Maybe 'scared' isn't the word I'd use... more like for some, 'cross yourself 3 times and throw salt over your left shoulder'... WE remind them of their self chosen demon exs.
Personally I don't like boys... they're boring, take a MAN any day. So I'm always a bit bemused by the fixation of some older men towards younger women... and think for the most part they have always been and will always be terrible lovers, because all they care about are body parts and appearances.
Truly confident men who like and are comfortable with women, are usually great lovers and tend to choose around their peer group... same experiences and experience (cause we've figured it out and... know what the hell we're doing .. as well as gotten over the boring hangups)... those guys are appreciative of a WHOLE woman as pleasurable company in and out of bed.
I'm sure there are as many variables as people.. but patterns do arise and seem pretty marked, online anyway.
It might have to do with women having kids.... you learn there is always enough love for another.... and another . You know your heart can grow big enough to fit them all.
Now now... that is not the correct attitude my boy... remember you said you would shower them with love and kisses...? Well this is the price you pay... verbalization. You HAVE to talk back at them and pretend you're following along.
Love Indian food... but very hard to come by here , have to make my own.... fortunately have found a very good Pakistani store that has most of what I need.
RE: Guys who want younger women................
Well where were you in your 30s?