Why when you write women, why do they not write back? (89)
Ah they just want to mess with your head. 
Me thinks it happens to most guys 
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Circleofflame: My poll is part serious because most of the women you write to on CS are not courteous enough to write you back! I, myself, would appreciate a response from each lady, even if it's, "no thanks" , or whatever. Most women say they want a nice guy, honest, with a sense of humor, yet when you write to them, they don't reply?! Why? I, and I think a lot of other guys, would really like to find out!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
If a woman doesn't respond doesn't that mean "she's not interested:
Why do you need her to actually tell you she's not interested in you
The women and men on CS are under no obligation to respond to email, flowers or threads
I've been here a long time and I learned a long time ago that if I say.....thanks but no thanks....the man will write back and ask why
Then if I tell him why he will write again asking me to explain
So now 99% of the time I don't read email from men because I'm not interested in anyone but the man that is in my life
Got it????
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Circleofflame: My poll is part serious because most of the women you write to on CS are not courteous enough to write you back! I, myself, would appreciate a response from each lady, even if it's, "no thanks" , or whatever. Most women say they want a nice guy, honest, with a sense of humor, yet when you write to them, they don't reply?! Why? I, and I think a lot of other guys, would really like to find out!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
Because they're evil.
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Because they were writing me Instead!
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Circleofflame: My poll is part serious because most of the women you write to on CS are not courteous enough to write you back! I, myself, would appreciate a response from each lady, even if it's, "no thanks" , or whatever. Most women say they want a nice guy, honest, with a sense of humor, yet when you write to them, they don't reply?! Why? I, and I think a lot of other guys, would really like to find out!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
Sometimes I will say thanks but most I don't if their message was sincere. Some just appear to be 'fake'. Another reason why I don't respond is because the mailer takes my 'thank you' as an open door for communication. Almost ljke an invitation. I admit most men have not captured my attention romantically. Some that I responded to actually have turned out to be great friends of mine.
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HotrodLarrys: Because they were writing me Instead!
Big shot eh?
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I take it the yes means yes/no means no rule does not apply on this site?
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2intrigued: Big shot eh?
Got to keep it Interesting!
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HotrodLarrys: Got to keep it Interesting!
Of course
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Actually, I don't get it and after I find out what it's like, I probably would not have wanted it in the first place! If I sit down and take the time to write you a nice, well thought out email, why do I not deserve an answer? If you don't want to answer after you say "no thanks", fine. Women question everything: why didn't you write, why didn't you call back, why didn't you come by, why don't you like spending time with me, why did you break up with me and on and on! But God forbid if a lowly man wants to ask a question or wants a reason from a woman, then it's a complete turn around! I think men deserve at least a "no thanks", if nothing else!
montemonte: If a woman doesn't respond doesn't that mean "she's not interested:
Why do you need her to actually tell you she's not interested in you
The women and men on CS are under no obligation to respond to email, flowers or threads
I've been here a long time and I learned a long time ago that if I say.....thanks but no thanks....the man will write back and ask why
Then if I tell him why he will write again asking me to explain
So now 99% of the time I don't read email from men because I'm not interested in anyone but the man that is in my life
Got it????
Why do you need her to actually tell you she's not interested in you
The women and men on CS are under no obligation to respond to email, flowers or threads
I've been here a long time and I learned a long time ago that if I say.....thanks but no thanks....the man will write back and ask why
Then if I tell him why he will write again asking me to explain
So now 99% of the time I don't read email from men because I'm not interested in anyone but the man that is in my life
Got it????
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Circleofflame: Actually, I don't get it and after I find out what it's like, I probably would not have wanted it in the first place! If I sit down and take the time to write you a nice, well thought out email, why do I not deserve an answer? If you don't want to answer after you say "no thanks", fine. Women question everything: why didn't you write, why didn't you call back, why didn't you come by, why don't you like spending time with me, why did you break up with me and on and on! But God forbid if a lowly man wants to ask a question or wants a reason from a woman, then it's a complete turn around! I think men deserve at least a "no thanks", if nothing else!
Deserve's got nothing to do with it.
Especially in today's world where too many have an over inflated sense of entitlement and self importance.
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Internet connections are not like the REAL-WORLD ones.
Women here, being more cautious by nature, cannot respond to s.o./s.th. they don't know what it is.
Furthermore if they try to investigate it by reading your profile and respond you adequately, they will not know if the man was really interested in her/liked her or was just sending standard compliments/flowers to hundreds of women.
So it must be up to the man to make an investigation of a woman and start to persuade her. Which is also not realistic to be done since photos may be old, blurred, etc...time limits, etc. In other words - the magic of REAL encounter is not there.
REAL encounters are the only way. to all the brave women!
Women here, being more cautious by nature, cannot respond to s.o./s.th. they don't know what it is.
Furthermore if they try to investigate it by reading your profile and respond you adequately, they will not know if the man was really interested in her/liked her or was just sending standard compliments/flowers to hundreds of women.
So it must be up to the man to make an investigation of a woman and start to persuade her. Which is also not realistic to be done since photos may be old, blurred, etc...time limits, etc. In other words - the magic of REAL encounter is not there.
REAL encounters are the only way.
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I could not click an answer in poll, because many of the reasons are true. I read the profile of a man who sends me a message or flower. If he isn't a typical scammer, as there are many here and other dating sites, then depending if I think it is sincere flower or message and I am not interested for whatever reason, I DO send a quick no thanks but appreciate the compliment. That's just my belief in courtesy. Not every woman feels as I do. No actual rule on CS about answering mail. No reply, move on.
