Obstinance_Works: The Female rationalisation hamster grows stronger and fluffier with age.
I don't see your experience with young men - young soldiers no less - in anyway negates what I've just said. The very fact that you're so forthcoming with your relations with young soldiers fits what I've just said perfectly.
'I thought he would be like a roaring lion in those intimate moments since he was young, but he wasn't'
This line fits perfectly my assertion that they are Beta. And your ego is not enhanced by your experiences with him - I said "status- seeking" ego - your ego is served by telling everybody else about your relations with young soldiers. As you have just done so.
First of all, I didn't have relations with young soldiers. I was a penpal to four soldiers and became a personal friend to one of them.
If I needed to flaunt my experience with him I would have done it long, long ago when I joined CS, especially with all the threads about cougars.
My ego is enhanced when my daughter receives recognition in the good deeds she does.
Furthermore, I don't need my ego enhanced. I know who I am.
montemonte: First of all, I didn't have relations with young soldiers. I was a penpal to four soldiers and became a personal friend to one of them.
If I needed to flaunt my experience with him I would have done it long, long ago when I joined CS, especially with all the threads about cougars.
My ego is enhanced when my daughter receives recognition in the good deeds she does.
Furthermore, I don't need my ego enhanced. I know who I am.
A personal friend you thought would be like a roaring lion in those intimate moments?
I'm not sure I understand. Were you offering support to our, frankly neglected, armed forces personnel out of the goodness of your heart and sense of service to your country? Or were you cougaring?
Obstinance_Works: A personal friend you thought would be like a roaring lion in those intimate moments?
I'm not sure I understand. Were you offering support to our, frankly neglected, armed forces personnel out of the goodness of your heart and sense of service to your country? Or were you cougaring?
Missblonde: Yes it would matter to me, Ive brought one kid up, dont need another, I think men in their 20's looking for a woman in their 40's+ are just looking for a mother figure
Monte, I really should give you more credit for writing to soldiers. Most cougars spend their time cornering polite smiles and nervous glances or charming us all by stumbling around and laughing it off as some kind of binge drinking medal sweep.
Dadude62: Or a 30 or so yr old woman scammer looking for men up to their 80s,,,,
Hi Dadude, I'm not talking about scammers, I'm talking about locals.
I aimed that comment on guys who came up with the "age is just number" saying who are mainly in their 20's and some are in their 50's - 60's and they are usually looking for NSA . I wasn't aimed on everyone who is just in that age bracket.
A few years younger is ok, but 10 years or more is a big NO WAY they are without a lot of life experiences (there are always exceptions) so the discussions are never on the same level. Don't think the bed experience depends on age, lol, it depends on the character of both and what they learned on their way. Excuse me if I used the wrong words, my english isn't perfect.
Im 28 and accualy Im a little curious myself.. Im more attracted to a woman older then me.. Guess you can call me a cougar hunter lol.. Course Im looking for the more long term then a casual encounter.
ThisGuyDave: Im 28 and accualy Im a little curious myself.. Im more attracted to a woman older then me.. Guess you can call me a cougar hunter lol.. Course Im looking for the more long term then a casual encounter.
Before anything, a woman will ask you how thick is your wallet, age doesn't matter if she's interested in you.
At some time you may want some conversation. Age differences mean that the partner doesn't have the same experience base. Makes for dull conversation. Mutual interests are what keep any relationship functioning...dating and relating.
I have gone out with a guy 10 years younger than me. It ended fast, one date. We didn't have anything in common. He didn't like it that I gave up. I wanted the whole package. I like a guy around my own age. Though, some guys my age still haven't grown up.
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A glimmer of truth in what he says though