Generally the quality of women here on CS are plain Janes not supermodels so it is obvious who to discern who is real and who is fake. Plus those who seem genuine in writing profiles usually make unrealistic expectations of men that even the women cannot believe in.
Ziusudra: Generally the quality of women here on CS are plain Janes not supermodels so it is obvious who to discern who is real and who is fake. Plus those who seem genuine in writing profiles usually make unrealistic expectations of men that even the women cannot believe in.
Yea...funny thing, in real life, most women are ordinary looking...exactly the same as men
Circleofflame: Are you sick of seeing hundreds of profiles without photos? Are you tired of page after page of maybe two or three photos, with the rest black and white drawings? This is the poll for you! In my opinion, everyone should be Required to have a photo with their profile!
i mailed,mine into office,dont know if u still can?same owner,etc.?they wont,on other sites.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Ziusudra: Generally the quality of women here on CS are plain Janes not supermodels so it is obvious who to discern who is real and who is fake. Plus those who seem genuine in writing profiles usually make unrealistic expectations of men that even the women cannot believe in.
True..
and scammers with ordinary looks are just smarter ....
I think having a face pic or a no pic or perhaps a pic of something else is only a small part of who we are or want to be on Cs. We soon gain a perception of other members by their postings and how they interact here on the site. Scammers do take care of themselves and realistically, how hard is is to spot one? I may often times have a pic posted that may not be a face pic but I do always have pics. of myself within my profile. In fact I change my pics every so often with pics that often times show my interests,my work and what have you.Pics are good but people have their own reasons for why they may not to have one up and we should respect that.
kennn: I think having a face pic or a no pic or perhaps a pic of something else is only a small part of who we are or want to be on Cs. We soon gain a perception of other members by their postings and how they interact here on the site. Scammers do take care of themselves and realistically, how hard is is to spot one? I may often times have a pic posted that may not be a face pic but I do always have pics. of myself within my profile. In fact I change my pics every so often with pics that often times show my interests,my work and what have you.Pics are good but people have their own reasons for why they may not to have one up and we should respect that.
Window shopping is easy. Talking to someone behind a curtain is really the game. Kind of like the old game show. Contestant #1 #2 #3.what if? True love is blind but most of us still can see.
Circleofflame: Are you sick of seeing hundreds of profiles without photos? Are you tired of page after page of maybe two or three photos, with the rest black and white drawings? This is the poll for you! In my opinion, everyone should be Required to have a photo with their profile!
Makes no sense to me You cannot tell nothing about a picture. Is it really the person? Is it photo shopped? I am not very photogenic (that is the story I tell myself ) I have had lots of pics of myself put up. And I have had none. I have just one now. To be completely honest photos are easy to steal on the internet. By putting one up you are actually taking a risk. For me life is all about risk others like a whole lot of safety in their lives. I have communicated with people without pictures and people with. Guess what there are good and bad people in both scenarios. I have a relative on here who took her pic down because of abusive emails Some one might be overlooking a real diamond in this case If I had a choice on requirements I would choose people would have to take a mental evaluation and have it posted in their profile. Some of my favorite people here don't have photos up. I don't need to know what they look like to know if I like them or not. Good luck to you on your journey.
dynas: Window shopping is easy. Talking to someone behind a curtain is really the game. Kind of like the old game show. Contestant #1 #2 #3.what if? True love is blind but most of us still can see.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Ziusudra: Generally the quality of women here on CS are plain Janes not supermodels so it is obvious who to discern who is real and who is fake. Plus those who seem genuine in writing profiles usually make unrealistic expectations of men that even the women cannot believe in.
True and exactly the same for men...
scammers with superstar pictures are stupid thieves..... the smarter thieves will use ordinary looks that are far from suspicious impression to integrate with people....
Circleofflame: Are you sick of seeing hundreds of profiles without photos? Are you tired of page after page of maybe two or three photos, with the rest black and white drawings? This is the poll for you! In my opinion, everyone should be Required to have a photo with their profile!
Happygolucky4u: Makes no sense to me You cannot tell nothing about a picture. Is it really the person? Is it photo shopped? I am not very photogenic (that is the story I tell myself ) I have had lots of pics of myself put up. And I have had none. I have just one now. To be completely honest photos are easy to steal on the internet. By putting one up you are actually taking a risk. For me life is all about risk others like a whole lot of safety in their lives. I have communicated with people without pictures and people with. Guess what there are good and bad people in both scenarios. I have a relative on here who took her pic down because of abusive emails Some one might be overlooking a real diamond in this case If I had a choice on requirements I would choose people would have to take a mental evaluation and have it posted in their profile. Some of my favorite people here don't have photos up. I don't need to know what they look like to know if I like them or not. Good luck to you on your journey.
a photo is interesting ... but the way to express yourself is crucial...some persons no photos you can feel their ''angel'' persons with nice photos and ugly personalities.. it is about perception i guess..
Circleofflame: Are you sick of seeing hundreds of profiles without photos? Are you tired of page after page of maybe two or three photos, with the rest black and white drawings? This is the poll for you! In my opinion, everyone should be Required to have a photo with their profile!
You wrote this like an infomercial...was expecting a mind blowing solution for 4 easy payments of $9.98. Photo or no photo, we are never guaranteed that the person behind the profile is who they say they are anyway.
2intrigued: You wrote this like an infomercial...was expecting a mind blowing solution for 4 easy payments of $9.98. Photo or no photo, we are never guaranteed that the person behind the profile is who they say they are anyway.
True, They could be Jack the Rippers cousin or something.
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