Me and Ship should have hot affair, maybe it would cure my arthritis with all the action. And all the exercise will also make me walk normal again, it is a miracle.
Really you need to find those at the same place you are at without the trappings themselves or maybe who have some to realize that having someone else to pal around with or be romantic with is better than being in pain all by yourselves lol. You both bring up good points though.
Well here I go Pretzie, Yes dammit I know everyone else still calls you ship, but if that's what you still wanted to be known as, you would not have changed it, right?
I have stated on here many times what you see is what you get. Yes, I do live in a dreamland, that someday he will come along and want me just as I am. When I have to come back to earth and face reality that is all it will ever be is a dream.
I do not work. I live in a HUD apartment, although I think it is very nice here. My income is SSD, and my medical is covered by medicare, medicaid.
I am no beauty by any means. I have MS, LUPUS, ARTHRITIS, DEPRESSION,ETC.
I do have a nice vehicle that my kids bought when I was with Nick as they wanted to have peace of mind when we did have medical appts. that we would not break down.
I bloat like a pig when I have to take the prednisone for the lupus. Many of you saw my pic. when I posted it after having a breast biopsy. I have very large breast and they do cause some back pain.
I am BBW and see no end in sight for that. I do try to flirt and joke around on here as I believe this is as far as I will ever get in a relationship. I feel the same, if any guy ever sees me naked and still says he loves me, he has a rock loose upstairs. But hey I will devour him one more time before he takes off.
I still stick to my guns so to speak on this one matter Pretzie. If your life ever gets you so down and you just need a place to hide out for awhile, I have this place. Not for falling in a tangled web of passion(LOL) but just because I call you friend, and that's what friends do. After all is that not why you are in Vegas right now?
sassy49senior: Well here I go Pretzie, Yes dammit I know everyone else still calls you ship, but if that's what you still wanted to be known as, you would not have changed it, right?
I have stated on here many times what you see is what you get. Yes, I do live in a dreamland, that someday he will come along and want me just as I am. When I have to come back to earth and face reality that is all it will ever be is a dream.
I do not work. I live in a HUD apartment, although I think it is very nice here. My income is SSD, and my medical is covered by medicare, medicaid.
I am no beauty by any means. I have MS, LUPUS, ARTHRITIS, DEPRESSION,ETC.
I do have a nice vehicle that my kids bought when I was with Nick as they wanted to have peace of mind when we did have medical appts. that we would not break down.
I bloat like a pig when I have to take the prednisone for the lupus. Many of you saw my pic. when I posted it after having a breast biopsy. I have very large breast and they do cause some back pain.
I am BBW and see no end in sight for that. I do try to flirt and joke around on here as I believe this is as far as I will
You are a kind, humble lovely woman. Whoo hoo girl hope that man comes along. ever get in a relationship. I feel the same, if any guy ever sees me naked and still says he loves me, he has a rock loose upstairs. But hey I will devour him one more time before he takes off.
I still stick to my guns so to speak on this one matter Pretzie. If your life ever gets you so down and you just need a place to hide out for awhile, I have this place. Not for falling in a tangled web of passion(LOL) but just because I call you friend, and that's what friends do. After all is that not why you are in Vegas right now?
sassy49senior: Well here I go Pretzie, Yes dammit I know everyone else still calls you ship, but if that's what you still wanted to be known as, you would not have changed it, right?
I have stated on here many times what you see is what you get. Yes, I do live in a dreamland, that someday he will come along and want me just as I am. When I have to come back to earth and face reality that is all it will ever be is a dream.
I do not work. I live in a HUD apartment, although I think it is very nice here. My income is SSD, and my medical is covered by medicare, medicaid.
I am no beauty by any means. I have MS, LUPUS, ARTHRITIS, DEPRESSION,ETC.
I do have a nice vehicle that my kids bought when I was with Nick as they wanted to have peace of mind when we did have medical appts. that we would not break down.
I bloat like a pig when I have to take the prednisone for the lupus. Many of you saw my pic. when I posted it after having a breast biopsy. I have very large breast and they do cause some back pain.
I am BBW and see no end in sight for that. I do try to flirt and joke around on here as I believe this is as far as I will ever get in a relationship. I feel the same, if any guy ever sees me naked and still says he loves me, he has a rock loose upstairs. But hey I will devour him one more time before he takes off.
