What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul? ( Archived) (20)

Oct 30, 2015 7:39 PM CSTWhat do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?

What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?(Vote Below)

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You listen to music to console the minds
7
14%
You act back to her or him
5
10%
You leave the person
20
41%
You forgive and forget
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27%
Others ( explain )
4
8%
Total Votes
49
How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
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Nov 14, 2015 1:37 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
tultulmani
tultulmanitultulmanipom, National Capital Papua New Guinea1 Posts
Do unto others as they do unto you. just leave the person.
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Nov 14, 2015 2:13 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Leave..find someone that doesn't hurt you wine
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Nov 14, 2015 4:20 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Without knowing any details it's difficult to ascertain what one would do.

I would discuss with the person, firstly, how hurt I feel.

If you don't reach an understanding or are acknowledged with your hurt, then you move on.

Time is a wonderful healer.
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Nov 14, 2015 5:23 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Without knowing any details it's difficult to ascertain what one would do.

I would discuss with the person, firstly, how hurt I feel.

If you don't reach an understanding or are acknowledged with your hurt, then you move on.

Time is a wonderful healer.

Hi berry nice to have you back hug
Not me.. If someone hurts me that badly, no discussions, they must just leave me alone ... Forever
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Nov 14, 2015 12:39 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
I cry, i'm very softheartedcrying
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Nov 14, 2015 12:48 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
serena123: Hi berry nice to have you back
Not me.. If someone hurts me that badly, no discussions, they must just leave me alone ... Forever


Hi Serena....hug

Thank you....it's good to be back.

CS and I contemplated a divorce, but we're currently in reconciliation mode...laugh
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Nov 14, 2015 1:24 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Hi Serena....

Thank you....it's good to be back.

CS and I contemplated a divorce, but we're currently in reconciliation mode...

We've all been there hug teddybear
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Nov 14, 2015 1:27 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
uptall: I cry, i'm very softhearted

Awwwww comfort crying sorry to hear that ..
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Nov 14, 2015 10:15 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.


Dead branch, forget about 'em and move on conversing


Sad songs, gazing at old photos and alcohol help also giggle
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Nov 14, 2015 10:15 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.


Dead branch, forget about 'em and move on conversing


Sad songs, gazing at old photos and alcohol help also giggle
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Nov 14, 2015 10:36 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
serene56: Dead branch, forget about 'em and move on Sad songs, gazing at old photos and alcohol help also


And weed, lots of weed.
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Nov 15, 2015 8:42 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
Sevenup7
Sevenup7Sevenup7Bedford, Bedfordshire, England UK2 Posts
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
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Nov 15, 2015 8:47 AM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
Sevenup7
Sevenup7Sevenup7Bedford, Bedfordshire, England UK2 Posts
I believe some people come into your life for a reason even if it is someone who has cut into your soul. We attract such hurt into our lives because it is a reminder that we need to do some healing of our own. Until we do we will keep attracting hurtful situations.

Just had this experience myself as I'm sure many others have too.
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Nov 22, 2015 2:13 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
11ayna
11ayna11aynasumter, South Carolina USA1 Threads 6 Posts
I've been hurt badly by someone who I truly loved. Initially I didn't realize how deep my pain was. I guess I didn't want to deal with it. Now I see it for what it is. I'm honest with myself and I remind myself of what happened because I never want to make that same mistake again. I want to truly love and be loved again.

In answer to your question. I would leave them and learn to love myself more before looking for love again.
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Nov 22, 2015 2:41 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I just have a good cry and move one.
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Nov 22, 2015 2:59 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.



I voted others,,, talk to the person,,not unless you express your deception, you will be bitter and sad for the rest of your existence,,whatever the result of your dialogue,, then you will be in a peace of mind whatever you decide to do as a move.
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Nov 22, 2015 3:09 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.


Lick my wounds and move on. One can choose to dwell and beat themselves up over whatever was done or said that was hurtful but a better choice would be to work towards healing by whatever means that brings healing to you.
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Nov 22, 2015 4:04 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Cry and talk about it (not more than a couple of months)and get rid of every thing related to the person.




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Nov 22, 2015 11:51 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
2intrigued: Lick my wounds and move on. One can choose to dwell and beat themselves up over whatever was done or said that was hurtful but a better choice would be to work towards healing by whatever means that brings healing to you.



thumbs up I can honestly say I didn't beat myself up over it thinking it was the end of the world. I reminded myself why it didn't work and considered myself lucky to be out of that relationship. And most of all, I enjoy my freedom.
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Nov 22, 2015 11:53 PM CST What do you do when someone hurts you in a way that makes you feel it in your soul?
higmno: How do you control yourself. I listen to music, forgive and forget what happened and you start to build a new life. I take that as a challenge in my life.
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