One thing to keep in mind is that things don't just happen over night here. Everyone, men & women alike must be patient when searching for a partner. Some people searched very aggressively, even for years, nothing... and just when they learned to simply relax & enjoy the company of others in the forums did they find their "match". I can think of about 6 current CS couples who all had this happen.
Now, just a single word of advice from one of the longstanding CSers... if you do find you may have found your match, try to keep your personal business... well, personal. Once you become a public couple, many elements become added & some of them add undue stress to a tender relationship, in the blooming stages. This may account for why you do not actually see the couples. They've learned about this.
It's a very big place & the forums tend to be quite the heartbeat of it all. I hope you enjoy yourself here & find what you seek.
The fainting couch was made for women in Victorian England, especially since so many women in the 1800s wore corsets. Corsets kept a woman breathless, making it much more likely she would faint. Some homes, and hotels even had fainting rooms, where women could catch their breath on a fainting couch.
Get with the program. Physical differences no longer hinder females from doing male job or being affected by "ailments". You want to know what does... narrow minded thinking. Women no longer require 12 periods a year, to have fainting couches in their parlors or to hide in shame when they enter menopause. Come on... remember... 2008... you can do it.
I'm staring at a nice pile of tortellinis covered in homemade garlic & tomato sauce, topped with fresh reggiamo(sp?) cheese. ...pretty good, even cold.
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Adjusting to the CS forums? A thread for suggestions & questions.
First... let's all vote.