You know that there are ladies here who send mail to a man and get no reply also. Takes all kinds, and we got them here :danceline. Boring if everyone thought the same about everything. However I don't agree with plain rude for the sake of trying to boost 1 up, or making fun of a serious situation. Could do without them. Then again could do withouy them in the real world outside the computer. JMO
You know that there are ladies here who send mail to a man and get no reply also. Takes all kinds, and we got them here :danceline. Boring if everyone thought the same about everything. However I don't agree with plain rude for the sake of trying to boost 1 up, or making fun of a serious situation. Could do without them. Then again could do withouy them in the real world outside the computer. JMO
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montemonte: If a woman doesn't respond doesn't that mean "she's not interested:
Why do you need her to actually tell you she's not interested in you
The women and men on CS are under no obligation to respond to email, flowers or threads
I've been here a long time and I learned a long time ago that if I say.....thanks but no thanks....the man will write back and ask why
Then if I tell him why he will write again asking me to explain
So now 99% of the time I don't read email from men because I'm not interested in anyone but the man that is in my life
Got it????
Why do you need her to actually tell you she's not interested in you
The women and men on CS are under no obligation to respond to email, flowers or threads
I've been here a long time and I learned a long time ago that if I say.....thanks but no thanks....the man will write back and ask why
Then if I tell him why he will write again asking me to explain
So now 99% of the time I don't read email from men because I'm not interested in anyone but the man that is in my life
Got it????
To the OP:
Dating isn't easy!
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Furthermore, my feeling is that 90% of the women on such sites are really only for the compliments/flowers/attention they could receive from men.
And at least half of them have some man they're living with/dating with. See the posts above. So men, we must be really stupid to try out s.th. to be caught by Internet. to the other 10% of the women!
And at least half of them have some man they're living with/dating with. See the posts above. So men, we must be really stupid to try out s.th. to be caught by Internet.
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kyfan001: Cause women suck...
Men are better!
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Here, as well as on other sites: Ladies receive tons of messages everyday, it can be overwhelming. Was chatting with a lady on another site, she said that she has to delete two or three pages of mail everyday without glancing through them, just so she can deal with the situation and by deleting so much at once, it helps her to have a clear head about responding to the remaining half-ton of mail. You might be the greatest guy in the world, but your message might be discarded, due to the overload.
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They aren't obliged to respond.-So by not responding, means NO, please find someone else.
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CuddlingSoul: Here, as well as on other sites: Ladies receive tons of messages everyday, it can be overwhelming. Was chatting with a lady on another site, she said that she has to delete two or three pages of mail everyday without glancing through them, just so she can deal with the situation and by deleting so much at once, it helps her to have a clear head about responding to the remaining half-ton of mail. You might be the greatest guy in the world, but your message might be discarded, due to the overload.
That is why I never mailed any
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kyfan001: Cause women suck...
Diddums
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kyfan001: Cause women suck...
They do it so well
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Circleofflame: My poll is part serious because most of the women you write to on CS are not courteous enough to write you back! I, myself, would appreciate a response from each lady, even if it's, "no thanks" , or whatever. Most women say they want a nice guy, honest, with a sense of humor, yet when you write to them, they don't reply?! Why? I, and I think a lot of other guys, would really like to find out!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!
Looking at my mail, over 90% of guys who wrote to me in the start didn't have anything in common with what I was looking for on my profile. A POLITELY no, thank you, we have nothing in common often resulted in insults etc. so I stopped replying for the most part. I only reply if I think someone read my profile and didn't send a chain mail he sends to hundreds of other women.
It means that person isn't interested, move on, it happens to both genders.
BTW, I have filters in because I have no interest in receiving "compliments" of guys I don't know, because I just find that insincere. I have no problem "having a conversation", but if someone keeps emailing me back crap like constant insincere compliments, I will block.
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serene56: Sorry, I was having a bad day
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tomcatwarne: I thought coming from you that was a come on
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I thought you were only on here for the blogs and such? I didn't know you were interested in a relationship with anyone.
KNenagh: Looking at my mail, over 90% of guys who wrote to me in the start didn't have anything in common with what I was looking for on my profile. A POLITELY no, thank you, we have nothing in common often resulted in insults etc. so I stopped replying for the most part. I only reply if I think someone read my profile and didn't send a chain mail he sends to hundreds of other women.
It means that person isn't interested, move on, it happens to both genders.
BTW, I have filters in because I have no interest in receiving "compliments" of guys I don't know, because I just find that insincere. I have no problem "having a conversation", but if someone keeps emailing me back crap like constant insincere compliments, I will block.
It means that person isn't interested, move on, it happens to both genders.
BTW, I have filters in because I have no interest in receiving "compliments" of guys I don't know, because I just find that insincere. I have no problem "having a conversation", but if someone keeps emailing me back crap like constant insincere compliments, I will block.
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Circleofflame: I thought you were only on here for the blogs and such? I didn't know you were interested in a relationship with anyone.
When I started a while ago on CS I didn't know about forum and blogs and joined for the dating aspect.
Dating doesn't work for me here and I am not looking for a relationship on here (as in RL as I have too much going on at the minute) but I do enjoy participating in the forum and blogs.
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Why when you write women, why do they not write back?(Vote Below)
My poll is also humorous and sarcastic, for obvious reasons!