symbolistartist Forum Posts (761)

RE: I NEED HELP ASAP

Liakos, I truly don't understand what you're obsessed about? That's just normal religious "inspirational writing" as they call it. Why is it so offensive to you?

RE: I NEED HELP ASAP

Hm ok I admit I didn't read all the replies, only the first two. Well can't say much, many people are a bit lost in space.

RE: Honestly???

Yeah you learn a thing or two about life here too, but I really should go out and enjoy the short summer even if it might be a lonely one... make the best of the situation. Thanks for the support by the way! Cheers!

RE: ARE MEN DIFFERENT?

Hey there, how positively lovely of you! I have no idea why you're blocked, other women have written to me... is it your age? I'll see what I can do!

RE: an sos to the world ..

Hm, no contradiction there as far as I can see... I was asking! Don't you worry your male head too much, us women are not easy to grasp even by ourselves!

RE: I Need Help!

Ok I hope this will get your self-esteem up a bit because without it you don't stand a chance! Now most of us are actually in the same boat... look around... would we be sending meaningless posts to meaningless forums if we had gotten lucky? I know... some still do but I don't think I'd be bothered or have time to...

Plenty of guys wrote when I was new, now they ignore me completely. My standards are high. So one problem most definitely is either having very high standards, or very low once so you don't catch anyone's attention. Try and find something to write that would stand out as original - I haven't read your profile I'm just giving a general sort of advice

RE: I Need Help!

Oh... I thought the rope and ladder was for HIM

RE: How many women are seriously online seeking a relationship??

You know the adage that sometimes when we try to hard and seem desperate what we want escapes us. So I'm trying to forget about all the disappointing cases this year and not "want" a soul mate that bad. So maybe a good thing there are forums here too.

RE: I NEED HELP ASAP

Yes I saw the lady write a post about not being able to expresss herself freely, I do find that a bit sad. After all, she wasn't exactly preaching, just expressing her sentiments.

RE: DOES ANYBODY WISH THEY COULD TRAVEL BACK IN TIME WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU HAD A TIME TRAVEL MACHINE

Hey there, hadn't noticed your questions before. You've been sadly absent! Truth to say your questions kept me going, now I have more trouble fitting in again

I had the history of English architecture shoved down my throat when I was studying there, it was mildly useless with some exceptions... I was only interested in history at school, as it was the basis for other forms of information. I like to enjoy the heritage and the wonderful atmosphere of old things, and movies set in historical times are intriguing. But that's about it... And you?

RE: a genie

VERY sad to hear that too... very sorry

RE: ARE MEN DIFFERENT?

There were some excellent points made already; IMHO because I'm not a mom and only took care of a kid for a few years, I do think there are more things affecting children these days than moms working. The peer pressure, all the advertising for kids and all the junk that is being offered in terms of toxic or useless foods and stupid toys is enormous. I don't see kids in Scandinavia being any more disturbed than anywhere else, in fact in my country it has been said that children become independent much faster than in many other countries. And what about Italy where men live at home until old age unless they find a spouse... And I certainly agree that it wasn't necessarily much better in the old days when dad would have the right to beat the crap out of the kids... I mean in terms of home environment. It's up to each and everyone to install values such as helping to clean the house and being well mannered.

RE: an sos to the world ..

Thank you Guiri... as I said, I'm getting used to taking male advice online... it's slightly disturbing by you're probably right. I just see my years pass me by and I'm not doing anything right!

RE: Why do some women intimidate men?

A good answer in a nut shell, and from a man. I feel that I intimidate men. They wonder if they can meet up with my standards. They don't trust that they have a lot of complimentary qualities... men also like to be looked up to a lot of the time I think, and so if you come across as intelligent and witty they feel competitive... this is a real serious problem for me. But then I do have certain standards, that's true. Only they may not be quite what a man thinks they are...
IMO most men are not humble enough to want to learn from a woman either... that kind of makes the relationship pointless a lot of the time.

RE: We found each other here

How wonderful to hear a happy story! Well, if you cancel the account it will still remain; I did and then it mysteriously reappeared when I came back. So I don't know if there's a way of making it final... ask the mods.

RE: an sos to the world ..

Ah good for you, nice profile! But your age range makes it safe for me to be obnoxious, annoying and provocative I believe now I should go so I don't annoy others again... now overbearing is a description I'm sensitive about...

RE: a genie

good one, rather fundamental

RE: Honestly???

Have to admit though... if things were really good I wouldn't spend my time here on these forums... ya know what I mean...

RE: Honestly???

Hiya! I do tend to "not hold my tongue" and it's getting me into perpetual trouble.. eeek!

RE: Honestly???

Hm, you don't get the distinction...? Well dishonest is the opposite of both kind and unkind honesty... Don't agree?? Of course it sounds a bit daft since you can't have kind and unkind dishonesty... or maybe you can?

RE: an sos to the world ..

Nooo... should I?

RE: an sos to the world ..

Granted, I probably behave as if I had nothing to lose myself, maybe it's the name of the game so we won't go potty for real?

RE: an sos to the world ..

I'm afraid we're digressing from the original topic here but that's the sense I get from anyone who ventures to these forums... I simply don't feel that anyone is really looking here... only in the privacy of their profiles. Or then I am just scary or off putting in other ways...

RE: Age Range for dating?

Sigh, I wish I could say the same but so far maturity is a myth that I've heard of once upon a time...

RE: Sense of humors or looks?

I can point in the direction of where he lives in case you ever want to go and leave your wish list in person This country; up North; Korvatunturi.

RE: an sos to the world ..

No really I'm very grateful, all this is serving my phd dissertation, the new revolutionary book that will make Mars and Venus look like lavatory literature and also my quest for the PERFECT man

RE: an sos to the world ..

Ahaha, I would avoid that in real life but here I get a sneak view of what guys REALLY think when they have nothing to lose!

RE: Honestly???

Look, there's honest and honest. You can be brutal and insensitive which is just plain stupid or you can be kind and gentle and considerate. Honesty doesn't mean you have to spill out every detail that annoys you about the other person. Argh!

RE: Honestly???

Oh absolutely Gem, I ask for an honest man too but it doesn't HAVE to mean I am not honest myself. Projection is just an option and sometimes helps to understand why some people end up attacking us or not be what they claimed to be. But you know that already don't you

RE: an sos to the world ..

Well that's good... I guess I take your word for a gospel wherever else do I get to hear such honest male opinions in my life?