Which first date do girls prefer? ( Archived) (32)

Depends if football is meant in the American way or the European way.

Any guy that calls football soccer should remain dateless for the rest of his life. A suitable punishment for incriminating the fine and bold sport that football is.

(and I don't mean the weird American one)

I actually managed to create total silence at Thanks Giving for telling my roommate's family that American Football was for gays and sissies (Rugby on the other hand is a man's sport!).

But I'm just "that weird European girl", so the order was restored (and my neck was saved) when the Dad of the family proclaimed that it was yet another proof that women knew nothing about anything important and could I please pass him the beer.

Gotta love The Dad.

I miss the Danish weather actually. Texas has too much dry dust (if there ever was such a thing as wet dust..?).

Just a quiet drink with no pressure or grand statements...

Well if we´re talking about online first dates then good breath has to be the priority for me. Whatñs the point of being onn an exciting or creative date when you have to keep turning away each time he opens his mouth....eeeww!

Oh and just as important is that he resembles his profile and picture.

Living in Florida gives you a lot of choices on things to do. I like to walk and talk. The Zoo is lol, if it is a day time date. At night the animals come out. Take her dancing

yeah pool is cool. a more friendly one and helps you feel more relaxed.

First date I let her pick the place, the time, and everything else. Want her to feel completely comfortable. If she is comfortable, then we can really get to know each other. Jmo.

dry!?!?...it's humid as hell here

a creative first date would win some points for the men. and it would be plus if the guy has nice smelling breath too. lol. i wanted to pick 2 answers but too bad we could only pick one. so i chose the creative and unique first date.

The kind of first date that gives her no other choice but to go on a second one

me too, I dont like pressure,-

I feel most comfortable if the date takes place where we were both into going to, say, a concert of music we're both into, or to see a gallery where art is shown we are both into.. or if all fails, a restaurant that sells food we are both into.
That breaks the ice right away and we have things to talk about other than just ourselves..

And as mentioned before, I dont feel comfortable if the guy pays on a first date, especially so if its a fancy restaurant or expensive concert etc. The pricier, the more I'd insist paying halves/each their own.

If you want to show your creativity, why not bring along a creative little gift.. a card, a trinket, something that shows you have been paying attention to who I am and what I like..

That would be the ideal way for me..



(Great thread.- Its good to read all the different ideas on the subject.. gets a few misunderstandings out the way maybe..)

First date - meet and grab a six pack then out to the junkyard with a twenty pound sledge to do some windshields. Second date, dress up, do a bottle of wine then off to the funeral home to attend some strangers service.

Kidding aside, one of the best ones was when I met this gal and after coffee showed her a job I was doing. My buddy let her play with the excavator to rip a few holes in the ground.

i think its nice to do something different. it doesnt necessarily mean more money. nobody tries walks or picnics anymore. get creative people, dont just go with spending big to impress

date Nr 3

Date? to be so lucky...aaahhhhh...for me would be fishing...walking....love car races, the midgets...most anything outdoors and nothing fancy...memories...yes..