I have never been to Malta so I would just be generalising if I said one way or the other.But if I was living in Malta and in a dating site I would say god yes,because every women there would be in easy reach as its such a small place. Come to think of it,I could move there!
One of the first girlfriends I dumped was when I was 17 and she was 19.We worked together and we dated for about 4 weeks.I told her that I felt too young to get too involved,which was true. However I did not mention the fact that her boyfriend was due out of prison in a weeks time for GBH and ABH with intent!! But I still fely bad.
Sorry somechick.Maybe I misread what you ment. What I think is that I do think occassionaly at de-ja-vu moments about past experiences in relationships and try to use that as a tool. I never mope about past relationships once im over it. I agree too that its pointless and counter productive to bring too much old baggage into a new relationship.
Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it? Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating? Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Back in 1991 I had moved to the countryside near London from Norther England.I had met the women who later became my ex wife and on her 18th Birthday we organised a big party.So,through our connections I hired out a function room as well as a DJ and a fantastic buffet for about 200 people. The venue was only about 5 miles away from where we lived but what she did not tell me was that another girl from the village had her own 18th party on the same evening,and her party was being held at her house so most locals had a choice of that party or travelling to ours. Only about 50 turned up and most of them I had never met before. It cost me a fortune!!!
Because it is quite offputting to constantly be in fear of hearing.." Col,you are so bloody obvious that your embarrassing.But your eyes back in your head" !!!
My friend your getting the dates so it is not like you can not attract them with your looks and personality. You and they are young and you simply have to except that most young people fall in and out of love quite often simply due to them not often knowing what they want as well as them not wanting to settle down too early-maybe try to be less intense? From what I see you have a bright future in your trade and you have everything going for you. In years to come maybe those girls will look back and go "damn,did I make a big mistake". But whatever. Just enjoy your dating and don't take the attitude that the next one will be "the one".
Fair play to the man for acknowledging that his question smacks or a little insecurity. The fact that you have done that is very commendable because many people are to proud to hold there hands up to anything.
That is just the young lady venting the fact that she wasted her time for so long on him and her answering that will have no baring on how she views what she wants now! Everyone is entitled to learn from there past.Moreso such a young person. Maybe she will want to reply but sometimes it is best to be subtle or wait for voluntary expantion. I am sure she is lovely and the last thing she needs is to be scared about explaining herself. We need more younger people posting in here without fear. There must be a reason they do not?
I have just read your profile and you seem like a lovely young lady.You have all of your life ahead of you and I am sure that when you find the right man you will make him very happy. But in the mean time just enjoy yourself as much as you can and find the things that make you happy. Good luck Serene.
I think that for many of us being in a dating site allows us to slowly gain confidence in relationships after the last one failed. The downside of being in a dating site is that for some it is like being on a ride that they find difficulty in get off. JMO
There are many different aspects of belief in yourself re-confidences. Just because your can paint or add up or make or use your body to achieve it does not make you believe in yourself-only one or a number of aspects of your self belief. Some people take only one aspect of themselves that they are not confident in and allow it to cripple them. All my argument is that we can believe in ourselves without pretending to be positive all of the time. To me that is unreal.
There another one goes. How about not fitting into a croud like you are soft plastic and instead believing in yourself and just being you? Unbelievable bullchit!!!
Sometimes the level of thought proccesses in this site makes me feel negative given the school yard relpies! I worked with a wonderfull lady who was very religious and spouted wonderfully positive words from the bible all the time to customers and workmates.But they were no use at all. That was demonstrated by her total lack of any reasonable reply when they said "yes but...." Positivity has to have some reasonable merit behind it. Otherwise you just appear stupid and not in touch with reality!!
It is one thing feeling positive about yourself due to an inbuilt stregnth and realisation that you are a good person etc. It is another thing pretending to only see the sun shining!!
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RE: If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Would I? What I would be is flabbergasted that I waited for HER to suggest it first!!!