is it wrong to date if you are seperated from the person you are married but still married ( Archived) (96)

Morning lovely lady

And a good morning to you, hope you are well.

I am doing well thank you..i hope you are doing just as well

Daughter is off to school so have a little time to myself, its sunny and looks to be a good day. I shall send some sunshine your way.

yeh my little one off to school as well..

husband off to work..

and me enjoying my morning coffee..and tks

you are a ray of sunshine

No it is not..............if your separated....................your seperated..............you don't and shouldn't need them paper to prove that.

I like the way you think!!

It's all about transparency and honesty!! Don't deceive and lead others on. Love is the most powerful force in the universe, no piece of paper or bad spouse is going to stop it!!

IMO I feel like you need to be divorced, and it is wrong to date, not because you might get back together... But when you start seeing someone else, and a relationship starts and it finally does start to happen,(divorce) then someone else in involved. Then they watch all this drama unravel and see you go through this...That chapter in your life needs to be finished before you start another one...like I said, JMO

I completely agree with you too!! That is why I don't date!

But, when the right one comes along and your in love, there is nothing that's going to stop it. You can't choose when that will happen. So, if it does happen and it's unavoidable, then the best you can do is not drag the poor loved one through your(separated or married person's) mud!! Sometimes you do what you can with the cards you have at hand. Things are never simply right and wrong or black and white. But I don't blame anyone for avoiding separated or married people!!

Think alot of couples stick around for the kids sake .....and that's a good thing !

Yup. If the parents can't pull off being civil then it's a lost cause ...........

The they should just screw once in a while for a grudge- F__k..

Yes - as long as you're honest about your circumstances (ie separated but not (yet) divorced - fine. Life is full of twists and surprises - live in the moment, not on what might be or what could happen. Yes, they might go back to their ex (and they still might do this even after a divorce - look at Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor!!), or you might decide in a few months time this person isn't for you after all, or they (or you) might run off with someone else altogether, or a plane might fall out of the sky onto your head and it becomes irrelevant who's dating who. The future can't be predicted or fixed.

Be honest, don't deceive or intentionally hurt anyone - and enjoy the moment.

"The course of true love never did run smooth..." - there are going to be bumps along the way whatever - and there's nothing you can do to stop that - so enjoy the good bits, and be prepared to hang onto your hat for the rough bits!

No I dont think its wrong at all. My profile clearly states that Im separated.

I'd be skeptical to get involved
with someone who was seperated
from their SO.

if u think that your relation is no chance to reconcile again,then u decide the best,just be honest to the man u wanna date to tell the situation u have..