gininitaly Forum Posts (2,454)

RE: Love at first sight - Is there such a thing?

Good points Amenda .

RE: Recipe for disaster

I think it has a lot to do with how your parents behaved... if they were happy together... you don't fear the possibility, if you saw constant strife... you fear it might happen to you.
Our reality is based on our personal experiences... whether wrong or right, you either grow beyond it or you can't.

RE: Love at first sight - Is there such a thing?

Nope, not to me anyway.... tho there have been a few lusts at first sight that were fun.

RE: CHANGES

You wouldn't know the joys if you hadn't endured the sorrows and tribulations.

That's the difference between an optimist and a pessimist I suppose... if some pain makes you retreat from living your life to the fullest possible, you get stuck in fear.
I guess I simply refuse to be fearful of things that won't kill me and have the added benefit of bringing those delicious moments of bliss that make living all worthwhile.

RE: CHANGES

Life is change.
Be fluid.... learn, evolve, grow.

“When you're finished changing, you're finished.”
Benjamin Franklin

RE: Would you date a Ginger?

I've always been curious about why the Brits have all this negative fuss about redheads.... could someone explain it? No souls??? That's just weird... and silly.

RE: being nice does not work

Point taken .

RE: Is There Something Wrong In The World Today?

Yeah... and they are organizing a police state/world for their benefit.

RE: I THINK I MAY HAVE HIT THE DATING JACKPOT!!!!

You should... it really is magical, like nowhere else on earth.
As you get closer, let me know and I can help with logistics if you like?

RE: want to be treated like a lady

Absolutely right on!

RE: Only Native English Speaker... Do you speak an other language?

Italian, French, understand most of Spanish, some Romanian... and some English/Scots/Irish accents (depending on where they're from ). Then again lived in Wales for 6 months... and couldn't learn a word of Welsh.

RE: I THINK I MAY HAVE HIT THE DATING JACKPOT!!!!

You are welcome to a day in Venice too.... drop on by ... avoid August at all cost however, gets really crowded and stinky.

RE: Would you give your email or talk to someone that will not post a picture on here?

oh yeah, and I do that before giving out my precious email address.

RE: Would you give your email or talk to someone that will not post a picture on here?

Sure, if there is a real interest.. I do a control cam on a messenger in real time.... some folks have high profile jobs etc, so it's not necessarily a lying frog issue. Better than endless typing with no visual connect.

Hey it ain't real til it's in real time, with real people.

RE: I THINK I MAY HAVE HIT THE DATING JACKPOT!!!!

Ohh my... the very best of luck to you Leo dear ... hope it keeps getting better and better

RE: being nice does not work

Make that the last century and a half... time flies

RE: being nice does not work

Just came back from dinner with friends... and am really happy to see the direction the thread has taken... good on ya guys !




Yeah I believe that too .. after watching years of friends go thru the hot and cold of all that madness ... but they do grow up and get over it eventually... well most of em.

Which is why I thought the guy needed some acknowledgement, as he was on the hot seat for voicing real concerns about his place up to now on the planet, honesty does not deserve to be flamed.

I personally don't think you are depressive or a whinger... just voicing the facts of your life as you know them... and I think you have every right to do that here without a bunch of people, who don't even know you.. pouncing thoughtlessly.

Hope some of the suggestions have been of help?

RE: being nice does not work

Ok Jac, must've skimmed over your post the first time... nicely put .

RE: Marriages come & go.......

Actually... at this point... me too.

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

Fascintating .... hope you're right!

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

Beautiful poem JeanM.

Think I've got a bit of both goin' on there, depends on the day.

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

Well there's a lifes aspiration for ya, that'll end up in a limp willy.

But you're cute ... sure a smile at the 7/11 is enough?

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

RE: HOw many of you are looking but too set in their ways to trust or bother again??

Ditto for men 50 and over ... or they're married and pretending not.

RE: Gender Pay Gap

Some interesting stats:

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

Only if you like sleepin' in it .

RE: Childhood Dreams, We've all had them.

Darlin'... you're 22, you will be rewriting yourself many times before your boat comes home to shore... but keep pondering and reflecting, makes for much more interesting people who actually learn to know themselves. Good job.

RE: Would you live with a man again?

Then again..... it get complicated.

RE: Would you live with a man again?

Exactly right on Ray.... seems like many are stuck in the pain and forget to dance or consider that dancin' is always an option if you choose it.

RE: Is it better

Naahhh.... it's a choice, you either can or ya can't sweet cheeks...