I still stick to my guns so to speak on this one matter Pretzie. If your life ever gets you so down and you just need a place to hide out for awhile, I have this place. Not for falling in a tangled web of passion(LOL) but just because I call you friend, and that's what friends do. After all is that not why you are in Vegas right now?
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
Ambrose2007: Exactly. Romantic relationships aren't principally altruistic in nature (nor would we want them to be...who would want to be loved as a charity case?), and it's a simple fact that some quid pro quo is involved. To think otherwise is to indulge in pure - albeit nice-sounding - fantasy.
I don't know I see other people who's SO help out and are understanding. Just hasn't happened with me. So I'll stay single.
Dawn7z: You are a kind lovely humble woman Sassy. Whooo hooo hope some guy comes along and sees how wonderful you are.
Thank you Dawn, You are awesome, however when I have my moods I don't even want to be around me(LOL) I sure would like to be in that group hug and am sending one back, just for you.
wixomwizard: OMG....We could be twins,only add 6 yrs.
I'm so poor, I can't afford to pay attention and the government is repossessing the vacant lot I'm living in. My belly keeps my feet from getting sunburned in the summer and my teeth are like stars, they come out everynight. Health wise, I've had TB as a babe, polio as a pre-teen, prostate cancer 5 yrs ago, a major heart attack 9mos ago. This body needs another trip down the assembly line. You think you lack of love prospects? I could'nt get laid in a womans prison with a fistful of Presidential Pardons....literally.
Welcome to the club of old age....other than all of that, I'm fantastic but getting better all the time.
Now Harry, remember your lovely lady could be lurking and reading this.
sassy49senior: Thank you Dawn, You are awesome, however when I have my moods I don't even want to be around me(LOL) I sure would like to be in that group hug and am sending one back, just for you.
I think we are all scared. That is why when someone does want to meet me I always end up not going. I start to think who would want someone who looks like me, overweight, limping, and sometimes will freak out from one of my panic attacks I have had since childhood.
kitty01: I think we are all scared. That is why when someone does want to meet me I always end up not going. I start to think who would want someone who looks like me, overweight, limping, and sometimes will freak out from one of my panic attacks I have had since childhood.
Do you tell them about these important facts before you meet. If so then stop condeming yourself, We can be our own worst Judge. Just be honest with them and get your butt there to meet them
mylifewithu: Do you tell them about these important facts before you meet. If so then stop condeming yourself, We can be our own worst Judge. Just be honest with them and get your butt there to meet them
There is one guy now who wants to meet, I have always found a excuse why not to meet. He did send me a e-card just the other day, maybe I should e mail him again if I remember his name.
I am old, I am what & who I am. I am NOT willing to change into something else to please another. I have enough to get by comfortably all alone, I have no desire to totally support another.
I care for an 88 year old mom in bad health. "To me", it is unfair to ask a woman into my life at this time. Unfair to her and to my mother. Some do not understand that, maybe I did NOT communicate my "feelings" properly.
I have female "friends", I am NOT willing to give up friendships for a relationship. I have made that mistake before. I would NOT ask a "her" to give up her male friends, if I did not trust her, I have no business being with her.
I have been told I am a "loving" man, I have also been told I do not know how to receive love. I suppose that is possible. Tghere are people I love, and people that love me. I know that for a fact, they tell me nearly every day.
I am not "available" at this point in my life. I believe that both parties must be available, mentally, physically, spiritually. and emotionally for a relationship to really work. At this point in life, I lack the emotional availability. Some days I am so emotionally drained I am in bed by 8 or 8:30..
When I am free.....
My "history" is anything but good. What I know, is I have learned something important from every one of them and that "I" am the common denominator..
kitty01: There is one guy now who wants to meet, I have always found a excuse why not to meet. He did send me a e-card just the other day, maybe I should e mail him again if I remember his name.
Find him and explain the truth about your arthritis and such as that you were scared of rejection. But in the end don't be scared of rejection, we all get that till we find the right one. Isn't the right one , worth the pain and work to find. I believe so Find him
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
Maybe everyone is scared about something. I met someone on here with lots of kids and his life was a mess kind of. I know he wanted to be together but he was so scared to make changes in his life-get his adult children functioning on their own and he took early retirement because of a work injury. I think he couldn't do anything because he was so overwhelmed but I was willing to be involved in all that. But I couldn't change his fears....
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