Some advice please.....

Is anyone familiar with the use of Botox treatments for jaw-clenching/teeth-grinding issues? I'd like some advice please, preferably from persons who may have had the treatment themselves or know of persons who did.

Whilst I know 'some' things about it, the insights drawn from actual experience is very valuable to me. Thanks much.love

RE: Thoughts and prayers...

Happy belated b/day Daneparty hat

RE: Intelligent world VS dumb world.

"Simple as reality."

Thing is....there's nothing "simple" about reality, just as there's nothing "simple" about this topic/forum titleinnocent sigh smile

RE: Intelligent world VS dumb world.

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RE: Intelligent world VS dumb world.

Humbly, this conversation attaches a derogatory meaning to persons who may not have an 'expected' level of cognitive/mental capacity as others who consider themselves "intelligent" might. It mentions nothing of the fact that their 'lack' may be due to significant causes, nor that there are various levels of intelligence wherein they may fall, only the apparent 'discomfort' that lack casts on others. It's purpose offers no 'crediting' to any except to those who esteem themselves as being "intelligent".

RE: Intelligent world VS dumb world.

IMHO, it is distasteful and unconscionable to have a general discussion which labels human beings as "dumb", when the truth is that there a different levels of intelligence and anyone could be "dumb" or "intelligent" about different things in different situations.

Even the most well-educated/knowledgeable/intelligent person could be prone to making dumb decisions, but then "dumb" should refer to the decisions, not the person. For example, it is said that "Intelligent women have a tendency to make poor (dumb) decisions when it come to love and relationships.

It has been my observation that persons perceived as "dumb" are usually labelled such by those who consider themselves to be "intelligent", much like some are labelled as "poor" by those who consider themselves wealthy/better off. A question of perspective?hmmm

Certainly, if one is truly intelligent, one would realize and appreciate the fact that without the varied levels of intelligence that has been, and continue to be an integral part of life, there would still be a big boring blob of self-consumed "intellectuals" whose conversations revolve around "Intelligent world vs dumb world".

How intelligent is that?hmmm

HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO MAKE A GOOD/GREAT ‘FIRST IMPRESSION’ (esp. in the dating game)?

That's important for sure. But can't you be yourself AND make a good/great first impression at the same time?smile hmmm

HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO MAKE A GOOD/GREAT ‘FIRST IMPRESSION’ (esp. in the dating game)?

That's assuming that you told any......innocent

HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO MAKE A GOOD/GREAT ‘FIRST IMPRESSION’ (esp. in the dating game)?

I think that you are right, but I also think that the reason women may do so is based in Intuition and Self-preservation. Standards are usually different for women than they are for men...

HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO MAKE A GOOD/GREAT ‘FIRST IMPRESSION’ (esp. in the dating game)?

Yes. Some first impressions can be false... AND dangerous too:(

HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO MAKE A GOOD/GREAT ‘FIRST IMPRESSION’ (esp. in the dating game)?


So true CC....that's so true. But sometimes that judgement might be rightsigh

RE: Please state your psychological emergency!

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Could you like/not like/hate someone that you don't know?

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Could you like/not like/hate someone that you don't know?

So true....

What about you needs the most upgrade (physically) ?

That's funny, but sad...:(

What about you needs the most upgrade (physically) ?

Lucky girlbeer

RE: What turns you off

Well said...:)

RE: What turns you off

I'm turned off by a man who's lazy about his personal hygiene/health and appearance (e.g. breath and teeth, body odor, nails and clothing, etc), a tendency to talk about himself but not showing much interest in getting to know about me, and who demonstrates a lack of chivalry.

RE: The date was going well, until...

The date was going well, until... the bill was set on the table between us and just then I realized that I might have to help him do the dishesrolling on the floor laughing

What about you needs the most upgrade (physically) ?

I need to upgrade my joints, it takes a bit to warm up my joints these days..[/qu

Lol! I know just what you mean:)

Could it really be "back to normal", now that Covid is no longer a serious threat?

Perhaps you're assuming that I'm interested in making the world a better place.innocent roll eyes hmmm

RE: How do you handle finances when you are in a M relationship?

Glad to know that. It's good to know that some people exercise good ethical behaviour concerning other people's finances.thumbs up

RE: How do you handle finances when you are in a M relationship?

"Separate bank accounts with bills shared 50/50 with separate investments and charities"


I've had the unfortunate experience of sharing a joint account with my now ex-husband, as well as heard about other women who'd lost their savings at the hands of their respective spouses. It is not something that I wish on any one else (and maybe, not even my worst enemy).

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.



I agree. I would think it unfair to be otherwise...thumbs up

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

So, are you suggesting that I NOT expect a gentleman to be generous, or is it that men think that "generous" only refers to money?

A generous person is one who enjoys sharing his/her time, knowledge, space, physical and emotional substance, and his other resources (money included). It is 'who' the person IS, not merely 'what' he/she has or does.

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

I'd like to think that someone who's "gentlemanly" and "kind" would also be preconditioned to be generous, without even an expectation from me though :)

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

Oh my...I see your pointhmmm

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

Why is that Galrads?confused

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

He has to be gentlemanly - respectful, kind, patient, caring - have a good sense of humour, pragmatic, God fearing and resourceful. I don't think that this is too much of ask forwine blushing

RE: What qualities are you looking for in a possible partner.

I don't think that these classify as "qualities", but I do agree that are realistic requirementslaugh thumbs up

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