency situation to bail me out
Other then that I don't chat on the cell phone while on date
**Merky's making mental note for future reference**
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jonahstrials: I have to say one of the most rudest experiences I have had in meeting someone for the first time is hearing or seeing someone's cell phone going off during a first time meeting with that person. I mean,after you know the person I wouldnt mind it at all,but meeting someone for the first time and being repeatedly interrupted by a cell phone is just down right rude. I have heard the many,"got kids,must have cell" excuses,but none worthwhile yet. My son is insulin dependent diabetic and I have never been in a situation where me answering the phone rudely or not calling him in 10-15min. would make a bit of difference in anything. What do you think?
Next time excuse yourself, walk away, call their number, fart into the phone and don't go back, it will be a double whammy if you stick them with the lunch bill
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I think ......that I have a cell phone for emergencies. If my phone rings even during a hot love making session, I am going to answer it. The only people who have my number are those who would need to notify me in an emergency.
If "she" doesn't like my phone...don't let the door hit cha, where the good lord split cha
If "she" doesn't like my phone...don't let the door hit cha, where the good lord split cha
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definitely yes..u never know what kind of freakazoid ur meeting up with.
but it is rude to have a constant hotline like ur working for a 1-900 number from ur cell.If its an emergency the date should end.
but it is rude to have a constant hotline like ur working for a 1-900 number from ur cell.If its an emergency the date should end.
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Mistake:Never date a bondsman(lady)...I sat and watched that phone on vibrate til I couldnt stand it anymore and then picked it up and told him that he would have to stay in jail another 15minutes,"your bondslady is on a date damnit!"
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Heiress...Why would you even make a date with a freakizoid? 
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jonahstrials: I have to say one of the most rudest experiences I have had in meeting someone for the first time is hearing or seeing someone's cell phone going off during a first time meeting with that person. I mean,after you know the person I wouldnt mind it at all,but meeting someone for the first time and being repeatedly interrupted by a cell phone is just down right rude. I have heard the many,"got kids,must have cell" excuses,but none worthwhile yet. My son is insulin dependent diabetic and I have never been in a situation where me answering the phone rudely or not calling him in 10-15min. would make a bit of difference in anything. What do you think?
I agree, it is rude if the person has no legitimate reason to answer the call(s).
I had a friend whom I had known for many years, and lived outside the country at the time. We caught up when he was in town and had just sat down alfresco and about to order, when the cell phone goes off. Well, I was used to that happening on occasion as he was in business and a bit of a wheeler and dealer. Well, the call went on, and on, and on. I began to feel a bit of a goose. So, instead of feeling stupid just sitting there, I summoned the waiter and soon ordered some of their most expensive wines, and the tastiest of morsels. So he could take his time for all I cared!
Unfortunately, he wasn't the least bit fazed at my ordering. Instead he complimented me on my good taste.Darn!
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pretzelman: I think ......that I have a cell phone for emergencies. If my phone rings even during a hot love making session, I am going to answer it. The only people who have my number are those who would need to notify me in an emergency.
If "she" doesn't like my phone...don't let the door hit cha, where the good lord split cha
If "she" doesn't like my phone...don't let the door hit cha, where the good lord split cha
It must get pretty strained having so many emergency calls, pretz!
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Having a cell phone with you wherever you go is a must nowadays.
Taking an emergency call on any date (including 1st) is OK. But how often is it really an emergency call?
"The wrong type of bread in a house" or "not being able to find mustard in a fridge/i]" type of calls is not an emergency by any means.
It is very rude, yes.
Your date gives you the opportunity to get to know them streight from the start
I personally welcome such opportunities.
Taking an emergency call on any date (including 1st) is OK. But how often is it really an emergency call?
"The wrong type of bread in a house" or "not being able to find mustard in a fridge/i]" type of calls is not an emergency by any means.
It is very rude, yes.
Your date gives you the opportunity to get to know them streight from the start
I personally welcome such opportunities.
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I do not believe its a good decision to give ones Cell # out on the first date.
I've had a couple of bad experiences when I was actively dating.
I've had a couple of bad experiences when I was actively dating.
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I have to agree with the majority here. Yes, my cell goes with me everywhere. I have classified everyone by ringtones, so I know when it's my sons or my family, a friend, or a stranger. It is my only phone, and I will not leave home without it. My family lives out of state. Should they call, and they rarely do 'cuz I usually call them instead, then I would presume an emergency and answer. If my sons call, I answer. Anyone else, I'll ignore and call back later...unless it's one of those pre-arranged bail-out potential calls, and I need bailing out!
I do consider taking several calls from friends to be rude. Yes, I've been on a date with a man who ran a business that necessitated calls at any time, and I understood that, but when he took a call from a friend, I considered that rude. But then, that man's entire behavior that night was rude, so I bailed on the date.
I do consider taking several calls from friends to be rude. Yes, I've been on a date with a man who ran a business that necessitated calls at any time, and I understood that, but when he took a call from a friend, I considered that rude. But then, that man's entire behavior that night was rude, so I bailed on the date.
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Yes it may be considered rude to bring/have a cell phone but I feel there are exceptions to the rule of why I would take mine on the very first meeting/date.
And my purpose of having my cell phone on a date would be to call a cab or get away if the first meeting went bad.
I have read several online websites with some tips in which to follow when meeting someone for the first time.
Always meet them in a public place.
That if you've had online or phone conversations and have agreed or decided you both want to meet in person to have that person give you a recent photo so you know who to look for.
If it's an out-of town date or not to bring your cell phone & make sure it's fully charged.
Next is to tell a friend & family member your plans.
To also give your friend or family member the name of the person you're meeting,their cell number,the place you're meeting.
If the date/meeting was to be only for acouple hours or so then have that friend/family member call you to check on you.
And my purpose of having my cell phone on a date would be to call a cab or get away if the first meeting went bad.
I have read several online websites with some tips in which to follow when meeting someone for the first time.
Always meet them in a public place.
That if you've had online or phone conversations and have agreed or decided you both want to meet in person to have that person give you a recent photo so you know who to look for.
If it's an out-of town date or not to bring your cell phone & make sure it's fully charged.
Next is to tell a friend & family member your plans.
To also give your friend or family member the name of the person you're meeting,their cell number,the place you're meeting.
If the date/meeting was to be only for acouple hours or so then have that friend/family member call you to check on you.
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