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Is it fair to auto delete anyone from Thailand and other dodgy places?

Yes they are.But my options are open because there are people posting in these forums who live wherever they live who I am quite happy to hear from.
You do not join a forum to only be open to other posters from the area you live in do you?
Or do YOU?
dunno
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RE: Would you come to my flat if i asked you too?

Right I will not go searching for that explanation.

Is it fair to auto delete anyone from Thailand and other dodgy places?

I could have replied in more detail to both of your replies to me.
But as you have clearly stated that you are only looking for a man in either the USA or the UK then you can hardly accuse me with even an modicum of conviction that I am unfairly writing people off.
But to reply to that I have always made it clear that I was never in here seeking a relationship predominantly,and if I did meet someone then it would take a lot for me to meet someone thats not in my country.

RE: Would you come to my flat if i asked you too?

But what did you do for the grand finale?
cheering

RE: Would you come to my flat if i asked you too?

No.
You have not long grown hair you can sit on.
If your pics are true then why advertise yourself in here when your so young?
Your new here yet your posting an op from the off?
You are simply not old enough for to appriciate what a 40* man could offer as apposed to the things that float your boat for any legnth of time.
But crack on.



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RE: Would you come to my flat if i asked you too?

Hello dillydally.
Welcome back.
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RE: If someone you didnt know aske dyou to go round there house or flat would you go?

Do you mean simple walk around there abode then go home? No hint of even a nice cup of tea?
Are you after an estimate here?
Im not in the building trade but ill have a bloody good look at it for you!!
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RE: Torture me

Sicillian necktie?
dunno

RE: Torture me

You are 49 years old.You will change?
As this and other posts that you have made indicate,it is not so much that you really want to change,its the fact that your male pride has took a knock.She has refused to except your explanations.

You are right,none of us are perfect.We all flirt from time to time with more than one to some extent in a dating site.
For her you have overstepped the mark of what she sees as exceptable.
Demanding in a number of ops and posts like you have done over a day or so seems a bit too controlling and manipulative.
Back off and leave her to think now.
If she is willing to then let her get back to you in her time.
BTW:
You Sir are a very very very naughty boy!!


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RE: when life gets you down...

In here you can start off by having a bloody good talk about things with one of your CS friends.
It is amazing the things you can not quite talk openly and candidly about with real life friends and family,yet you can do with an online friend!
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RE: Sassy's Good Bye Coffee Thread

What a lovely goodbye message and a one that is supported by very valid reasons.
I wish you the best of health Sassy and while your gone I hope that yoy find that emotional match of yours then come back simply to say you have him right her next to you.
Take care.
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RE: Why oh why?

I do message and when our messaging becomes like a tennis match then ill ask if it would not be easier to use pm or msn/yahoo?
But i will never just presume,ill ask first.

RE: How often should a man pay for the date?

Personally I like to show how genuinly interested I am once we have got to having a date,even though a first date for me is more like chat friends meeting for the first time-no pressures.
If I have it and she does not have it then it is my shout.But I respect my dates wishes,and if she insists then we work something out.
Im old fashioned in that way but with a bit of modern mixed in.

RE: so what's your reason

I am here because I was given a very long ban from my last forum.I simply googled and this was the first forum I looked at with enough members to keep posting interesting enough for me.
I find it much more stimulating than watching tv as watching tv too much is not socially interactive at all.
I did not take the dating part of this site seriously at all,yet since joining here I have met someone who is very special.

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RE: Say something about the topic given

If brains were butter I would not have enough to grease a frying pan!
Tongues...

RE: Why oh why?

The chances of me cold instant messaging anyone is none.
I think that it is very intrusive and presumtious of me to Im someone without getting there approval first and I very rarely ask.

RE: Im still waiting for my princess

I am crying here.Your words touched me so much that right now I would rather be a women and fall at your feet!
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RE: Do Men Consider Women Over 40 All Washed Up?

Actually Robert I find a womens battle scares,streach marks and body parts that there insecure about very endearing.
And those parts usually end up getting more attention in bed than they probably warrent.
I am not a perfect physical specimen (my legs could be chunkier and I can now pinch 2 inches around my bellie etc..)
A positive of getting older is that most do not expect physical perfection in there partner!
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RE: Do you Find it Hard to Type When...

Git!!!
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RE: Do you Find it Hard to Type When...

I hope that you two are well also my friends.
Stay happy.
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RE: Do you Find it Hard to Type When...

I love that your in a happy relationship but this post just smacks of bragging!
There is too much of" I am married to someone I met in here.." and "I am in a relationship with ... "
It is fine if it is relivent to the op,but it just stinks of bragging rights!
We know.Keep it to private messages now,all of you in LT relationships.
This is full of people looking for what you have got.
Flirting and getting together is good to witness,but there is overkill!
Sorry.I had too.
And I am your friend.
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professor
cheers

RE: changes

Sorry but I just had too!!
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teddybear

RE: changes

Bloody hell.I knew that tampons have improved over the years from old cloths but them tampering with womens physiology is too bloody much.
Is it your government conspiring to controll the birth rate in your country due to resession?
dunno

RE: why

On topic...
Your a young lady who is unfortunatly not with your childs father.
hug
Young men around about your age group have all there life ahead of them and can choose when they want too to settle down and have there own family.
It will take a very special and excepting man your sort of age that will love you for you and except your child as his too.
That is more likely to happen in real life because of his attraction to your personality.
But there is always hope where ever you look.
Remember that you have just as many years ahead of you as well.
Besides,you are an attractive young lady.
Good luck.

RE: why

It did not bother me at all when my ex wife had kids.
But after the second child I slipped the midwife a whole bundle on money and asked her to add a few extra stitches while she was at it!!
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The Frog and the Prince..What is a Frog to you and what is a Prince?

I understand and agree with you.I have know some pretty beautifull women socially and at work etc that I have struggled to speek comprehensively too at first but after getting to know I hardly gave a second glance too.
Yet there has been some pretty average women who made my heart skip a beat whenever ive seen them,but at at first I hardly knew they were there.
But online we are so restricted by how both we and they come across that its so easy to let them just walk by.

RE: Do Men Consider Women Over 40 All Washed Up?

Some women of all ages look all washed up.
In fact this women looked so much like a beached whale while sunbathing at my local beach that I had to move her on in case she was culled!!!
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The Frog and the Prince..What is a Frog to you and what is a Prince?

Frog and The Prince.What is your idea of a Frog and What is your idea of a Prince?
Can a Frog turn out to actually be a Prince and can a Prince turn out to actually be a Frog?
What is your thoughts and experiences?

dunno

RE: Being in a adult movie being sold on the internet and other places

Bloody hello,nothing changes.
They all were laughing back then too!
crying

RE: Is it because i am a single parent.......

PPS:
Yes I did mean "tats"
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