As Bod said, it's not gender-specific. Everybody has to carve their own niche. Putting labels like masculinity and femininity is just adding more pressure.
It has always been difficult to find your place in the world when young. It has always taken time and experience to feel comfortable about your role and place in the world.
I went to see a Cypriot film recently called Smuggling Hendrix. It is technically about a dog but really about the north/south divide and the ridiculousness of borders.
I could never judge a person's intelligence on the way they dress. I don't think that is a sign of intelligence- just good or bad taste. Before hearing them speak, generally I would have a fair idea from looking into their eyes.
There are plenty of cleaners here too. But I don't really need one. It's not that I can't or don't clean, it's just I can think of many things I'd prefer to do with my time.
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RE: I Love You because______
Did you not do this exact thread a couple of months ago?