you have a way with words, feelings. What you just said brought more than a tear. Childhood, oh my God, many memories, some bittersweet. My grandma was my everything, didn't have a chance to show her my appreciation as I would have liked to and as she so much deserved. Otherwise, I remember stealing fruit from the neighbor's tree, catching butterflies, making raspberry suflee from our own raspberry bushes, milking cows, feeding the animals, digging up potatoes, ice skating and snow ball fights.....
RE: would you wait or move on
MSN or no MSN that's beside the point. Sounds like you're missing info. Give him a chance to come clean. If he doesn't, end it.