I think most of us women talk averages Scout... we know what's in our mail boxes.. no offense intended, but reality is that most of these guys are hit and runners, so of course you build up a callous, whether you want to or not.
Which means that good guys like you pay the price for the other low down dogs... don't take it personally or be offended because someone seems to not see your honorable self right off the bat, just make an effort to understand our predicament and go slow and patient with the ladies if they seem standoffish... there's good reason for it.... we've already been burned a time or two.
Isn't the old saying, "Cheat me once, shame on you... but cheat me twice, shame on me"... for being a gullible idiot, no?
But some could call that delusional in the real world.
I believe our government is run by the global elite... who push, pay and pull, manipulating for what is profitable. Honor, 'rocks' of government, morals and non manipulated individual votes whether physically or thru carefully programmed propaganda ... things of a bygone era and certainly don't mirror the reality of our situation.
Not sure about before Bubba..... be he certainly will be made an example of NOW. But he's been in a borderline trade for most of his life... I imagine he's considered the risks, if not he'd be very naive wouldn't you say? But I don't think he is for a minute.
I doubt I'd quibble over it.... we have a few couples who met here or other places and both still post... simply altering their profiles to reflect their new status.
No big deal.... considering that I find the whole internet dating thing dubious at best... I doubt I'd be demanding it or expecting it to be demanded of me. It's an alternate universe.
A bit tacky and commitment phobic.. but what's new? That seems to be the nature of the cyberworld at present, wrong is right and the old right took a hike.
Ok sweetie... I was actually married to a sailor and divorced over it.. it's like not being married to tell the truth.
Had my last kid at 41, wished I'd done it sooner as, what can I say, I'd of been freer sooner... sometimes life is just like that.. piss poor timing . But I got the whole grama thing and I can still outwalk the lazy sod, who's 19 going on 20 this year.
Just remember.... having kids is no walk in the park and it's not fair to push everything onto the younger mom either. Stand up and hold your own... or leave it be, there can be other ways to get a kid ya know... plenty of them in need. And you could enjoy them faster too.
takes some of em that long to grow up... and then they can die without having to live thru their kids teenage years... another cop out for the fainthearted.
RE: Guys who want younger women................
Doesn't mean we want to go down without a fight tho.