I commend you. Many would not tell the truth. You are right that you were too young to know what you were doing. I would go as far as to say you were too young to even be involved with any one to begin with. But that is just me. I did not get involved until I was almost 21 and that was with my late husband after he propsed to me.
My late husband and I got a ride back to our apartment from The Best Man. John was so smashed from the Wedding his brothers and our Best Man all drove the gifts back to John's Apt. and then they carried Him in.
Our Best Man and all the other guys in the wedding party as well as other friends and family had searched in vain for my Husband's car. They wanted to put up a Just Married sign and some old circuit boards,(We were both EEAP Students), in liu of the cans or in addition to the cans, they had not decided.
My Husband and I had attended the Wedding of one of my Youngest Sister's friends. The rice was thrown the couple was wished well and in the car trying to go. . . But the car was jacked up just a liitle on all four wheels so when the guy put it in gear stepped on the gas and the wheels were the only things that went anywhere.
A few weeks before Our Wedding, one of My Sorority Sisters was married to a Fraternity Guy. My husband's Brother belonged to that Fraternity. He told us after they left, while we were all in the Church parking lot, that the Fraternity spread Limberger Cheese on the manifold. They, later, told us they spent the whole trip hanging out the windows on each side of the car.
John, saw a big block/or jar of Limberger Cheese in the fridge at his parents house,(nobody ate any of that kind of cheese in his family).
He also saw his Best man, a Classmate/Friend, Brothers, my Brothers, my Future Brothers-in-law and his Sister's Bf huddling and all of them taking turns asking him to let them park the car @ the Church.
So, with those two incidents fresh in our minds, John told me he was going to hide the car and asked if my G-d Father would give Him a ride to the Church, and My mother take me instead of My G-d Father.
My G-d Father and Mother agreed when we explained why. All those guys looked all over Campus, around my Sorority House and around John's Apartment and the side roads for our Car. I did not even know where John hid it.
The morning after our Wedding, The Best Man came by to Pick us up and take us to our already packed car so we could go on our Honeymoon.
Where did John park the car? At the Airport, My Policeman G-d Father helped him to park it.
Oh, Yes, cannot forget the Lavendar, sage, rosemary, fresh cut hay, and hayfields during the rain, jasmine, bergamont, citrus, thanks for the reminders, everyone.
Also, moonflowers; honeysuckle; Magnolias, don't know if they really smell good but I had a Aunt that had some perfume with the name, real nice smell; clean straw as you put it down in the stalls; any kind of baby animals; and believe it or not, Cooking spinach or asperagus-Yum!
I agree. I can not trust someone very fast, either. You can get along perfectly in internet media which insulates you from each other.
Yet, it is that first meeting that "casts some light onto the shadows" This will start showing the flaws.
Once the flaws start coming out, then comes the questions: Can we still get along? After that comes, Can I still love, or DO I still love this person, Sometimes it would even be DID I really ever Love this person? G-d help us if we ask ourselves WHAT did I ever see in this person?!?!
Cyber dating, is in reality, backwards because usually, you have answered these questions first in the RL dating, not last.
There are a few rare cases where a couple knows this the instant they meet. However for the most part, I think it would take ~ 3 months at the least to know for sure.
There is also that old adage Trust is earned not given. This requires action. Action is usually not going to be seen in Cyberspace only in person and often overt ime.
Hi guys I am not frustrated as he is returning Stateside next week. Then we will pick a time and place to meet but I am TERRIFIED! We get along perfectly in email, etc. BUT the real test is that in person meeting.
Welcome back. Enjoy yourself again. So glad to see you here.
As for the population, I live in a n area that has maybe ~ 5000 people. The County has a small library there that has very strange hours. I often drive to Campus , More than 32 miles or to the next largest City 17 miles to use the internet.
9/-7 with windchill making -10 to -20's below. The windchill advisory in effect until ~4am Sat. will also have off/on snow. then Sunday and for the ~ next 10 days climb back up to 20's. More comforters/Sleepingbags,etc anyone?
RE: your wedding night look like..?
Hi MF!