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Thanks Selenite. I agree that it shouldn't depend on whether or not what was said/done affects you. And maybe, that's part of the difficulty in remaining neutral/non-judgemental.
Perfect! Tru, I couldn't have said it any better.
I think that that may be one of the keys to avoiding being 'judgey'. Consider the other person's situation or perspective, as a way of understanding their actions, and before making a 'judgement'.
CC, could that be looked at as making a judgement though, even if you don't confront the person?
Track, so are you saying that once what the person does "means nothing to me", then you could be non-judgy? Can't they do something that affects you, but you still not judge them?
We (Trinis) would call that "sweetening him up", to get him to do/keep him doing nice things for us.
Gal, "someone who doesn't care" sounds a bit harsh. Can't I care, but still not be be judgey/judgy?
Any of it every happened to you?
I'll just not have all of it at one time.
Really Stan, that's the thought that woke you up?
Sooo yummy-looking! Not sure about that being an aphrodisiac, but I think that just the sight of it may be a catalyst for diabetes.
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What does "not being judgy" sound like?
Maybe so, however one can be good, but still be 'judgey'.