Why do we always let the best girls get away. (52)

Jan 23, 2014 8:47 PM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
MrRick77: You never had them to begin with.


I have to go with this. I don't care for a participating in a lot of Rick's polls but this statement is actually more accurate for me.

The best girls were most likely the ones I never tried with. In short, I chose wrong. I never had them to begin with. I'm not perfect or any more flawless than the next person. I should have payed closer attention with different criteria and observations from the start.
Jan 23, 2014 9:19 PM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Lurrk
LurrkLurrkGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK1 Threads 44 Posts
thumbs up
Jan 23, 2014 9:21 PM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Lurrk
LurrkLurrkGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK1 Threads 44 Posts
maybe hi do but she allway is free to go
Jan 25, 2014 6:13 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
niamatsarhadi
niamatsarhadiniamatsarhadirawalpindi, Punjab Pakistan1 Posts
wow nice picture
Jan 25, 2014 6:30 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I don't I let the dogs go.grin
Jan 25, 2014 6:45 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Having lost my best girlfriends along the way, I wonder why I am so stupid and just let them go all the time.


define best girls

and to answer see your thread a7rs france............look inside and you will find the answer
Jan 25, 2014 6:45 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
reigneth22june: Because we refused to understand that will need more income to keep them with us. Take back your life. Our program shows you how!


doh roll eyes
Jan 25, 2014 7:07 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
kaikoivu
kaikoivukaikoivutampere, Western Finland Finland16 Threads 217 Posts
I have been wondering the same issue, she was my first girlfriend after my divorce in 2005. After her has been some number of relationships which I all find not so good than that first one. But I know the answer although its easy to forget:
She was so much after her grand kids, it was really big thing. Me, could care less. Now I have a grand kid my own but I still think the same way, I will not begin a new tour with taking care of kids.

Happy weekend to everybody.
Jan 25, 2014 7:11 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Having lost my best girlfriends along the way, I wonder why I am so stupid and just let them go all the time.



maybe gravity, or at least its existence.dunno laugh
Feb 12, 2014 1:59 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Could it be that some of us are scared to be happy?
Feb 12, 2014 2:18 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Could it be that some of us are scared to be happy?


Not us.
Feb 12, 2014 4:31 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Having lost my best girlfriends along the way, I wonder why I am so stupid and just let them go all the time.


I don't get "the grass is always greener at the other side" attitude. When I make up my mind to be with someone, I never even looked at someone else. It has nothing that I have to force myself to do, it is just in my nature. BTW, I was very happy in my (few long-term) relationships.

No offence Roger and I'm just guessing - maybe it is just your nature and you either accept it, or do some soul searching. handshake
Feb 12, 2014 4:48 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Already doing some soul mate searching here i thought.

Or is that not what you meant?

angel
Feb 12, 2014 4:51 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Could it be that some of us are scared to be happy?

What is it about a happy relationship that scares you?
Feb 12, 2014 6:10 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
mzetoile
mzetoilemzetoileUnknown, Arkansas USA1 Threads 201 Posts
jac379: What is it about a happy relationship that scares you?

Perhaps he's scared of getting dumped once he's finally decided on "the one", as Karma for having dumped many girls in the past.
Feb 12, 2014 6:13 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
Bonjour Roger , comment allez-vous ? wave

you should see things differently, if i may say, if they've gone they were not the best for you ..... so just be thankful, grateful and happy for your experiences made you stronger and wiser, and then you'll be successful in your love life...my best wishes to you !!! handshake
Feb 12, 2014 6:17 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
Delatude
DelatudeDelatudeParis, Ile-de-France France649 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Having lost my best girlfriends along the way, I wonder why I am so stupid and just let them go all the time.


Could be your personality or your attitude toward the female gender? dunno grin



Good luck to you. cheers
Feb 12, 2014 6:30 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
I know that any great question has at least 3 answers.

So here are 3 of the possible ones:

1. We were too young and stupid. (I mean men.)

2. We were afraid to spoil the things that would have come.

3. We were thinking that being young lasts forever and so the beautiful young women themselves.

cheers
Feb 12, 2014 7:57 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Already doing some soul mate searching here i thought.

Or is that not what you meant?


Not exactly. wink laugh

It depends what you want - keep going like you do, or have a hard think about yourself and change some things about YOU. dunno Just speaking about myself, I just found that if I don't like something or something doesn't go well for me, I make changes myself.
Feb 12, 2014 8:07 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
unlaoised: What a nice post, Cuddles. Makes a change from the vitriole around at the moment. We learn some things as we mature, hopefully and maybe become a little less selfish in our relationships.
agree.
Feb 12, 2014 8:22 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Feb 12, 2014 11:05 AM CST Why do we always let the best girls get away.
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
Ya, I'm in my 2nd year of such a realization/turn and in my 4th in Internet site dating. I see some people are here for 8 years now and have posted thousands of posts. I'll rather build a wooden house somewhere near Paris and sell it for profit than spoil so much precious time. Will CS members come to do this together?
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