I define dependance issues using the following chemistry model as an analogy.
Noble (or inert) gases are independant. They neither want more, nor will they give up, their electrons.
Ionic compounds are codependant, made from an element that needs an electron, and one that will give one of its electrons up.
Covalent compounds are interdependant. They are made up of compounds that are halfway between needing and giving (carbon is the most prevalent compound that's like this) and thus are willing to share their electrons between them to achieve balance.
That said, you can define it in any way you please. This just makes sense to me is all.
All I can say on this matter is that you both have your reasons, and they sound like good ones.
Love is a two way street, and I say to you both, have patience.
If its meant to be, time, and advice, and priorities mean very little. I took a chance a few years ago and made the big move. I understand now that it was a bad move, but I wouldn't trade the fact that I took the chance for anything.
Now I know what I need to focus on if the opportunity arises again. I understand that following our heart does not mean disengaging our brain.
They work together to create the best of both worlds.
Try to find a balance that will work for both of you. And time will take care of the rest.
I believe that the only reason it isn't legal here in the USA is the fact that industry lobbies against a renewable resource that would bankrupt them, using propaganda to sway the attitudes of the "moral" majority.
I don't know enough about the economic impact it would have on any other country but the USA, but I don't see any harm in it other than its threat to corporate and pharmaceutical interests.
Memories from a thousand years ago, Float on the edges of my mind. I saw us walking hand in hand, Along the shores of the river Rhine. Somewhere in between I lost you, But still you whisper in my ear, When I despair of ever finding you, You tell me from afar, "Do not fear, My darling, soon you'll find me, here."
You are my other wing, Without you I cannot fly. You are the music in my song, The one who makes me whole, The other half of my soul, Still singing when eternity is gone.
My love is a renawable resource, Powered by the sun in your smile. When I'm feeling down or unsure, Tender words from you are the cure. Like a flower seeking the sun, I turn to you, you're the only one. With the water of your laughter, I grow tall and strong and hale, With you by my side along this road, I can do anything I want but fail.
Galactic_bodhi Forum Posts (9,196)
RE: how long have you been single?
You can still count it on your fingers so thats not bad!TET