How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
Dead branch, forget about 'em and move on
Sad songs, gazing at old photos and alcohol help also
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
Dead branch, forget about 'em and move on
Sad songs, gazing at old photos and alcohol help also
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
I believe some people come into your life for a reason even if it is someone who has cut into your soul. We attract such hurt into our lives because it is a reminder that we need to do some healing of our own. Until we do we will keep attracting hurtful situations.
Just had this experience myself as I'm sure many others have too.
I've been hurt badly by someone who I truly loved. Initially I didn't realize how deep my pain was. I guess I didn't want to deal with it. Now I see it for what it is. I'm honest with myself and I remind myself of what happened because I never want to make that same mistake again. I want to truly love and be loved again.
In answer to your question. I would leave them and learn to love myself more before looking for love again.
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
I voted others,,, talk to the person,,not unless you express your deception, you will be bitter and sad for the rest of your existence,,whatever the result of your dialogue,, then you will be in a peace of mind whatever you decide to do as a move.
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
Lick my wounds and move on. One can choose to dwell and beat themselves up over whatever was done or said that was hurtful but a better choice would be to work towards healing by whatever means that brings healing to you.
2intrigued: Lick my wounds and move on. One can choose to dwell and beat themselves up over whatever was done or said that was hurtful but a better choice would be to work towards healing by whatever means that brings healing to you.
I can honestly say I didn't beat myself up over it thinking it was the end of the world. I reminded myself why it didn't work and considered myself lucky to be out of that relationship. And most of all, I enjoy my freedom.
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
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What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?(Vote Below)