It would be sheer subjective speculation to presume why a date likes, or dislikes me. I suppose the same reason I like, or dislike them -- lack of compatibility.
Obstinance_Works: My outcome independence and immunity to fear of rejection peppered with plausibly deniable taunts, teases and expressions of interest.
Obstinance_Works: It's mean how you deride your own orbiter class. You do realise that this comedy(very loose description)is reality for the CS male nerd standard.
Obstinance_Works: It's mean how you deride your own orbiter class. You do realise that this comedy(very loose description)is reality for the CS male nerd standard.
At best I would probably be the monkey in that show. Proudly, LOL.
2intrigued: This is due to your display of alpha and beta personality traits at battle. Choose to be one or the other based on the desired outcome you are seeking and you will find fulfillment.
Every man is a battle of Alpha & Beta(bar psychopaths and the socially dysfunctional Omega), but the distinction is not Black & White.
Alpha and Beta are fuzzy designations but nonetheless readily apprehended, just as the grassy plain is distinct from the desert and you would be hard pressed to identify the exact border which delineates between the two, so is the case between Alpha & Beta.
Anyway, later on there is time for Betaness and she will appreciate the compassion and the trust BUT not before she's established attraction for and assured of her confidence in him. This is why dating and single men need to lead with the Alpha charge, the shortest and most effective war is radical war, and tomorrow will spring the peace of Betaish tranquility.
Obstinance_Works: Every man is a battle of Alpha & Beta(bar psychopaths and the socially dysfunctional Omega), but the distinction is not Black & White.
Alpha and Beta are fuzzy designations but nonetheless readily apprehended, just as the grassy plain is distinct from the desert and you would be hard pressed to identify the exact border which delineates between the two, so is the case between Alpha & Beta.
Anyway, later on there is time for Betaness and she will appreciate the compassion and the trust BUT not before she's established attraction for and assured of her confidence in him. This is why dating and single men need to lead with the Alpha charge, the shortest and most effective war is radical war, and tomorrow will spring the peace of Betaish tranquility.
For me personally, I would be attracted to the Beta male who presents himself as a Beta from the outset.
2intrigued: For me personally, I would be attracted to the Beta male who presents himself as a Beta from the outset.
I'm tempted to say that you'd be a lot happier with a lesser Alpha, but perhaps a greater Beta would suffice.
Never forget that you have to allow for the man's natural inclination for slacking off and the creeping betatude that ensues. What began as a polished and presentable Beta could very well end up as a ball-shrivelling, cringe-inspiring wreck of a Man.
Obstinance_Works: I'm tempted to say that you'd be a lot happier with a lesser Alpha, but perhaps a greater Beta would suffice.
Never forget that you have to allow for the man's natural inclination for slacking off and the creeping betatude that ensues. What began as a polished and presentable Beta could very well end up as a ball-shrivelling, cringe-inspiring wreck of a Man.
I'll aim for the lower Alpha and hope to end up with a greater Beta although Deltas seem to be in the majority as they believe they are the brave and bold Alpha snowflake.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Obstinance_Works: Every man is a battle of Alpha & Beta(bar psychopaths and the socially dysfunctional Omega), but the distinction is not Black & White.
Alpha and Beta are fuzzy designations but nonetheless readily apprehended, just as the grassy plain is distinct from the desert and you would be hard pressed to identify the exact border which delineates between the two, so is the case between Alpha & Beta.
Anyway, later on there is time for Betaness and she will appreciate the compassion and the trust BUT not before she's established attraction for and assured of her confidence in him. This is why dating and single men need to lead with the Alpha charge, the shortest and most effective war is radical war, and tomorrow will spring the peace of Betaish tranquility.
then why Charles go for Camilla and left Diana ??? you said somebody who have 8 would not go for 6 in any scenario ???
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Boban1: Bedroom skills perhaps ???
that's why I don't believe when somebody puts physical stuffs as priority in finding partner... I've met many people in many combination...fat husband & slim wife, atlethic husband & curvy wife, etc etc....if all people are kind & faithful, of course I will drop my choice to the most good looking man (but mostly are scammers & con artists)
Cyn_Real: that's why I don't believe when somebody puts physical stuffs as priority in finding partner... I've met many people in many combination...fat husband & slim wife, atlethic husband & curvy wife, etc etc....if all people are kind & faithful, of course I will drop my choice to the most good looking man (but mostly are scammers & con artists)
2intrigued: Just be happy you're not a Lambda and don't become an Omega. Eventually you will find a balance through experience as opposed to displaying what it is that you think or read is desired by women.
It's not like that. The trick is to do what I do BUT don't say it... it spoils the romance.
The reason I talk of this at all is, not surprisingly knowing me, for political reasons. If the Beta can be trained then there's a chance that feminist women won't divorce them every 5 minutes: thus saving family unit and the future of Western civilisation.. and I openly admit that my concern for the future of civilisation does make me at least a little bit Beta.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Boban1: I have to quote Dart Vader on this
You don`t know the power of the dark side ...
if all people are nice, faithful, trustful, honest, calm, not rude, humble, caring, kind, respectful....no thief, no burglar, no cheater... we don't need policeman or jail...
Obstinance_Works: It's not like that. The trick is to do what I do BUT don't say it... it spoils the romance.
The reason I talk of this at all is, not surprisingly knowing me, for political reasons. If the Beta can be trained then there's a chance that feminist women won't divorce them every 5 minutes: thus saving family unit and the future of Western civilisation.. and I openly admit that my concern for the future of civilisation does make me at least a little bit Beta.
I'm thinking you are then a Beta displaying Alpha traits to attract a non-feminist...am I correct? I can't speak for all Beta seeking females, but being a non-feminist, I am attracted to a man who exhibits his Beta trait at the outset.
Cyn_Real: if all people are nice, faithful, trustful, honest, calm, not rude, humble, caring, kind, respectful....no thief, no burglar, no cheater... we don't need policeman or jail...
You know, being unfruitful and cheating is not really a crime ,not yet atleast .
2intrigued: I'm thinking you are then a Beta displaying Alpha traits to attract a non-feminist...am I correct? I can't speak for all Beta seeking females, but being a non-feminist, I am attracted to a man who exhibits his Beta trait at the outset.
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