BerrySmoothie Forum Posts (4,733)

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

Is he? Well, you know more than I do Chris....

...and desperate? Not yet.... The post to Deb was made in jest.

I will admit I have a yearning to be with a man who I am compatible with. I don't entirely relish the idea of growing old alone.

I just haven't met him yet.

In the meantime, I am enjoying my own company. I'd rather be alone, than be unhappy/unfulfilled in a relationship.

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

True dat! <<<<<<< I know it ain't Christmas, but I just love this little fella.

I think he'll do for me tonight...

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

Ok sis...

Singledom it is...

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

I'm just about ready to take anything I can get.

I kid you not!

RE: Plastic surgery to enhance one's looks?

Each to their own.

Whatever turns them/people on, I guess.

...but, personally if a man who I was attracted to, suddenly announced he'd had a facelift, I'd find it a turn-off. Whatever happened to aging gracefully/naturally?

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

I just need one Deb...

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

@ 2intrigued...

...that's a funny wee man you got there...

RE: Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail?

No, it's not being rude.

It's simply saying I'm not interested in chatting.

I don't respond because when I have engaged, a refusal to continue chat, has often offended.

So, I take the kinder approach and don't respond. Most people get the message when I don't reply.

Sometimes, I must admit, I feel a bit of a meanie, but it works best for me.

RE: If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting

I don't call or text him. No response. It's apparent that for whatever reason there is just not enough interest in continuing.

I used to have trouble letting go, when men did this, but somebody, very wise, once said....don't ask for a post-mortem, because you'll never really be fully satisfied with the answer given, so I don't now. I just sever all contact and move on.

RE: What physical aspect are you attracted to?

The ayes have it!....first...

...then comes the smile
...his height
...and if he turns around, his butt...


He gets a rapid once-over perve(without him even realising)

RE: Fear!!

RE: what turns you on the quickest to new people

eyes, smile, a quiet inner confidence.

RE: coffin dodger

Hey, I could handle that....if it worked(waterproofing)

Re: a coffin....er....I could lay in one, if dared.

No, not yet ready to sleep in one...

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

Nite nite

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

@ Pete....I've just been teasin ya....

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

Yes, well, I still think a short stint in rehab will give you a clearer picture of who YOU really are...

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

Ok, I'll buy that, but that doesn't explain the "piggy" routine lately.

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

The ECT leaves one a bit vague for a bit....but really, that's what you'd be going in for....

RE: Cross-dressing:- Good Or Bad

Neither.

It just is.

RE: ?Are you good enough to get to Heaven

Have you ever considered rehab Pete?

RE: Do You Have Trouble Throwing Things Away?

RE: Do You Have Trouble Throwing Things Away?

oi..you...5 mins on naughty mat for you.

I've done my time there...

RE: Never Marrieds

Nah, not odd Jac....but not the norm, I guess.

All my friends and I had our sights set on getting married.

Totally deluded we were. Only one of the 4 of us school besties remains in a marriage. Two of us never got married at all.

...and your note....will still be tucked away somewhere, I bet.

I wouldn't have thrown it out.

RE: Let's Go Back In Time

Okay Okay....

Banished to the naughty mat....

RE: Never Marrieds

I make my own pizza.

You're welcome to share some of mine...

...and the popcorn "dump"....I dunno....it gave me a giggle....and the birds got fed....

RE: Let's Go Back In Time

I failed history.

Now I know why...

Sorry, people....as you were.

RE: Never Marrieds

NO!!!

No more popcorn.

ffs....I had enough popcorn dumped on my driveway yesterday to feed the entire CS forum....

Re: not marrying...

Yep, happy is all that matters...

RE: Never Marrieds

Nope. I never married either.

Yes, we had children and, yes, we exchanged rings in an unofficial engagement, but no, never walked down the aisle.

It's crazy isn't it....a lot of woman(myself included) dream of our big day. I did when I was little. The white flowing gown, the romance of it all. My father never got to walk his daughter down the aisle is my only regret.

We decided to invest the money we would've put into a ceremony on buying a property instead.

I still do believe exchanging of vows is important for those who choose to go down that path. It just didn't happen for me. Now, that I am older, the desire to get married has waned somewhat... It's not a priority at all.