Ahhh.... what a big sappy softy... you mean those divorced church ladies haven't swooped down on ya yet, find that kinda hard to believe ? Loved your midgy little doggie .
Well everyone has their personal zone of acceptability. Probably as Jan said, easier for youngsters than oldsters who are entrenched in houses, extended families, jobs etc.
I gave this a try years back... which is why I decided on the 2 week meetup rule if within the same country , and up to a month if on the same continent... couldn't be bothered with farther as it's a logistical nightmare for most.
Just my humble opinion... but it's easier said than done.
Guess it depends on how much you are willing to change your life to accommodate another person.... if you're not, then no don't bother.
I think you have to be the kind of person who can find a home in someones heart... then there are no barriers other than the ones you yourselves create together.
Ah sorry... the rubbish bin remark was from Antjo.. I'm still waking up here .
Diabolito only time will tell, if she keeps wanting to see you.. see where it goes, that's all you can do. You'll never know until you make the effort to find out.
Bit harsh don't you think? You had fun with her and now it's the rubbish bin?
Be in the moment Diabolito.... if you like her and you want her, go after her... you're young, she's young... nothing is cut in stone at this point. If she turns out to have been just a friendly evening or two.. and that's it... say goodbye, simple as that.
Live, dive in, take risks! Who knows what may happen in the long run?
Then again, maybe you've answered your own question.
Indeed.... NOT YOUR FAULT! Just the way it is hun . Most of the men online are not looking for any sort of relationship unless of course Angelina Jolie happens to skip by and falls head over heals and flatters them to death.... then they'd be ready to settle down with the little woman.
.... clue: nobody sees the dust. Hint: warm bulbs and catch yourself when you're on the way out.
Yah know? At this point I don't give a rats patootie... all they want's a lay anyway, but I can grease paint and keep the lights dim enough for that on occasion.. they really don't care, bird in hand and all that.
And that's a damn shame ... haven't been around long enough to have this happen to me...but don't they track back the thread to confirm where it went awry? Guess it's a time consumer right?
But then I've never put up with tattle tales or sneaks... slithery little wretches.
RE: Guys here on CS have a lot to be optimistic here !
.... or maybe it was the green card after all