serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
bayareagirl: I've thought about it
If it is a real relationship, where your hearts beat only for eachother, it would be impossible for anyone to "steal" your partner...if that happened ,then it was never a True relationship in the first place (well,not one worth having anyway)
Not to my knowledge. Mate-stealing and pre-selection are not a turn on for me. I don't look at a girl and see she has a boyfriend(or that other men desire her), then want her more because of this. Her boyfriend would have to be a special kind of a**hole and she would have to be particularly hot for me to consider stealing her off him.
peachmelba: I would never step on another woman's toes where a man is concerned,,,.
Two "s company three is a crowd,..I don't think a man or woman can steal a partner from another unless they going to kidnap them,...or the person is having an affair behind the husband or wife's back but that isn't stealing its called being unfaithful,
Women: do you have a man? If you do, better beware. Chances are that some lone female has her eye on him.
A new study provides evidence for what many have long suspected: that single women are much keener on pursuing a man who's already taken than a singleton.
"The single women really, really liked the guy when he was taken," says Melissa Burkley of Oklahoma State University in Stillwater, who conducted the "mate-poaching" study with her colleague Jessica Parker...
"Everything was the same across all participants, except whether their ideal mate was already attached or not," says Burkley.
The most striking result was in the responses of single women. Offered a single man, 59 per cent were interested in pursuing a relationship. But when he was attached, 90 per cent said they were up for the chase.
Men were keenest on pursuing new mates, but weren't bothered whether their target was already attached or not. Attached women showed least interest and were slightly more drawn to single men"
Yes , yes I have For years my salt and pepper had sat side by side. Following each other around at times. Then one day the doctor told me I had to get rid of salt. Sooo you can guess what happened. I went to the shelf and threw salt out. I missed salt for a long time. But now it is just a memory. Pepper still looks kinda lonely sitting there
Happygolucky4u: Yes , yes I have For years my salt and pepper had sat side by side. Following each other around at times. Then one day the doctor told me I had to get rid of salt. Sooo you can guess what happened. I went to the shelf and threw salt out. I missed salt for a long time. But now it is just a memory. Pepper still looks kinda lonely sitting there
...I heard on the radio some months ago when a barman of a club said that single men would get a gold ring even if it wasn't real gold and place it on their wedding finger. As they got luckier,seemingly the modern woman of today dosnt want the emotional baggage of a relationship,...now I'm only saying what I heard on the grapevine...well what can I say different courses for different horses....
StedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK1,780 posts
bayareagirl: I've thought about it
It is all about temptation......
How many times have our eyes crossed this peak, this mountain that exists between us, the temptation of lust that we could seek, imagine if we get caught what about all the fuss,
Your eyes call and they tell me all, mine in kind respond to you so well, how will our friends react to this call, can we live with all the kiss and tell,
The power of your lusty scent, sends my senses all in a quiver, we cannot allow this, it is not meant, I need to step outside until in cold I shiver,
I cannot betray friendships trust, you need to concentrate more on him, I know if I yield their very heart will bust, to covert another is truly a sin,
I will just say hello as I normally do, you will respond to your husbands best friend in kind, as always I will wish the best for both of you, we have to put these temptations out of our mind.
No matter how great the feeling if it means someone else gets hurt..it is a No No.
rose1971: hiya! nasty day, the only difference between winter rain and summer one is that the later is warm. How are ya?
Heavy rain here too but sunshine now,..same yesterday and there was the nicest rainbow I've seen,,stretching as far as the eye could see,,.thete was two in fact,,,.
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