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Question - what is a another word for male lover? I've gone blank. Want to say character A is character B's lover but I'm not crazy about the word at that point - too twee. Boyfriend is even wo...	1,180	60	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	May 5
Dumped Ouch. Look at that bruise, it will be a lulu. Funny mix of feelings, though. Mainly surprise ... but then he is VERY stubborn and so am I...	1,856	55	0	May 2015	May 2015	8 hrs ago
Foot in mouth disease - I need a cure Some days I read through the blogs, skipping the numpties, popping in to see what my favourites have to say, saying little myself, and enjoying CS soc...	1,152	44	0	Jan 2015	Jan 2015	May 3
The trick is to know exactly what you want. Do you? I realized the other day that I don't. I just want someone to offer me interesting options and wait anxiously for my careful consideration :ro...	1,373	44	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 3
Selfies There was a good definition of age on Twitter the other day. Calculate your age by the number of selfies you take, divided by the number you instantly...	1,308	40	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	15 hrs ago
A good photo Especially in my age group, guy photos need to tell a story. Most of the time, the story is 'my camera is out of focus' or 'I never used moisturizer o...	1,348	38	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 27
anyone got some Kindle suggestions? I was just adding books to my profile, will add a few more every day. It made me think, though, some of you travel a lot, you'd maybe have some sugges...	1,200	38	0	Jan 2015	Jan 2015	Apr 20
So what's worse? Old photo or no photo? Spotted a couple of recent blogs going on, yet again, about profiles with no pics. What do you think? does a twirl I'm not going to meet any...	870	34	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20

Advising a younger guy - So, this guy, early 40s (I know, that's younger, how sad, moving on) he's bright, funny, has good qualifications and a good job which he does well. Pl...	889	33	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	May 1
Nice from far - far from nice? The whole LDR thing seems to fall into different sections - ones where you never meet but have an entire relationship on line, ones where you have lon...	1,026	33	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 5
Hey! I just spent 3 hours tidying up a translation of a trade manual done by an Indian agency from German into English and that's a little too exciting. No...	1,253	30	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 6
I'm so shallow What the hell is love, anyway? I spent the best part of a year feeling more and more affectionate towards a guy and he was more and more affectionate...	1,058	29	0	May 2015	May 2016	May 5
when yes becomes no So you offered tea and she was like well, I’m not sure. So you said you’d start it and see how she felt but when you had, she decided not. A waste of...	720	27	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	May 2
If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one) I could jump five times my own height from a sitting position. I could groom myself whenever I didn't want to talk to somebo...	901	27	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 4
What? I have a soft side! It's hard when you miss people. But you know, if you miss them, it means you were lucky. It means you had someone special in your life, someone worth...	935	26	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 28
Start a jar Not always easy to remember all the good stuff that happens in a year. There was one suggestion I liked on Facebook ... write a quick note every t...	499	26	0	Dec 2014	Jan 2015	May 5
green-eyed monster I hate being told I'm jealous. I know I'm possessive. And controlling. And like things to go my way. But jealous? Jealousy is about being unreasonable...	657	25	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	May 5
Sunday night blues Is there ever any point to doing anything? In the long run? Does trying to do things change anything? Happy comes - and goes. Sad comes - and goes...	591	24	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 24
I went to a party last night Funny, when someone says they have been invited to dinner somewhere I instantly think delicious food, good company, and I turn green because I wasn't...	1,072	23	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	12 hrs ago
Eat anything you like. When you remember ... Two years ago my daughter announced she was getting married AND that she was inviting not only my ex’s platinum blonde American long-term lady friend...	870	23	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 6
smoking - the burning issue When I stopped for a year, my stress levels got hectic. Perfect world, I would smoke 2 or 3 a day and I vigorously defend my right to do just that. Th...	647	19	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 25

I would like to marry someone called Turner I'm by way of being a sort of writer. If Mr Turner would be kind enough to make me Mrs Turner, I could call myself Paige. I suppose I could just c...	651	19	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 24
procrastinating .. I have an attachment on an email received today which I don't want to open. It relates to some work I've done which will either be (a) just right (b)...	645	19	0	Aug 2014	Aug 2014	May 5
Hot debate, I need your vote So, he's getting texts and messages and phone calls and invitations and I don't know what all else, from women who have been in his life and are still...	584	19	0	Nov 2014	Dec 2014	May 3
I am 86% compatible with myself. Oops. Still laughing, I set up a quiz the other day just out of curiosity (just call me the Elephant's Child) and a CS friend took it, got 86% and sent me a...	405	18	0	Dec 2014	Dec 2014	May 4
Double standards If I slept with many men, people would call me a slut. But when a man sleeps with many women, people call him a real man. How come? Here's one...	964	18	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 1
Ciao for now This isn't a bowing-out blog because I really just want to change my name - the one and only thing CS does not allow us to change. Age, country of ori...	897	17	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	23 hrs ago
bah humbug So the NHS has scheduled my biopsy for 5 minutes before Christmas which not only means I can worry* about the results over the entire festive season,...	576	17	0	Dec 2014	Dec 2014	May 2
Honest descriptions Okay, I say this as a member who doesn't have a single pic up at the moment, bite me. But seriously, how accurate are the descriptions? How old ar...	742	17	0	Jul 2014	Jul 2014	May 5
happy birthday to me I decided a good while back - 10 years at LEAST - that I just prefer to be single and heart-free. I guess a few of us have decided that. Friends, fami...	745	17	0	Oct 2014	Oct 2014	Apr 26
over 45? test your alertness Fill in the missing letters to check your cognitive skills. People on CS do have a slight advantage because we are so usd to working round missng le...	444	17	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20

so confused I like knowing what I'll be doing and feeling tomorrow, and in a week's time and, unless the universe has other plans, in a year. Very soothing. Being...	489	16	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
Travel I used to love to travel. Canada, Australia, Africa, America, Europe, been there (bits of) and done that (most of). I still like exploring new places,...	949	16	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	May 5
Engaging in a relationship Best relationships of my life were my 3 engagements. I was married once and turned out to be really bad at it. (My brother described it as 3 arrests,...	575	15	0	May 2015	May 2015	May 1
Happy V-day to those who are taken, almost taken, taken for granted, waiting to be taken, assumed to be taken, and aren't taken seriously :transpor...	550	15	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	May 5
Job hunting? This scam arrived in my email today. Sharing because I thought it was worth alerting people. Anyone who IS job hunting gets soooooo many emails anyway...	969	15	0	Jan 2015	Jan 2015	5 hrs ago
laughing out loud I woke myself up this morning, I was laughing so much, after being flirted with outrageously in post after post in my dream version of social media. I...	568	15	0	Jan 2015	Jan 2015	Apr 28
Maths and love - there's a link - Ever looked at your X and wondered Y? Well, not so much a link as a joke. Algebra doesn't often make me laugh, but then I'm easily amused....	1,280	15	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 27
Another one gone I'm a bit saddened to see someone I was quite buddy with has closed his profile down and gone. He was meeting someone last weekend so with any luck th...	729	14	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	May 5
Living with a writer 1. Never, ever, ask when the book will be published 2. Don’t ask if they wish they had written the last best-seller 3. Never say you are thinkin...	539	14	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 27

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