And I'd like to bet that he's gonna make you wait, cause he's gotten the impression that he can take his own sweet time making up his mind - while driving you crazy.
You are a wise woman Dru and you already know there is no alternative to doing what is best for YOU. You know what must be done. A heart that is big will always find love to fill it.
I was a complete saint in high school. Okay except for that one time they were throwing around one of my sneakers in class and I caught it but then accidentally broke a flourescent bulb on the cealing with it. Everyone scattered and left me holding the shoe....ANYWAY except for that one little incident - a complete saint.
Well dear if you've already made up your mind that we just go about lying for no reason then what is there for me to answer? Since that is not how I live I cannot answer that. Best to go to the liers themselves and ask why they do it.
Now Kitty you are the child's grandmother - not the mother. Its the mother's responsibility to deal with her child behaviour while she is in her care. Too many time we act like we are wonder woman and then others forget we have feeling and a life too. You seem like a bright vibrant woman, they need to understand you have a life to live too and it doesn't only amount to you watching grandbabies.
Are you even sure this thing happened? We have a little saying: Mouth mek to talk anything. Translation: People can say anything they want - especially here in cyberspace.
I think he should be honest about it. He is a human not a disability. His disabiliy is something he has to deal with but it is not the sum total of who he is. But he should allow people to make their choice. The thing is that there are many exceptional women out there who are quite capable of looking past this man's disability and into his heart.
I am sure they do. But these are not nice juicy details. I'm a decent person MOST of the times but they will see a very bad side to me if I met them and found out that their entire profile has been nothing but a lie.
If they contact me yes I am going to read it because I don;t want to waste time and we have nothing in common or they are not what I am looking for. I take great care in my profile and what you see is my best attempt to paint a picture without you having met me. The bottom line is this I don't like being lied to and so I return the curtesy of not lying in my profile. If I can take the time to do this I expect it of others. If I were to meet someone and finf that they had lied to me all along(wrong age, wrong weight, wrong height etc...)well....I'll just leave it at that no need to bore you guys with the gory details.
"Oh I'm a poor widower with a daughter, please send my your yahoo e-mail address, or and could you send me some cash with that for my poor sick mother who needs it for an operation. I really love you profile did you read mine? I know I am the love of your life".....and I could go on. Never met them but I know they are full of horse doo doo.
RE: Sommer and Captain starring in "Love is Selfish"
Okaaaay then.